BuddhaDJ's journey to success- "This is Teh Urn"

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Hey guys what's up BuddhaDJ here and I'm about to enlighten y'all with all sorts of flows and flavors about myself.

To start off:
-I turned 15 years old today and just obtained a driving permit.
-I have no major physical flaws that should inhibit my ability to mack on hoez.
-I attend a private high school (freshman) in the beautiful Atlanta, GA.
-I am very much living in a vicious cycle of highs and lows game-wise.
-I am very intelligent and school comes easy for me.
-I run cross country and track, and I try to work out with my father in the gym when I can.

Alright so lets talk about my game for a little bit.
I am an introvert at heart, but over the course of the last year I have trained myself to become extrovert. When I successfully extrovert myself, I am f*cking awesome. I have succeeded in making several gurls want me over the past year; however I still have not even kissed a girl yet due to my lack of isolating girls when I should.

I have 2 major issues:

-I am highly inconsistent.

(Although I have had some successes in the past, my Homecoming and Sadie Hawkins dates were horrible due to my AFCness cropping up again.)

-I have no place to game

I attend a private high school and let me tell you, reputation is about 10x more deadly in private schools. In addition to the fact that, for my previous 2 years at this school, I was a total little AFC ***** who was afraid of even talking to chicks (not a good reputation to have), my homecoming date's friend was a total b*tch who only made things more difficult rep-wise (This is totally my fault though because if I had been on top of my game back then that b*tch would've been taking my d*ck in her a$$ like she deserves).

So basically, at school I just try to be a cool guy and have fun. It's worked in the past and like I said I have succeeded in getting a few gurls to want me at school. However, most of those have fell through due to me letting the spark run dry, and I only have one plate left which is not good at all. Need to build those plates back up in order to avoid that one-itis!

I attempt to game a little at my church's youth group which I am required to attend for 2 years; however again the issue of rep comes into play a little bit cuz I have to be there for one more year every weekend. Now don't get me wrong, this is where my best work has been done; however there have been multiple times where I just want to take some girl into a random bathroom/office and just f*ck the living sh*t out of her and have been too ***** to even attempt to isolate.

I can't drive and none of my friends are into pickup, so I would really like some advice on where I could game. I have an older brother who just finished rehab, but he is a Mr. Nice Guy and would not be very fun to game with.

So yea that's about it for now, need to get in that beauty sleep. I'll probably continue this tomorrow.
 

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I also went to private high school in Atlanta. Message me and we can talk about your school.
 

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@LearningSlowly I tried but it gave me an error message saying I'm not allowed to send PM's for some reason.

5/2-5/3

Wednesday at school I was feeling very unsocial and very AFC, but, looking back on it, this always happens a few days after I start up No- Fap (currently on day 5) so it's no worries. After a very uneventful day of school, I went running with my friend Chuck after school for about 4 miles. When I came back I saw HB Twin (HB6.5) and immediately went over, picked her up, and carried her down the hall for about 20 ft just for f*cks. Should've tried to take her behind a corner and get physical but her friends were there so yea. Left shortly after that.

I feel like I should explain what my workout plan this summer is. My goal is to run 450 miles over the summer which is about 5 miles a day. This is in order to get extra time on the lettering requirement for XC next fall. I need to set up a ride with this guy, so I can get to the morning practices though. Btw the mileage starts counting this Monday.

In addition to running, I'll be lifting with my pops about 3 days a week. Unfortunately, right now I'm stuck to legs only cuz I injured my shoulder last Monday somehow. I don't even know how it happened, I was doing tricep push downs, and when I finished the set I noticed my shoulder was hurting. It's minor but until it gets better its ice, ice, ice.

Anyway back to yesterday. My brother took me to a Black Keys concert for my birthday which was pretty cool. Nothing too fun happened bcuz everyone around me was drunk, and my brother has to stay clean. Met some friends there, but they had actual seats, so we didn't hang out long.

As for today, today was great. I was in the zone at school and was spreadin' the vibe to all sorts of boys and girls. I did learn one thing though today. I was just d*ckin around after skool and ended up opening this group of girls that I don't really care about, and HB Twerk (HB7), an old spark, just came up out of the blue, interrupted, and started talking to me. The lesson here is that just by socializing with random people you will create massive social proof. Therefore, whenever you have a chance to spread the vibe, you should just go for it and reap the benefits. HB Kiwi (HB6.5), another old spark who always has her b*tch shields up might have been in that group, but I honestly don't remember or give enough f*cks to try to.

