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Busting your load in a girl on the first date

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If she offers you one out of her purse. She doesn’t give you a chance to undress her first. She takes her own pants and panties off at the same time the second her back touches the bed…
Wow, I have always had to at least ask her if wants to shower. :rolleyes: (I think I attach sex with the shower because of all my EscortMaxxing.)
 

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If you can get first date sex, it's totally fine to ejaculate inside her vagina on the first date. Do it inside of a condom though.

First date sex has some other issues though. The biggest issues around first date sex is that it often occurs late at night (not physical peak of alertness for people who aren't night owls) and often under the influence of alcohol. Those can affect the quality of sex, especially when combined with the nerves of a new partner and unfamiliarity.
 

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I have a vasectomy so this is the only way I roll. If you are concerned about std you have to wrap it up.
 

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Never trust when a woman tells you she is on birth control or you may learn a very expensive and 18+ year long lesson.

You literally know next to nothing about this woman, why would you believe anything she told you yet?
 

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Never trust when a woman tells you she is on birth control or you may learn a very expensive and 18+ year long lesson.

You literally know next to nothing about this woman, why would you believe anything she told you yet?
Iron Rule of Tomassi #5

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 applies in extended, committed relationships but is even more important with first date sex.

I have a vasectomy so this is the only way I roll. If you are concerned about std you have to wrap it up.
What's the point in getting a vasectomy when you'll still need condoms for STD protection when spinning plates?
 
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #5

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 applies in extended, committed relationships but is even more important with first date sex.



What's the point in getting a vasectomy when you'll still need condoms for STD protection when spinning plates?
That’s small potatoes relative to having another kid. You have small risk of getting an untreatable STD. ‘If you see something, say something.’

And that’s laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule
 

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That’s small potatoes relative to having another kid. You have small risk of getting an untreatable STD. ‘If you see something, say something.’

And that’s laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule
If I need to keep using a condom, then I don't see a point in going through the procedure. That's why I haven't had a vasectomy.

Why is it laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule? I think it's an important rule. When I consider my lifetime history, it's the Iron Rule that I've implemented best in my life. I think the Iron of Rules of Tomassi are so awesome.

Finishing inside the woman wearing a condom is still very pleasurable.
 

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If I need to keep using a condom, then I don't see a point in going through the procedure. That's why I haven't had a vasectomy.

Why is it laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule? I think it's an important rule. When I consider my lifetime history, it's the Iron Rule that I've implemented best in my life. I think the Iron of Rules of Tomassi are so awesome.

Finishing inside the woman wearing a condom is still very pleasurable.
I got the procedure because I don’t want kids now. It’s reversible.

and yeah... nominate him for the Nobel prize for coining a rule based on common sense.
 

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I have taken my chances in the past and gotten away with it.

It is also true that it's easy to treat this as not a big deal........until it is and you wish you had been more careful. I think you can afford to be a little more free in your business with a woman you have been seeing for a bit. A first date lay where you bust in the girl? I think that is asking for trouble more-so from the STD perspective than pregnancy.
 

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In my experience, most women crave it. Remember, semen is a big part of your masculinity. There is a masculine mystique and energy in your semen, women are wired both spiritually and physically to crave that energy from you.

My two cents.
They love it. Find me a girl that doesn’t want a nut busted in them. It makes them feel sexy, powerful, submissive, etc
 

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If you can get first date sex, it's totally fine to ejaculate inside her vagina on the first date. Do it inside of a condom though.

First date sex has some other issues though. The biggest issues around first date sex is that it often occurs late at night (not physical peak of alertness for people who aren't night owls) and often under the influence of alcohol. Those can affect the quality of sex, especially when combined with the nerves of a new partner and unfamiliarity.
ONS cumming inside is the exception. There's a wild risky aspect to it. But it's safer to do these days to the right girls cause a lot have BC. And if they don't, there's so many ways to stop conception that I feel safer than before. It kinda ruins the fun but hey not all of us live as daredevils.
 

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I did about 30 women without a condom.... 1st date, 2nd date, 3rd date, whatever..... never catched anything, neither anyone got pregnant (except my wife after 1 month of actively trying without birthcontrol).

Just pass on the obvious batshytcrazy hoes and you be fine.

Asides from that, the women insisting on condoms were mostly on my worst-fvck list. Most of the time these are also the chicks that neither suck your dyck nor swallow. One of them even made me pull my d out every minute so she could check if the condom is still on , wtf!

Cvming into whatever cave of your woman is the best part of sex and the best women even demanded me to do it.
 

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In my experience, most women crave it. Remember, semen is a big part of your masculinity. There is a masculine mystique and energy in your semen, women are wired both spiritually and physically to crave that energy from you.

My two cents.
It's actually been shown to improve a woman's mood and prevent depression in studies
 
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