can a woman be too tight?

[seabreeze]

Hi fellas,

I'm new here and I have a question for you all. Is it possible for a woman to be too tight (vaginally). I've been trying to figure out why this guy that I had a brief sexual relationship with couldn't last very long. Each time we did it, he couldn't move very much without getting too close and told me that i was like a "tunnel." He seemed to enjoy sex with me (at least he said he did), but he avoided it as much as possible and always criticized his performance. He told me I had to stop moaning, I had to move slow when I was on top, he kept pulling out all of the time. Then he told me about another girl that he described as "not tight" but the sex was good because he could last a long time.

I feel a little rejected by this. It's not like i can control how tight my vagina is. He also came very fast when I did oral and always asked what I did to him, like it was my fault.

I'm confused!

Thanks guys,
SB

 

[Cheiradawg]

Whats your #?

 

[MRomeo99]

Sounds to me like he couldn't control himself. Has nothing to do with your body parts. It's all on him. A real man, is in control of himself, and can finish when he is ready to finish. Not that we don't lose control at times, but for the most part we should have pretty good control.

Let's see he finishes quick vaginally, he finishes quick orally. The only time he finishes slow is in stories about other women. I can smell the BS from here.

I'd say you have nothing to worry about. Get yerself a real man.

 

[seabreeze]

Sweet, fellas. Thanks for the quick replies.
SB

 

[VictorK]

Better to be tight, then loose.

 

[MrCode]

Hahahaha, I guess you are being honest seabreeze but this sure sounds like an attention wh0re post: "hey boys, *wink, wink*, my vagina is really tight and I give good oral."

Anyhow, it sounds like this boy needs to be a little desensitized and learn how to control himself better. Blaming you was just lame and weak.

When you meet a man who has some control, you will have a fantastic time as he'll love that tight little puzzy.

 

[Lifeforce]

Yeah it's possible, the girl will feel pain and it is not a pretty sight! Yours is not too small because you would either be bleeding or be the one avoiding sex because it hurts SO ****ING MUCH!!! I know because the first three women I ****ed were too small for me when they had tented vaginas.

Your problem has to do with a man who is too sensitive or too much aroused by you. Next him and get another one.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Cheiradawg
Whats your #?

LOL

 

[seabreeze]

Lifeforce you are absolutlely right. the first time I had sex with him i was sore for two days. It's a crap shoot with me whether or not it will hurt too bad. Most of the time when it hurts I feel too self-conscious to ask the guy to stop. It feels like an Indian burn!!!! Ouch. And I get plenty wet so that's not the problem. And that guy was right that it feels like a tunnel because that's exactly how I feel---the whole shaft moving in and out. It also seems to get tighter after I have had a ****oral orgasm before penetration.

LOL I'm not trolling. I've just wondered about this for so long that I just had to ask some smart, honest guys just like you all for your opinions.
Thanks

 

[MrCode]

All you micro-penised guys, here is your chance!!!

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by seabreeze I just had to ask some smart, honest guys just like you all for your opinions.
Thanks [/B]

Well, you're sure in the right place! ROFLMAO!

Smartest and esp! the most honestest guys ever.

Hurts like indian burn, you get wet... do you like it at least? If my d1ck hurt during sex, I wouldn't do it too much.

It's not you though. He may be a bit too excited, cause you're new but he'll be able to last longer after a while.

 

[Lifeforce]

Just because you are wet doesn't mean you are ready to recieve a penis since the cervix will be just a couple of inches inside and in the middle of the vagina, it must retract before you can insert without pain. Most women can take quite large penises (like 8"+) so maybe you are not aroused enough.

 

[seabreeze]

Ice cold, I like it after I (my kitty) loosen up a bit.

Lifeforce, that's a good point about arousal. Maybe he comes too fast before I can get aroused.

I've only been with three guys and they ALL had this problem with me. I was beginning to think that maybe my kitty was defective. LOL. But, yeah, one guy I used to beg him to wait before he came and he would just do it anyway and then tell me it was because we didn't do it enough. One guy lasted only 30 seconds! HE told me that he was watching the time. I couldn't believe it ( and we had been to gether for years). This last guy, the first time we tried he couldn't get it in and then he looked at me and just came soon anyway on the outside. I was surprised. I'm the type of gal that wants it everyday, but it seems like the guy always shys away from it after a while. Do I make them insecure?
SB

 

[cactus3178]

Good God.

Find a dude who's got some experience.

 

[Eternal]

How old are you?

 

[flexion_]

Yes whats your number? ...

Umm... what was I saying?... Oh ya, have him wear a condom or just blow him first (after he takes care of you of course) then he should last a bit longer.

 

[seabreeze]

Hi guys,

Just got back in from school. I'm in grad school.

Anyway, I'm 37. He's ten years younger.

He tried to wear a condom, he still came too fast. He j-ed off before, still came too fast. He fingered my ****oris one time and almost came from watching me come. I had NEVER experienced this before. One time he told me that I must have "done something to him because everytime he gets around me he's on the verge of coming." But I find this really weird because he doesn't seem all that interested in having sex with me. If he enjoys it so much, or he's so excited why does he avoid it?

I really appreciate you guys telling me that its probably not me, but him. But, he seems fairly experienced (way more experienced than I am) so his lack of skill never occurred to me. Thank you guys so much, it makes me feel better. Smooches.
SB

 

[Eternal]

*Waiting for PRL or Player_Supreme to get to this thread.*

 

[Soma]

What the hell is a matter with everyone today? It's like the board has gone fvckin wacky.

This b!tch ain't a b!tch. This is some guy from the board posing as a girl. I know I CAN'T be the only who see's this.

I wouldn't be surprised if it's the same guy who posts under the name "elf".

 

[AFK Protector]

I absolutely love it how when I have a serious issue, I get like 200 views and 1 post and when some chick comes on with a problem about her pvssy, she get slike 500 views and 500 comments.

I absolutely fvcking love it.

btw, there's no problem with your pvssy....but I might have to do a closer inspection.... jp jp