Well i've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and since we have entered college, things has been rough between us. It could be my insecurities from knowing how us college males are, or actual facts about why i feel that I think something is going on.
1. She claims she sleeps a lot. Which was fine but my phone calls and text do not wake her. I've seen her active on the phone as if she can not live without it. Also with us both being freshmen I wonder why she does not want to explore the campus like most of us or hang out with her boyfriend...just "sleeps"
2. We barely be together and when we do it seem fake. She says its because i hurt her feelings because it was a few times the suspense of here cheating brought rage out of me. So I've did everything to make her feel comfortable but the talk about why she do not want to see me is still the same.
3. Some guy really wants her. a few guys wants her and some i know off or have spoken to while being on campus. Some guy supposily "stalks" her also telling her how he is going to take my place. The other guys who want her that i have spoken to while on campus she still say hi to even tho behind close doors when im not around he wants her...or got her.
4. She says everything to make me feel bad for saying "I dont trust her" taking away sex, and emotionless.
5. Look through her phone while she was sleep and she had a few guys say "Goodmorning" including a dude i know for a fact back at home wants her as her own. Maybe 3 or 4 guys and i am friends with 3 its still weird they are given her a good morning even though they are good friends with her. The last guy wants her to be his and said goodmorning to her also the day before i checked. I looked at her texts it was all messages sent to me (as though she erased her replies to them)
6. He C/A wants to date her also. He tried to tell her i was around campus sleeping around and made it obvious he was interested. she says she tries to avoid him. But has the guy number and he texted her about a situation that happened. Im not sure if the C/A gets to take the residents numbers because my past 2 C/A's never thought about asking are floor about the giving them are numbers.
7. Facebook. She express how she feeling on fb. So if i made her smile or angry she will like a page. Well she just "liked" a page about being called "gorgous" by someone. I never called her that so who did? She majority gets along with males so i wouldnt be surprised.
Help me please because im lost.
1. She claims she sleeps a lot. Which was fine but my phone calls and text do not wake her. I've seen her active on the phone as if she can not live without it. Also with us both being freshmen I wonder why she does not want to explore the campus like most of us or hang out with her boyfriend...just "sleeps"
2. We barely be together and when we do it seem fake. She says its because i hurt her feelings because it was a few times the suspense of here cheating brought rage out of me. So I've did everything to make her feel comfortable but the talk about why she do not want to see me is still the same.
3. Some guy really wants her. a few guys wants her and some i know off or have spoken to while being on campus. Some guy supposily "stalks" her also telling her how he is going to take my place. The other guys who want her that i have spoken to while on campus she still say hi to even tho behind close doors when im not around he wants her...or got her.
4. She says everything to make me feel bad for saying "I dont trust her" taking away sex, and emotionless.
5. Look through her phone while she was sleep and she had a few guys say "Goodmorning" including a dude i know for a fact back at home wants her as her own. Maybe 3 or 4 guys and i am friends with 3 its still weird they are given her a good morning even though they are good friends with her. The last guy wants her to be his and said goodmorning to her also the day before i checked. I looked at her texts it was all messages sent to me (as though she erased her replies to them)
6. He C/A wants to date her also. He tried to tell her i was around campus sleeping around and made it obvious he was interested. she says she tries to avoid him. But has the guy number and he texted her about a situation that happened. Im not sure if the C/A gets to take the residents numbers because my past 2 C/A's never thought about asking are floor about the giving them are numbers.
7. Facebook. She express how she feeling on fb. So if i made her smile or angry she will like a page. Well she just "liked" a page about being called "gorgous" by someone. I never called her that so who did? She majority gets along with males so i wouldnt be surprised.
Help me please because im lost.