For good or bad, my pops arrived to pick me up about a minute after HB Twerk came up to me, and I had to dash. Went to the gym, ran about 1.5 miles while we were waiting for the squat rack to be vacant. Some guy complemented me on my squats, said I do them "bodybuilder style" and have good form.

Anyways, I just came back from my first driving lesson with my pops, and now I have to go do some sh*t cuz my mum is a real PIA sometimes.

Stay Fresh, Stay Clean.
I'm out.
 

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I bet you need to post 5-10 times to get messages. Read a few posts from the DJ Bible and comment on them.
 

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Short update: I have come to the conclusion that in order to reach that next level, I need to be a Don Juan 24/7. Currently, my game is like an on/off switch, and I have trouble turning it on sometimes. From the time I wake up, to the time I go to bed, I need to be living and breathing the Don Juan principles.
 

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What's up guys, I just want to update and record that today marks Day 8 of the No-Fap Challenge, and things have never been better except for the last time I went to around Day 7-8 last January. No major moves have been made which I feel the need to document, but lots of flirting has been done by yours truly during and outside of school. Also, since I have made an effort to LIVE the Don Juan lifestyle, life at home has also improved exponentially. It's a wonder the amount of things people don't continue to challenge you about when you actually mean business and won't put up with their sh*t.

Also, it's important to stay in a "big picture" mindset, maintain a healthy, happy state, and not worry about the little things. I guarantee you that these little things will work themselves out and are not worth your valuable time. If someone tries to tell you otherwise, cut them loose, for they will affect you in a negative way over time.

If anyone has any good articles with cold approach examples and techniques, post the links. I've already read the major journals in the High School Forum and want to work on my approaches.

Stay Fresh, Stay Clean.
 

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BuddhaDJ said:
Hey guys what's up BuddhaDJ here and I'm about to enlighten y'all with all sorts of flows and flavors about myself.

To start off:
-I turned 15 years old today and just obtained a driving permit.
-I have no major physical flaws that should inhibit my ability to mack on hoez.
-I attend a private high school (freshman) in the beautiful Atlanta, GA.
-I am very much living in a vicious cycle of highs and lows game-wise.
-I am very intelligent and school comes easy for me. Careful, doing good in school does not equate to intelligence. Something i figured out recently.
-I run cross country and track, and I try to work out with my father in the gym when I can.
^^^
 

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What's up guys I have some news and some feedback would be nice. So, basically I have organized a trip to the mall this Saturday with my AFC brother who's 20 years old. Hopefully I can get in some solid cold approaches. Few things to note:

-Although my brother is an AFC, he is very headstrong and doubts that I know anything about women. He also does not enjoy doing things "just for laughs"/hates being embarrassed/cares way to much what people think of him.

-We either can go to a mall near my school which will indefinitely have hotter chicks and risk seeing people from my school, or we can go to a mall near our house and weed through the poor, black population there to find some quality hoez to mack on. (Not being racist, just stating the facts)

-I don't know jacksh*t about cold approaching. My plan is to just have fun (though I must keep it on a down-low in order to keep my brother from getting PO'd and leaving) and just practice my conversation skills. I will go for the number, but I probably won't keep any of them unless the chick is a stunner and shows high interest.

Once again, please comment and give me some advice.

Also Day 10 No-Fap let's gooooo!
 

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What time is it? Updaaaaaate time!

How's it going guys BuddhaDJ here with another thrilling life update. Here's what's been goin on lately:

-Day 16 of No-Fap and I'm horny as all get out.
-I recently watched Fight Club, and that movie, along with Bonobotimes' journal over at RSD Nation have given me a new attitude towards life that I want to adopt. Basically, I no longer will restrict my actions to fear, am going to do whatever the f*ck I want, and just beast through my remaining days cuz you only die once (YODO).
-To start it off, here's some ballsy texts I sent earlier today:

Girl #1

Me: Yo biyotch
Me: U best sho up for (blablabla) this weekend.
Girl: Who is this? (She gave me her number)
M: Guess
G: Can u just tell me please? (What a boring chick)
M: Tis BuddhaDJ
G: Omg you freaked me out lol hey
M: :p
M: If u don't show up I'm gonna hunt you down
G: I will be there lol
G: blablabla excuse about not showing up last time cuz she was sick
M: blablabla tell her to leave that funk at home cuz it's gonna be a paaaaartay
G: haha lol

This b*tch is gonna get plowed this weekend by yours truly.

