Caught girlfriend cheating just now.

[Ranger]

@Glassguy that's why I'm so confused because I never initiate anything but the sexual part of things, i did everything the dj bible said and I'm here now.

So you’re saying that the DJ bible didn’t actually fix something else that still exists?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Did you install that program over something else in you? Were you a blank slate?

Ranger, sometimes after being stupid for so long the old programming doesnt make sense anymore. Man finds a different way.

 

[Ranger]

Ranger, sometimes after being stupid for so long the old programming doesnt make sense anymore. Man finds a different way.

Then you should be ok. Go forth.
If that was true...why did you do things to turn her switch off?
Sorry goodstuff. Didn’t realize it was your post.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Then you should be ok. Go forth.
If that was true...why did you do things to turn her switch off?
Sorry goodstuff. Didn’t realize it was your post.

Its not. I was saying he might have a descent core now. The only thing is the questions he asks can get him "stuck on stupid".

 

[Ranger]

What’s underneath has more stroke than what’s on top. The earlier program has neuro pathways that have been long established.
The femine imperative is embedded in everyday thoughts. Even holding a door for a woman.
When one sees the program underneath he can then consciously rewrite his pathways. They call it cognitive learning.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@mrgoodstuff @Ranger I had a crystal methamphetamine problem. I ended up using some with her.. now that stuff makes me really feminine and insecure about myself. But she reassured me I wasn't going to lose her and look what happened

 

[Ranger]

Its not. I was saying he might have a descent core now. The only thing is the questions he asks can get him "stuck on stupid".

Stupidity is nothing more than a confusion. His core is in conflict with the new stuff.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@mrgoodstuff @Ranger I had a crystal methamphetamine problem. I ended up using some with her.. now that stuff makes me really feminine and insecure about myself. But she reassured me I wasn't going to lose her and look what happened

Maybe that shyt is still in you. Stop worrying about this. You need to stop talking about it. Fvck her if you can, if its too much bs then dont mess with her.

 

[Ranger]

@mrgoodstuff @Ranger I had a crystal methamphetamine problem. I ended up using some with her.. now that stuff makes me really feminine and insecure about myself. But she reassured me I wasn't going to lose her and look what happened

Whoa. The drug took you right to what was underneath. Drugs don’t put anything in.
Don’t do this.
What you are feeling is pretty normal when a man falls for a woman and she starts to pull back emotionally. The drugs didn’t put anything in you. The imperative is already in you.

Now go forth with your plan and just observe what happens.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Ranger no contact seems to always bring her back I'm trying to keep strong and see if it would bring her back again.

 

[Ranger]

@Ranger no contact seems to always bring her back I'm trying to keep strong and see if it would bring her back again.

That’s the imperative. No man who lives by your self description would think like that.
When she’s done with the new cvck/cvcks she will be back. You are mr. Stable/dependable. Why wouldn’t she come back? You’re a dependable little boyfriend. A man totally trapped in the feminine imperative. Girls do that. Do it all the time.

 

[marmel75]

Pump the brakes! Revenge cheating is not cowardice! It's probably the best form of punishment one can dole out to a cheater. I did it then kicked her to the curb. She couldn't believe what happened and it ****ed her up Good. The thing is if you do it you have to ensure it will be swift and certain and you'll have to be purposely sloppy so as to "get caught". It's hysterical to watch it play out and have them get all angry that you did such a thing to them .

Bang her best friend

 

[Spaz]

The dark side of the imperative is deep within embedded...

It's obvious to us all except you OP.

How you think WILL influence how you do things.

How you do things EXPOSES how you think.

 

[Ranger]

The dark side of the imperative is deep within embedded...

It's obvious to us all except you OP.

How you think WILL influence how you do things.

How you do things EXPOSES how you think.

Listen to Spaz. It’s painted on your forehead.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The dark side of the imperative is deep within embedded...

It's obvious to us all except you OP.

How you think WILL influence how you do things.

How you do things EXPOSES how you think.

We're bombarded subliminally, in music, in advertising, in societal norms, in laws, etc. As we become enlightened we are aware of it. Many of us have a core foundation which was by design put there to support the imperative.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Ranger yes of course she will come back to me... once she's done fkn half of the city she was in. But if that's the case she's going to start to wonder where her bf is because I haven't initiated any conversation since she left

 

[Chi Town]

If you caught her cheating why would you want her back?

I'm lost

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Chi Town town I haven't caught her physically cheating. Just behavioral stuff and her deactivating her old facebook but keeping her messenger open, and blocking me on her new one.

 

[Chi Town]

@Chi Town town I haven't caught her physically cheating. Just behavioral stuff and her deactivating her old facebook but keeping her messenger open, and blocking me on her new one.

You should move on, I know you're not but you should.....

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Chi Town problem is I can't prove it for sure.. she still has her old facebook messenger open, her best friend added me, and she hasn't told me we are finished. I guess it isn't over after all.. I just have to see what happens and let you all know. But one thing is for sure I wont be falling in love with her again, and I sure as hell know what not to do this time round.