Can someone please give me a rationale explanation about this

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So my friend’s brother is consistently rotating girlfriends with little dry times in between…max a month, and he breaks every rule according to this site. His Gfs are decent in looks, so he’s not dating trolls either.

He’s 5ft 5, Asian, lives in his moms basement, constantly gets bailed out by his mom, dresses Gen Z feminine/Anime, doesn’t have a degree, his dates are 90% and chill on the couch, non dominant personality, and average in looks. The only explanations I can come up with are that he doesn’t date white women, he dates NEETs/younger blue collars, and he has that negging nerdy personality.

Inb4 some stupid Alpha fvcks beta bucks nonsense or he signed some covert contract to be completely submissive and that’s how he pulls them.
 
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It would be difficult to find a rational explanation for it. It's the complete opposite of @sangheilios . @sangheilios should be the top seducer on the board as a 6'4" guy with big muscles who enjoys spending time at the gym.
 

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So my friend’s brother is consistently rotating girlfriends with little dry times in between…max a month, and he breaks every rule according to this site. His Gfs are decent in looks, so he’s not dating trolls either.

He’s 5ft 5, Asian, lives in his moms basement, constantly gets bailed out by his mom, dresses Gen Z feminine/Anime, doesn’t have a degree, his dates are 90% and chill on the couch, non dominant personality, and average in looks. The only explanations I can come up with are that he doesn’t date white women, he dates NEETs/younger blue collars, and he has that negging nerdy personality.

Inb4 some stupid Alpha fvcks beta bucks nonsense or he signed some covert contract to be completely submissive and that’s how he pulls them.
Lots of Gen Z's are fans of K-pop and things like that, and overall are very feminine (both women and men)

It's quite possible that your friend has purposefully or by chance emulated the looks of a K-pop celebrity for example.
 

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I guess the K-pop pretty boy look sticks lol. This is why the girls you go after matter more than just looks and frame.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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My 18yo daughter is dating one of those. He’s 6’5” (she’s 5’10”), with great long hair and an anime kinda look. They both wear Doc Martins almost exclusively and are artsy people. He’s a drummer & she’s an excellent artist going into tatoos.

He’s quite androgynous but so is she. They’ve been together 2 years & live together. She is tall enough and has a pretty enough face to model. It’s not my jam but they match one another……
 

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He’s 5ft 5, Asian, lives in his moms basement, constantly gets bailed out by his mom, dresses Gen Z feminine/Anime, doesn’t have a degree, his dates are 90% and chill on the couch
I’m not being sarcastic. He likely gets women precisely because of what you’ve written. Contrary to popular RP belief, women are attested to a variety of archetypes, not just Chad, Tyrone, and gorillionaires. Some women like bums and scumbags who don’t have a red can’t to their names. Back in high school, one of the biggest womanizers I knew dropped out and spent the majority of his days in his unsupervised, fatherless home smoking weed, drinking, and doing other drugs.

The guy you described might have a higher SMV than some ordinary guy working on his STEM degree. To think young all young women go for men with good qualities. Pfft!
 
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There are all types. You can't always make logical sense of such irrational creatures. It is what it is. Whatever is trendy in her mind at that moment might be all she needs.
 

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This thread reminds me of this SWU episode I watched early this year. If I recall correctly this guy slept with loads of women, including others’ wives and girlfriends, all while having not a dime to his name and heavily drinking.

So much for grinding, hustling, and “doing the work.” Likely the most time efficient and least costly, but most reckless and dangerous, way of attracting women aside from being strikingly handsome is being violent, criminal, bummy, or edgy. Those who plan on waiting for some unforeseen date on which they finally actualize their decades-long goal of emerging in middle-age as a gorillionaire silver Fox with an assortment of toys and a McMansion to get women might want to take notice.

Here’s the video. Even much of the sympathetic comments are from women. Haha.

 

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Women like 'trouble(d) men', especially 'reformed' bad boys who are 'trying to get their life in order', because women like to be needed and being able to influence a bad boy to go straight.
Exactly.
 

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Women like 'trouble(d) men', especially 'reformed' bad boys who are 'trying to get their life in order', because women like to be needed and being able to influence a bad boy to go straight.
Agreed.

But women somehow have zero interest in a nice guy improvement project lol.
 

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For the 3rd time, I quote Alexander Grace, women are sexually attracted to men that don't need anything from them.

He's got his own space, his own hobbies, his own style, like he might be a bum but he's not a *needy bum*
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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