I’d been talking to this girl for a week and set up a date to which she said “sure!” to. She had to work all last week and was going to get back to me with a night she had off when her schedule came out. Didn’t hear from her for a couple of days and then she text me “hey, I’m really sorry about this but I wanted to tell you that I went on a date with someone the other night and I want to see where this goes. I know that’s really crappy of me but I truly am sorry.” I just replied back with “no problem!” and left it at that. Didn’t make me mad or sad or anything, it made me actually appreciate how honest and empathetic she was in her rejection. She was probably shocked that I didn’t go off on her too, just said “no problem!” and left it at that.
Now, what pisses me off is women who aren’t interested but string you along by texting you “hey handsome, good morning…..blah blah” and when you try to set up a second or third date it’s always excuses come the time to sh!t or get off the pot. Or if a girl tries to friendzone me and keep me around for boyfriend favors. Women wouldn’t have near the issues with guys handling rejection if they were HONEST and EMPATHETIC like this other girl was. Yeah she accepted my date and it was a crappy outcome but she could have ghosted me and she didn’t, she even went as far as to let me know without me having to reach out to her. Just don’t jerk me around and play games with me and we will always be cool, but women can’t do that these days. It’s so rare these days to meet a genuine woman that this girl stood out because of this.
Now, what pisses me off is women who aren’t interested but string you along by texting you “hey handsome, good morning…..blah blah” and when you try to set up a second or third date it’s always excuses come the time to sh!t or get off the pot. Or if a girl tries to friendzone me and keep me around for boyfriend favors. Women wouldn’t have near the issues with guys handling rejection if they were HONEST and EMPATHETIC like this other girl was. Yeah she accepted my date and it was a crappy outcome but she could have ghosted me and she didn’t, she even went as far as to let me know without me having to reach out to her. Just don’t jerk me around and play games with me and we will always be cool, but women can’t do that these days. It’s so rare these days to meet a genuine woman that this girl stood out because of this.