My 2c...
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Cheating is not neither wrong or right, it just is.
Cheating in all cases is
wrong in my opinion... there is NO excuse for cheating. And someone pulling into you when u are drunk out of your mind is not considered cheating, unless you actually kiss/f*ck them back etc.
If you are in a relationship, no matter if its serious or not, cheating is wrong and shouldnt be done in any degree and/or circumstance.
BUT
ESPECIALLY if you are in a long term relationship, cheating is really out of the question when it comes to it being "ok" or not. If you cheat on your partner, then you obviously dont love them, and normally in a LTR you love your partner, or at least come CLOSE to loving them, so cjeating in a LTR means that 1) u dont love your partner, and 2) you arte ying to your partner and building up more pain in the future, when u DO break your partners heart.
Overall... cheatin is a very stupid thing, and its a very shallow thing to do, and personally, i dont have much respect for people that think that its "ok" to cheat, no matter WHAT relationship you are in, as long as you are bound to another person, you CANNOT be with someone else.
borntoblossom said:
do women cheat more often than men do?
Well... women are more likely to do so because of the fact that they do not have to put as much effort into getting with another guy as a guy hasd to when wanting to get with another girl... its normally the men that make the moves on the women...
But on the other hand, women are more "rational" when it comes to this kind of thing, because they have more "self control".
Eg: If a hot babe came up to a man in a club, and his gf was not there, and this hot babe tried to kiss the guy, chances are, that he wouldnt pull away, unless he really IS a loyal guy, and sadly, there arent many of them around anymore
BUT
If a hot guy came up to a girl in a club, and her bf wasnt there, and the guy pulled into her, the chances of her pulling away are greater than the chances of the guy pulling away from the hot babe.
I know that this is true because of the fact that i have seen in with my friends etc, and i have read about this sort of situation in other sources and places.
borntoblossom said:
Is it alright to cheat as long as you don`t get caught?
Cheating is never "alright!"
borntoblossom said:
And why do people cheat?...
People cheat for a few reasons....
1) They get bored with their bf/gf and feel the need for something new/different.
2) For the fun of it
3) If the person does not take his current relationship seriously and doesnt care if it ends
4) Temptation - So the person might not be the kind of person that would cheat, but if the opportunity arises, then he/she will take it because of poor seld/dicipline and/or lack of self control.
5) They are drunk and are unaware of what they are fully doing, but are still in the state of mind where they know that they are cheating, but just dont care and do it anyways because of the fact that they can use the "i was drunk" excuse afterwards.
6) If the person has just had a fight with his/her partner and is feeling very vulrenable, and then a hunk/babe comes up and comforts them and then 1 thing leads to another
7) Revenge - this is a way often used these days... if the one person in the relationship does something wrong, then cheating on him/her is a fulfiling way to get revenge on the other (without telling the other that they actually cheated on thm, this just makes the pesron that is getting "revenge" feel better) <--- i have seen this happen several times
Well those are a few "reasons" that people cheat, therea re many others, but these are the only ones that come to mind at the present moment.... Bu i think you get the idea
Laterz...