Heres my problem. Recently I've become pretty good at going up to girls in the clubs and building attraction, and usually getting a "kiss close". however, i am aware of how girls dont liked to be looked at as sluts - hence the buyers remorse syndrome that occurs every now and then. i really feel like it happens when a confident girl is taken way off guard when a guy is able to make them feel attraction so rapidly and powerfully in a short amount of time and they do things that they "normally wouldnt do". So i have to admit i'm in the time in my life where i would like to find that girl to have a relationship with. i feel like i have worked on myself a lot and my inner emotional state is just right.
So heres the deal..there is a girl i saw (i'm in college - saw her on facebook) that i was mesmerized by..yes mesmerized. I know she had been talkin to one of my older friends who is a TRUE ladies man, so i thought to myself, i need to make a move soon, before he does what he does. So this weekend i saw her at he club, and lets just say it was the best seduction i've ever pulled - i couldn't get her off me - she wouldn't take her tongue out of my mouth (good thing). So 2 days later i sent her a pretty much nonsexual semi-flirtatious email, and of course i get the response basically saying sorry for the all the kissing and its not her to do that and she felt bad about it. What is a GOOD response to when a women feels this way? I want her to feel comfortable and for her to know its ok for her to express herself around me. Any tips, pointers or mindsets would be appreciated with respect to buyers remorse
So heres the deal..there is a girl i saw (i'm in college - saw her on facebook) that i was mesmerized by..yes mesmerized. I know she had been talkin to one of my older friends who is a TRUE ladies man, so i thought to myself, i need to make a move soon, before he does what he does. So this weekend i saw her at he club, and lets just say it was the best seduction i've ever pulled - i couldn't get her off me - she wouldn't take her tongue out of my mouth (good thing). So 2 days later i sent her a pretty much nonsexual semi-flirtatious email, and of course i get the response basically saying sorry for the all the kissing and its not her to do that and she felt bad about it. What is a GOOD response to when a women feels this way? I want her to feel comfortable and for her to know its ok for her to express herself around me. Any tips, pointers or mindsets would be appreciated with respect to buyers remorse
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