Calling a woman out

[BackInTheGame78]

I agree with the above IF I asked her about again, I didn’t. My issues are below.

1. If a woman ASSUMES I’m in love with her without me saying anything, I will smack her down.

2. If I let it go, her text shows that Badboy wanted to make love to her during the date and she rejected him. I HAD to respond to that.

I agree to walk away if I asked her out on text and she said “sorry, didn’t feel anything.” then I say “OK no hard feelings”

I CANNIOT walk away when a woman ASSUMES. I will respond to that every time,

Beyond ridiculous. Are you 12?

 

[Clockwerk50]

Beyond ridiculous. Are you 12?

Not very bad boy-ish.

 

[BadBoy89]

Sigh. You are PROJECTING sir, plain and simple. Nowhere did she say anything remotely akin to assuming she thought you were GaGa for her; nowhere does she suggest any of the things you are projecting in your message I have quoted.

Yeah I guess you are right. Me not touching her during the date, asking for a follow up date, or texting after the date, yet her texting "Get lost" after the date means I'm projecting.

Jesus. The woman did you a solid by saying she's not interested, which actually is respectful of your time and saves you additional (fruitless) effort, she didn't try to string you along for a free meal ticket, for example, nothing.

Who said I wanted to put any effort in? You (and her) are PROJECTING there.

But you cannot handle any rejection because you think as a man you are above any and all women (as BPH correctly pointed out AND your content over time here is also consistent with that attitude). Your ego is more fragile than an eggshell. Look pal. You are just confirming your rank immaturity.

OK you are right. Next time I will thank her for saving my time and telling me to go hell without me showing any interest.

Yikes. That woman is thanking her lucky stars she excused herself from the interaction. Trust me.

I never trust anyone who says "Trust me"

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yeah I guess you are right. Me not touching her during the date, asking for a follow up date, or texting after the date, yet her texting "Get lost" after the date means I'm projecting.



Who said I wanted to put any effort in? You (and her) are PROJECTING there.



OK you are right. Next time I will thank her for saving my time and telling me to go hell without me showing any interest.



I never trust anyone who says "Trust me"

Stop being an immature child trying to defend nonsensical actions you took and trying to double down.

Learn from your mistakes and grow up

 

[sevbucmash]

"Hi xyz, I just got your message. I don't remember saying I felt a romantic spark. Good luck in your search,"

Chances are she blocked your ass right after writing you.

 

[sevbucmash]

Another thing is a coffee date. You gotta do action dates. Hikes, fishing, boating. You take her into ocean on a glamorous yacht and you screw her. Clubbing is an option. Walking and bar hopping. Coffee is borring. What you doing on a coffee date? Same thing women do, talk.

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[sevbucmash]

No wonder she didn't feel a romantic connection drinking coffee with you, same thing she did with her girlfriend.

 

[Vanderdonck]

I agree with the above IF I asked her about again, I didn’t. My issues are below.

1. If a woman ASSUMES I’m in love with her without me saying anything, I will smack her down.

2. If I let it go, her text shows that Badboy wanted to make love to her during the date and she rejected him. I HAD to respond to that.

I agree to walk away if I asked her out on text and she said “sorry, didn’t feel anything.” then I say “OK no hard feelings”

I CANNIOT walk away when a woman ASSUMES. I will respond to that every time,

She didn't assume you were in love with her. She told you she didn't feel a connection. If you didn't either, well then that's great, you were on the same page. Why do you care who says it first? IMO she was mature and up front about it.

Smack her down? Lol. She's out riding the next c0ck while you're tryna flex on Sosuave. If she's thinking about you at all it's to show your DM to her friends & her fukk buddy for a good laugh.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Another thing is a coffee date. You gotta do action dates. Hikes, fishing, boating. You take her into ocean on a glamorous yacht and you screw her. Clubbing is an option. Walking and bar hopping. Coffee is borring. What you doing on a coffee date? Same thing women do, talk.

The Book of Pook

Website version of The Book of Pook, along with audio. Understand women and learn why they do what they do, why they are how they are. No, they aren't complicated. Inner game, red pill, truth.

bookofpook.com

Love action dates ..

A glamorous yacht on a first date? Only if you are trying to be something you are not and make a terrible investment choice.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She didn't assume you were in love with her. She told you she didn't feel a connection. If you didn't either, well then that's great, you were on the same page. Why do you care who says it first? IMO she was mature and up front about it.

Smack her down? Lol. She's out riding the next c0ck while you're tryna flex on Sosuave. If she's thinking about you at all it's to show your DM to her friends & her fukk buddy for a good laugh.

