Chick admits it - women settle because they can't get the guy they really want, and will leave husband in a heartbeat if something better comes along

[BaronOfHair]

Sex diminishes greatly after getting married (ask almost any married guy) and in many cases comes to a grinding halt (15-20% of all marriages are sexless). Other people quit taking care of themselves or even caring because "I'm married, what does it matter."

Could there be a connection between folks not looking after themselves once married and so many unions becoming sexless? This is a greater mystery than a question such as: "Does colonialism bear some(Though certainly not all)responsibility fot the so-called 3rd World being a violent, repressive shi-hole today?"

 

[BaronOfHair]

Is there a recourse for men who want to get married and start a family? Got any tips?

A couple of social revisions that would make life a bit saner, albeit not perfect


-More of us getting serious about agitating for shared parenting legislation to be made the law of the land. As the terrific Ned Holstein has pointed out https://soundcloud.com/bax-obrien%2Fned-holstein-founder-and-chair-of-the-national-parents-organizaion this would drastically diminish the incentives many women currently have to broadside their unsuspecting husband's with a divorce. By agitating, I mean knocking on doors out in reality, and drumming up public support for the cause, rather than persisting with the moronic and gainless approach we've been employing for the past decade... Wailing "B-tches won't quit being crazy!!!" on Youtube, and pretending that sort of junior high-level performance art brings us any closer to enjoying freer, more vibrant lives than the ones we enjoy now

-Getting honest with ourselves and each other, about what marriage REALLY is, in Post-Industrial nations such as ours... A status signifier for both men and women alike(It demonstrates that you've attained The Good Life)and a deterrent to the entire nation degenerating into a clone of Sub-Saharan Africa https://www.sos-usa.org/about-us/where-we-work/africa/aids-in-africa#:~:text=Sexual Behavior: The polygamy and,often have changing sexual partners.

Wide-spread public recognition that "bougey" mores(Upward mobility, marriage, and monagamish* living included)exist for the express purpose of reducing chaos in our day to day lives, and not to fulfill the fantasies Disney has contaminated our minds with, just might encourage folks to start treating marriage like the serious business that it is, rather than entertainment

All of which ties into a chat we were having earlier in this thread https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...thing-better-comes-along.282363/#post-3121867 We've all become way too juvenile and informal these days. A social atmosphere where a large percentage of the male population now thinks it's cool to look and act like either characters out of a Judd Apatow flick or extras on a Young Thug video, and a substantial number of women now believe it's acceptable to look and act like the neighborhood skank or Chanty Binx = An atmosphere where marriages frequently happen off the cuff, then conclude diasterously a relatively short time later


*Yeah, human beings have never been perfect on this front, and we'll never be. Our current zeitgeist is one in which acting on whatever whim we're experiencing is now venerated as some form of higher wisdom though. Again, that makes for a society where folks rush into marriage, star popping out babies, then end up in the midst of an acrimonious divorce a few years later an all-too-frequent occurrence

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Other people quit taking care of themselves or even caring because "I'm married, what does it matter."

I made that mistake with catastrophic consequences.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I made that mistake with catastrophic consequences.

Sadly, many of us are now doing this, BEFORE we've even walked down the aisle https://intellectualtakeout.org/2018/06/how-did-america-become-a-nation-of-slobs/ Most men don't realize that failing to practice basic self-care makes them unattractive to EVERYONE, not just women they'd like to bone

Cause for potential optimism: The historical record does indicate that this("Letting yourself go is cool!!!! Looksmaxxing is for Normies!!!")is a cyclical phenomena

https://www.newsweek.com/have-we-become-nation-slobs-185096

Just as the Grunge aesthetic blissfully petered out by the late 90s-early 2000s, Neckbeard&Instathot Chic will evaporate at some point also. The advent of Zendaya, Sydney Sweeney, Glenn Powell, and Austin Butler all suggests that we're regaining our appreciation for being well-kempt and healthy looking once again

 

[BaronOfHair]

...and to act like retards and children with no consequences

And let's finally stop trying to erase the words "retard" and "retarded" from the lexicon. For those of us who grew up in The 90s and all decades prior, it hurt to be called such things, and that was to everyone's benefit... This set a baseline standard for what is and is not socially acceptable

Whatever good intentions the notion of being "non-judgmental" began with, it's created a social environment where acting like a f-cking moron 24/7 is now considered A-OK, and anyone who dares to say out loud "That has a corrosive effect on both the individual and the larger civilization" is automatically labelled a TradCon

 

[SW15]

Sex diminishes greatly after getting married (ask almost any married guy) and in many cases comes to a grinding halt (15-20% of all marriages are sexless)

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Options 3 and 6 from this list would likely create the best sex lives for men within the framework of monogamy. Those options are basically being in the boyfriend - girlfriend phase forever (Option 6) or having very strong seduction game (Option 3 - Be a Player Forever). The typical mid-tier normie guy might do better in Option 6 as a serial monogamist in boyfriend - girlfriend relationships that he changes out every 2-5 years.

 

[Gamisch]

It's funny that every man can basically be both at the same time. You can simultaneously ve the boring dude Kimberly settled with, while Jessica always views you as the unavailable azzhole who got away.

Women don't understand that we also settle. Heck , 99%of the time a woman will have AT LEAST 10 red flags but we sugar coat it untill the turd taste somewhat acceptable.

All I know is that at this point I don't even understand why any man would settle for a woman who settles with him.

 

[BaronOfHair]

All I know is that at this point I don't even understand why any man would settle for a woman who settles with him.

