Challenge#1: Create A Neg 2005

[Swoop]

How about non-verbal neg hits?

 

[Swoop]

Originally posted by The_Shezzler
I assume you mean directive glances and body language? If you can pull it off and it works for you then by all means share what you did (ie how you brought her down without verbalising)

Sarge On...

I read about this example: HB talks/crack joke, you turn and acknowledge her then turn your back to her again.

Someone said this is a neg hit because other guys would give her attention and drool over her words while you just acknowledge it and turn your back to her like she is normal to you, bringing her status down.

I plan to test this in the field when Boot Camp starts. Or maybe this Saturday, I have a party to go to.

 

[Swoop]

Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Its not really a neg - its more of a punishment for her not flowing with your vibe.

Eg - If you go in for the Evolution Phase Shift and she refuses to bite, turn your back on her (punish her) - then turn around a bit later and ask again.

This can also be done in the bedroom, if theres any ASD just get out of the sexual state (or pretend at least) and punish her for not going with it....let her get stressed about this and slowly ease back into the zone.

From your example - her cracking a joke - a neg would be something like:

YOU: (looking at her like shes weird) - non verbal
YOU: (hold your stomach and sarcastically laugh) semi non verbal
YOU: "Yeaa..Eve told that to Adam..and even he didnt laugh..

Sarge On...

In my example, you actually have not made any contact with her yet. But I do see your point in your examples. Yup Sarge on...!

 

[animal crackers]

-"I like your makeup." (Jason's)

-"I like your nose/teeth, it gives you personality."

- Mimicking her body language TO THE EXTREME if she is being aloof.

-"You looked really cute from behind..."

-(if she interupts you when you're talking, and says something kinda lame)

"Wow, that was a GREAT story" (sarcastic)

The last one works AWESOME. I actually got it from a girl that did it too me. She negged the shlt out of me!

 

[Hound_of_Love]

Its not really a neg - its more of a punishment for her not flowing with your vibe.

I'd say that was a neg ...and a stroke of genius at that. It works on the same principle as a neg - give her some recognition for something good and then retract it to an extent...or more importantly, make her wonder if you did. Which is why:

From your example - her cracking a joke - a neg would be something like:

YOU: (looking at her like shes weird) - non verbal
YOU: (hold your stomach and sarcastically laugh) semi non verbal
YOU: "Yeaa..Eve told that to Adam..and even he didnt laugh..

Sarge On...

...I don't view these as negs at all. Where's the compliment?

I liked the, "you look good TONIGHT" one though.

 

[Sanity_Cleaver]

Once started talking to this girl in a bright red jacket

ME: I like your jacket. Red looks good on you
HER: Thanks
ME: Yes, you make a nice tomato

She cracked up laughing with that, but i didnt close in any way. She was kinda boring.

 

[MasterYoda]

Me: Nice lens
her: These aren't lens
Me: I'd like to believe you but you nose is actually growing.

 

[Hound_of_Love]

The trouble with adding any kind of humour to a neg is that it takes some of the power away. If she thinks you're just teasing, then you're not knocking her off her pedestal, you're just trying to be funny (and that in itself can backfire).

If she thinks you truly meant something by your comment, then you've introduced an air of mystery - she can't accuse you of being rude because she's not sure you were - you've planted the seeds of doubt as to whether you find her attractive.

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

The trouble with adding any kind of humour to a neg is that it takes some of the power away. If she thinks you're just teasing, then you're not knocking her off her pedestal, you're just trying to be funny (and that in itself can backfire)

I think it would do both to a point. If you don't let them know you can tease, their IL will not be good. Plus, if they know you are teasing and still don't open up, then their not going to have any interest anyway, so you have the chance to move on and make the best of your time.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

"Wow, that was a GREAT story"

I've been naturally using that one for about 12 years, even in middle school

I don't usually try to artificially neg a HB, instead, I might get some what sarcastic, they normally respond with a "shut up, stop making fun of me, followed by hitting me on the shoulder"

 

[locarius]

A neg is not a response to anything she says... thats C&F (intended humour).

A neg is a STATEMENT that you throw out there with a mixed message, and here is the kicker: you do not wait for a reaction from the girl.

"Hey thats a great skirt... I see girls wearing those everywhere. They must be popular. So, did you do anything exciting and fun last weekend?"

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

The "SINGLE GIRL QUALIFIER."

SGQ:


"I can't believe you don't have a boyfriend, your so pretty, there has to be something really wrong with you, do you have a bad attitude, your being single... has to be your fault." ( THIS PART IS DELIVERED IN A SEMI-SERIOUS TONE, THE BAD ATTITUDE PART NEEDS TO BE DELIVERED WITH SOME LEVITY)

If the girl has any interest in me she will typically try to qualify herself; "no I dont have a bad attitude."

me: (looking at her with disbelief) prove it, what kind of nice things do you do for people?

Depending on her interest level, she will go into a list of nice things she does. This technique is good to extend a conversation.

Have fun

 

[locarius]

I laughed my ass off at these ones:

- Aww.. your eyes are lovely.. especially the left one!
- Aww.. nice teeth! Are they real?
- Wow.. you work out.. now and then..
- Wow.. you could ALMOST be a stripper!
- You are pretty.. you could have been a model.. if slightly
taller.. and slimmer..
- You are pretty.. are you an EX model..
- I had to come talk to you cos you looked so cute.. from over
there! (point)
- You look really sexy.. from behind!
- Aww.. nice hair!!! Is it real? (pull) Hey it moved! ...
- Wow.. you - could be a hair model.. if you lose the split ends!
- You are cute.. in a kinda strange way!
- You got an interesting figure!
- Cool perfume. I think my granny wears the same.
- Your hands are so SOFT and GENTLE,.. Like toilet paper.
- You look very stunning, must be the lighting"
- You have some real beautiful, gorgeous hair, like Lassies

http://www.bristollair.com/midgame/negs_collection.html

 

[Desdinova]

One I used a couple of weeks ago.... I noticed this girl had a purse made of wool.

"That's a nice wooly purse, did your grandma knit that?"

A slightly nastier one:
You smell good, is that speed stick?

 

[The Daddy]

How about...

"I'm looking for the sort of girl who wouldn't go to a place like this."

 

[locarius]

Originally posted by The Daddy
How about...

"I'm looking for the sort of girl who wouldn't go to a place like this."

How is that a compliment at all? Dude you have to send a mixed message. Backhanded compliment.

 

[Drewgie]

It's easiest to neg their clothing imo.

A few weeks ago I saw a hb wearing a polka dotted shirt.

"Hey. Nice shirt. I'm into the whole clown look."

Heels are pretty easy too.

"Nice shoes! Are you a witch?"

 

[Sapiens]

an HB10 Blond, about 5:10 and serious curves;

Me: "Hey, nice jacket, who makes it?"

Her, very loud and rude: "ARRRe You Talking To ME?"

Me, just as loud but with a smile: "Wow, You forgot to take your meds this morning!"


did her, so it works.

 

[The Daddy]

Originally posted by locarius
How is that a compliment at all? Dude you have to send a mixed message. Backhanded compliment.

Who says a neg has to be a backhanded compliment? I think you have misinterpreted what a neg is supposed to be.

 

[GodsGiftToFatBirds]

This one's for when they've just spent about an hour getting dolled up ready to go out:

'You gonna start getting ready soon? Come on, we gotta be out in 5 minutes, get changed!' etc (prepare for a slap)


This one's for when they're infront of the mirror, putting on their mascara and stuff:

'You can't polish a turd!' (again, prepare for a slap)