The only men who do this are men who are inexperienced with women, men who don't do well with women, or men who actually hate women and are trying to get some sort of revenge for the hurt they have caused them in their life.

It's mind boggling OP still is trying to claim he is "right" because his ego won't accept reality.

If this is enough to set him off, he is in for a long, lonely existence because women will be few and far between that put up with this type of neurotic, narcissistic behavior.

To a woman, this makes a man look weak as fvck.

 

[Sega Genesis]

Yeah I guess you are right. Me not touching her during the date, asking for a follow up date, or texting after the date, yet her texting "Get lost" after the date means I'm projecting.

@BadBoy89 here's my younger lady's take on this fwiw.

I DO get how you feel. What she wrote was presumptuous given you gave no indication YOU had a romantic interest or any interest in HER.

Now had you demonstrated interest, asked her out again and pursued her, her message announcing she felt no spark would have been appropriate.

But you did nothing, no follow up texts, nothing so looking at this from her side, it's possible SHE may have been butt hurt, ego bruised that you weren't chasing her and sent that text to get the last word. I'm speculating but it's possible, I know women who do this.

Since there was NO mutual spark which would have been apparent during the date, her text was presumptuous imo and unnecessary

Nothing had to be said at all either way, you met, no spark, no attraction, you both simply move on. Next. Period end of. Nothing has to be said by either one of you.

That said, your response two weeks later was rather silly. In her mind, it suggested you were bothered by it (ego-driven) and it was also unnecessary.

The BEST response to situations like this is indifference. Say nothing, do nothing. For her too!

Simply next and continue your search.

JMO.

 

[Barrister]

I agree with the above IF I asked her about again, I didn’t. My issues are below.

1. If a woman ASSUMES I’m in love with her without me saying anything, I will smack her down.

2. If I let it go, her text shows that Badboy wanted to make love to her during the date and she rejected him. I HAD to respond to that.

I agree to walk away if I asked her out on text and she said “sorry, didn’t feel anything.” then I say “OK no hard feelings”

I CANNIOT walk away when a woman ASSUMES. I will respond to that every time,

Doubling down to us serves no purpose. You reacted emotionally. Plain and simple. Worse - you stewed in the emotion for two weeks after radio silence and then sent what you did. It shows weakness. We all know it. You know it. You’ve been here for a minute and know better.

Spin more plates and forget this one. There’s always more women and opportunities. “On to the next.”

 

[SW15]

Spin more plates and forget this one.

It's so easy to delete the number and forget about her after 24-48 hours.

 

[DJ Novice]

You should be grateful if a woman tells you after a date that she isn’t interested in you. This means you no longer need to waste any time or energy on her and can move on to other options. Don’t bother responding to her text.

I’ve had some limited success reaching out to some women who have rejected me in the past that I regarded as a missed opportunity. But I’ve always waited at least 1-2 months to hit them up again and if there’s no response from them or a response with little interest then I never initiate contact with them again.

 

[BadBoy89]

Doubling down to us serves no purpose. You reacted emotionally. Plain and simple. Worse - you stewed in the emotion for two weeks after radio silence and then sent what you did. It shows weakness. We all know it. You know it. You’ve been here for a minute and know better.

Maybe I did.

But at least now she can’t go to the person who set us up and say “BadBioy was in love with me and made a pass at me, but I shut him down. Here’s my text to show I shut him down.”

With my response, I have proof to show “uh huh, that’s not what happened, I didn’t make a pass at you.”

 

[SW15]

Maybe I did.

But at least now she can’t go to the person who set us up and say “BadBioy was in love with me and made a pass at me, but I shut him down. Here’s my text to show I shut him down.”

With my response, I have proof to show “uh huh, that’s not what happened, I didn’t make a pass at you.”

That's utterly meaningless. Also, she might have done that in the 2 weeks before you gave that response.

 

[BadBoy89]

That's utterly meaningless. Also, she might have done that in the 2 weeks before you gave that response.

Utterly meaningless to who?

I will see that person who set us up next month, I will show her my response.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Maybe I did.

But at least now she can’t go to the person who set us up and say “BadBioy was in love with me and made a pass at me, but I shut him down. Here’s my text to show I shut him down.”

With my response, I have proof to show “uh huh, that’s not what happened, I didn’t make a pass at you.”

Fvcking delusional.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Utterly meaningless to who?

I will see that person who set us up next month, I will show her my response.

And she will look at you like you are crazy and then understand why you are single.