For all the problems in The System, we men haven't been helping ourselves, by "settling" for filth that isn't even fit to be in the dumpster. If even 40% of the male population were to say out loud: "Ladies, we're raising our personal standards by

-Shaving off our neckbeards

-Getting rid of our gunts

-Trading in our ironic T-Shirts for Hugo Boss and Tom Ford

-Communicating in Standard English, rather than either fluent Ebonics or Manosphere jargon

Now, it's incumbent on you all to do likewise, by not walking through the streets as if you're working them, and laying off the Intersectional Feminist jargon"

Life would improve remarkably. The fact that 50 Shades Of Grey and 365 Days are multi-billion dollar franchises makes it pretty obvious that, even in these Woke times we live in, women are thirsty for firm masculine guidance

 

[Manure Spherian]

And let's finally stop trying to erase the words "retard" and "retarded" from the lexicon. For those of us who grew up in The 90s and all decades prior, it hurt to be called such things, and that was to everyone's benefit... This set a baseline standard for what is and is not socially acceptable

Whatever good intentions the notion of being "non-judgmental" began with, it's created a social environment where acting like a f-cking moron 24/7 is now considered A-OK, and anyone who dares to say out loud "That has a corrosive effect on both the individual and the larger civilization" is automatically labelled a TradCon

Spot on. Lol at trad cons. Yeah, reciting Biblical laws and morality is gonna convince all those morons on podcasts like Whatever are gonna make women change. JFL.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Spot on. Lol at trad cons. Yeah, reciting Biblical laws and morality is gonna convince all those morons on podcasts like Whatever are gonna make women change. JFL.

Reciting Biblical laws won't have much effect, and frankly, no sane person wants a world where any book written by humans is mistaken for The Truth. That said, more of men regularly saying out loud words to the effect of: "Ladies, if you want a decent husband who will be a reliable father to your kids, stop emulating Cardi B and The Kardashian Sisters" just might incentivize women to modify their ways. Not just for us, but for the sake of this planet we all share

 

[BaronOfHair]

Finding women who engage in regular self-reflection, and who cultivate their minds with material such as

(Especially everything said between 15:00-17:35 22:00-23:12 24:20-24:50 33:48-34:25) , rather than getting their entire perspective from Julia Fox's podcast, drastically reduces the level of melodrama a man invites into his existence, right off the bat

Yeah, one has to hunt around for high-quality women like these, just as one has to hunt around for well-paying employers who treat their workers respectfully, nutritious food, etc etc. Such is life

And we could use more women with this level https://dailybruin.com/2000/08/20/vague-sexual-lines-need-defini of intellectual firepower

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

In order to attract, you have to be attractive. If you make yourself unattractive, you will not attract.

 

[Solomon]

Yup, this does happen.

Even though the cat’s out of the bag, men aren’t going to put women in line any time soon.

Considering the aims of most on this board, I’ve often wondered why anyone wants good behavior from women. You do know that what it takes to correct women would render game, pump-and-dump, and casual screwing dead, right?

You frequently post such videos. Have you thought about what is necessary and what had been done for much of history to stop female anti-social behavior?

The OP always post these "ragebait" videos, it gets RP youtubers a lot of views cause it's meant to get men riled up
Men don't want to do anything, this is why I don't take "MGTOW" youtube channels seriously. 99% of their videos are just about complaining about women or putting clips up like the one OP posted and stating the obvious half the time it's not even a real person giving commentary anymore but an AI voice. If you ask MGTOW or RP channels why are there no videos on finance, working out, prepping etc. The content creators will tell you that their analytics state that those videos don't do well or ignore you.

I always wondered what's the end goal with the RP, cause it went from men's self-improvement to now having podcasts with women going back and forth with dorks to having the biggest content creator being a female (Pearlythings) in 2024 the redpill is a joke and now has turned into a gimmick, especially on youtube. The fact that Pearlythings was able to thrive at one point and got the most followers speaks volume

Reciting Biblical laws won't have much effect, and frankly, no sane person wants a world where any book written by humans is mistaken for The Truth. That said, more of men regularly saying out loud words to the effect of: "Ladies, if you want a decent husband who will be a reliable father to your kids, stop emulating Cardi B and The Kardashian Sisters" just might incentivize women to modify their ways. Not just for us, but for the sake of this planet we all share

From 1899-1960 the divorce rate in America never went above 14%. RPers have this mythical fantasy about women in the 1950s cause they were "better". However, men were better too. The reality is in the 1960s once they took the bibles out of schools(and gave women the pill) the moral fiber of the country hasn't been the same since. Now I'm not going to be facetious and say it's JUST cause they took the bibles out. What I'm saying is, once the 1960s started the moral decay of America accelerated and by turning her back on God, things went to shyt rapidly. Most RPers claim to want good women yet still live Hedonistic as well.

 

[BaronOfHair]

From 1899-1960 the divorce rate in America never went above 14%. RPers have this mythical fantasy about women in the 1950s cause they were "better". However, men were better too. The reality is in the 1960s once they took the bibles out of schools(and gave women the pill) the moral fiber of the country hasn't been the same since. Now I'm not going to be facetious and say it's JUST cause they took the bibles out. What I'm saying is, once the 1960s started the moral decay of America accelerated and by turning her back on God, things went to shyt rapidly. Most RPers claim to want good women yet still live Hedonistic as well.

Yeah, those eras in which we burned our fellow humans alive, kept several million more in chains, and launched genocidal Crusades against so-called heretics like The Cathars(All because a passage or two Scripture condones such atrocities)were the undisputed apogee of human morality

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Yeah, those eras in which we burned our fellow humans alive, kept several million more in chains, and launched genocidal Crusades against so-called heretics like The Cathars(All because a passage or two Scripture condones such atrocities)were the undisputed apogee of human morality

 

[MatureDJ]

Sex diminishes greatly after getting married (ask almost any married guy) and in many cases comes to a grinding halt (15-20% of all marriages are sexless).

It's OVER for GrindingHaltCels.

 

[MatureDJ]

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