Most men simply lack charm.
Women want to be with you when they feel good in your company. Women freely have sex with you when that means they can be in your company. When you're great company, women have no problem sharing you and neither do they care about what car you drive or if you make enough to provide the lap of luxury.
Totally agree with this, this is why I'm baffled when you see people continue to push this narrative of looks, money and status. but never mention anything about having charm, wit, or ability to banter with women.
You ever seen these redpill podcasts? the hosts spew a bunch of numbers and logic to women, however, these guys have the personalities of a robot. A lot of guys who struggle with women don't have a personality that is engaging, fun or flirty. I've met a few gamers (including of this site) back in the day. A lot of guys struggle to have fun engaging conversation! Some of the guys I met were good-looking guys, I remember one good-looking guy who never approached women infield just online(cause he had major AA and also lacked confidence in that aspect). He would settle for girls far below his SMV when doing OLD but when we hit the field and I showed him some things he got girls that he liked. Not sure what he's up to these days
It's actually the opposite, you can't believe that some of us pull the nice ones without having to brag about running a company, money, etc. just by being normal and cool guys. If you're millionaire, good for you, good job, but remember that you're the one watching pua videos on Youtube, crying and asking for advice about your ex. and writing posts abour your neediness with women etc. Not me.
And suddenly you're alpha man who bangs 10s everyday.
If you used to bang 3 new chix with 10bucks in your pocket, what keeps you from doing the same with 1M bucks? Stop the BS.
Be humble, girls like that
It's hard to believe for guys who were dorks or not cool all their lives that there are guys like my 35-year-old buddy living at their parent's house, that can pull girls. A lot of guys that are rich, especially at a young age were nerds in school,
I'm not saying OP is I'm just saying if you meet a millionaire who is in his late 20s or 30s most likely he was or is a nerd. I have seen guys who were nerds in high school transform to cool guys by the time they were in their 30s. It's rare though it takes a lot of work and most men right now don't want to put in the work not just with women but in general! To a lot of guys who struggle with women they just can't believe that you can pull a woman by being charming, having confidence, having rizz etc
I remember 10-15 years ago guys were
motivated to go out and get their women issues handled. Now men are defeated. Guys doing 500-1000 approaches a year wasn't uncommon during those times(2008-2014) now people will call you a liar if you say you do that. It's a different era for men, I agree spam approaching is outdated in certain parts of the world,
however, it's the mentality to go after what you want that is timeless. A lot of guys don't have that edge to want to succeed at all costs not just with women but in life hence a lot of guys live at home with their parents, are struggling with money, struggling with women, are underweight or fat etc.. The Redpill gurus are telling young men to be
"High value" but
the truth is 80% of men will never make it, so they are sending you on a dummy mission and you will be forever buying their courses and clicking on their youtube video.
That’s what’s so annoying about some Red Pill guys. Analyzing everything will not make you happy and you will not always be able to analyze situations or people the right way.
while you could have a great time with a woman you will act stupid and try to act „alpha“ all the time for example.
I think it’s good for a lot of men to know the basics of gender dynamics but getting lost in it won’t be helpful.
This is true, to many guys get in their head and this is recipe for failure. I always went out with the intention to have fun, I analyzed things I could have done better but me having fun when approaching women was always first and foremost. A lot of guys just are keyboard jockies and in 2024 it's easier to tell than ever