I've got this one plate I've been gaming for we'll say 3-6 months. A few months in she asked when we'd be more then FWB's and since she's been telling her friends we're a couple I went along with it. She's cool and all and possibly LTR material but I still have my doubts. So I keep other chicks around just in case.
Anyways, even though she insists on spending lots of time with me and considers me her boyfriend, tells all of her friends that we're a couple and even introduced me to a lot of her family I noticed she hasn't updated her MySpace or Facebook relationship status. Now she's not a frequent online junkie or anything but I'm pretty sure she checks it at least twice a week or so. She even has the facebook mobile thing to inform her of new messages.
Not sure if it was a mistake or not, but I mentioned to her a few days ago that I tried to update my status and it wouldn't let me due to an error(I was just "fishing" I guess?) and she kinda just shrugged it off acting like she wasn't sure what the problem was and didn't mention anything about her own status. Is this a red flag? Even though I'm a dog myself, I kinda like keeping my chicks in check. Should I be concerned that she doesn't even attempt to update?
When she first asked about being exclusive I told her I thought she wanted to keep her options open and she claimed she just wanted to be with me. Women lie and all, but I just have a hunch this chick really does want to be with me yet I find it hard to trust her at all(I think because I'm not being totally honest with her either)
Anyways, even though she insists on spending lots of time with me and considers me her boyfriend, tells all of her friends that we're a couple and even introduced me to a lot of her family I noticed she hasn't updated her MySpace or Facebook relationship status. Now she's not a frequent online junkie or anything but I'm pretty sure she checks it at least twice a week or so. She even has the facebook mobile thing to inform her of new messages.
Not sure if it was a mistake or not, but I mentioned to her a few days ago that I tried to update my status and it wouldn't let me due to an error(I was just "fishing" I guess?) and she kinda just shrugged it off acting like she wasn't sure what the problem was and didn't mention anything about her own status. Is this a red flag? Even though I'm a dog myself, I kinda like keeping my chicks in check. Should I be concerned that she doesn't even attempt to update?
When she first asked about being exclusive I told her I thought she wanted to keep her options open and she claimed she just wanted to be with me. Women lie and all, but I just have a hunch this chick really does want to be with me yet I find it hard to trust her at all(I think because I'm not being totally honest with her either)