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Funny you should ask, I am experiencing this exact same thing at the moment. Just started talking to a girl that has all the qualities you mentioned. Comes from a very healthy-traditional family. I have never talked to a female that is so sechsual, her dating profile pics were super conservative. She told me from the beginning that she was wired like a guy when it comes to sechs but very feminine in taking care of her body and looks. She totally wants p0rn star style sechs frequently and has made it clear. This isn’t some damaged goods girl with daddy issues. Its just that when it comes to sechs, she wants it like a guy often does! She’s definitely a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets.
So what do I think about this……I’ve almost been blown away with how up front she is with her thoughts/desires. She totally loves her body(HB9) and is very confident and this is so attractive to me. From past experience, women that are usually this sechsual are also very CRAZY with lots of drama, issues, baggage and a long history of bad decisions. But this girl doesn’t have all of that and I’ve asked the hard questions. This relationship is young, so perhaps I will uncover some of that but I don’t think there will be much. I’ve played this game long enough and know what to look for. Her life is very well put together, which is totally not the case with past girls that were this sechsual.
There is no such thing as being too sechsual for me, but I would venture to say that a lot of guys would be put off. I will say this…..if a guy can eat a meal inside of a $trip club and be comfortable doing it, he will also be comfortable with a highly sechsual freak in the bedroom. ;-) If he is comfortable inside an Adult/Sechs Store he will enjoy a highly sechsual woman. Its going to take a guy that is highly comfortable with who he is to truly appreciate what a highly sechsual woman offers. Look for a guy that displays plenty of confidence, is an explorer, doesn’t follow the herd, pushes limits, bends rules, adventure seeker, one that isn’t afraid to operate outside of his comfort zone and frequently does, and he will be highly experienced sechsually. These traits lend themselves to a guy that would be a good match.
I’ve got an inner freak in me. The dirtier the better but I’m not into whips/chains/leather masks! I would never hold that against a woman, its just not an interest of mine. But I’m good with everything else(tied up, anal, squirting, outdoors, videos, pics, porn, etc). However, I am a little bit on guard due to past experiences, however I am open minded enough to enjoy life and realize I should proceed with slight caution as with any relationship. I’m not going to cross a girl off the list because she is a freak and it isn’t typical female behavior. I’m impressed that she is showing her true colors. Men and Women are all guilty getting of not being themselves from the start. I recommend you stop worrying about how you should act and just be yourself. It eventually all comes out sooner or later. If you are worried about coming across as too strong, and put up a front, then you will likely attract the wrong person. Don’t be afraid to put it out there and be yourself, it’s the only way you will find that right person who appreciates you and will give you what you need. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman being a sexual freak in the bedroom, but most guys can’t handle one. Society has construed some bs social laws that every one should act a certain way and fit into a specific type, and its total crap.
A woman should always reveal her true identity from the start, just like every man should. It’s the best shot at a successful long term relationship. If they can’t handle you for who you are, then they aren’t the right person. It’s a great way to filter people out!
