Okay, after reading all your posts, I must say I have sort of a mixed opinion. I definetely don't want to straight out ask for a relationship because for some reason I don't like to hand things to easily on a plate. I only like challenges, so I also like to give challenges myself. But at the same time, I have this great catch so I kind of want to loosen up a little of coldness. I have been really chill and held my game ever since I met her, but now since I have gotten to know her better, I kind of want to give her a little sign that I like what I see. So here is something I thought of, that you guys can give me advice on. Do you think it would be non-dj to tell her that I am not currently seeing anyone else except for her. That way I am not making anything exclusive, but rather putting the ball in her court to respond. I figured this comment would just look as a statement as oppose to a question. Yet, usually these types of comments could actually evolve into an answer of themselves depending on what she says after. What do you all think? And by the way, thanks all you answered my previous comment, it helped out a lot!