Girl #2

Me: I'm expecting cupcakes tomorrow (previous convo about her making cupcakes)
Girl: Then you are going to be sorely dissappointed (mm, fiery!)
M: C'mon ill pay with hugs.
G: now you get negative cupcakes
M: How do I get positive ones? Kisses? (Oh, ya. It's on)
G: ew no. You don't get any cupcakes
M: Ur gonna eat all of them urself?!?
G: HECK YEA
M: blablabla
M: meet me after skool tomorrow we gon have a cupcake eatin contest

Ending was pretty sappy. The point was to get her to hang out with me after skool so I can work my magic on her.

Never went to the mall with my bro last weekend, got some sick clothes instead. It's all good, I decided that the stick up his a$$ was way to far up there, for him to be able to beast with me.

1st rule of Project Get P*ssy:
You don't give a f*ck.

2nd rule of Project Get P*ssy:
You DON'T give a f*ck!

Buddha out.
 

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Me: /holding a tuxedo/ Hey what's up
G: Lol what is that?
M: It's my tuxedo for the Super Sexy Man Convention tonight.
G: /rofl/ lol/ laughter ensues/ What is the Sexy Man Convention?
M: It's this convention where all the sexy men of the world come together.
G: Just men?
M: Oh no there's sexy women there too, but not just any woman can attend.
M: I would invite you, but you haven't been trained.
G: Trained?!?
M: Oh yes, we have to slowly accustom women to the amount of sexiness that goes on at the Sexy Man Convention. If we didn't, then the women would just die at the sight of it.
Random guy: How many women are there? (I think that's what he said)
M: 20
G: 20 women have died?!? (Not what I meant but I just went with it)
M: Oh yes, see it's a very delicate process. See, first we show the woman one sexy man. The next day, we show the woman two sexy men, and it keeps going until she can handle all the sexiness at the Sexy Man Convention.
G: /Laughing her a$$ off/ (which is quite nice btw) (her a$$ I mean)
M: So hit me up when you want to start your training.

Would have gone further, etc. However, I got c*ckblocked by this f*ggot at the end. I didn't really want to pursue cuz it was at school, and I didn't want a mess on my hands that I had to clean up.

Oh ya Day 18 Fap-Free milk here.
 

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I feel like time is passing by really fast lately. All I do is d*ck around all day which is fun and all, but I have no long term goals. I honestly don't even know what I would want to have as a long term goal. I have hobbies and sh*t, but that's all they are, hobbies. I don't see myself dedicating mass amounts of time to them.

I feel like school is a waste of time, and so is s*cking major corporation's d*cks so you can get a high paying desk job. I feel like I need to pursue music or an art, but I lack the motivation to do it. I am just a cloud who rains every now and then.

Please give advice.

Day 19 Fap-Free Milk
 

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Write them down. Add timeframes and steps to achieve.

If you can't think of goals, you aren't trying hard enough, and you can be sure that will translate into the rest of your life.
 

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BuddhaDJ said:
I feel like school is a waste of time, and so is s*cking major corporation's d*cks so you can get a high paying desk job. I feel like I need to pursue music or an art, but I lack the motivation to do it. I am just a cloud who rains every now and then.
When you look at life in a negative way, you are bound to feel no motivation for anything as you will constantly ask yourself: what's the point?

I think you've reached the point in life where you need to start thinking what you want to accomplish with your life. Is your goal to change things? Make life better for others and yourself? Nothing is impossible (just look at how humanity has progressed over time).

I don't mean to philosophize you but rather I wanted to open your eyes to think more positive.
 

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GOALS

-Become an athlete that can do anything (I do not want to focus on physique).
-Create music that I enjoy.
-Create art that I enjoy.
 

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What's up guys, just came back from youth group where I was a boss as usual, and I have to say, I need to find a girl to bust a nut on soon or else I'm going to go insane. There was like one opportunity tonight for me to isolate, but I didn't really notice the opportunity until I looked back on it. Anybody got any tips on isolating girls at school? Should I even try to isolate girls at school? I'm getting so horny I'm considering asking my parents to drive me and a girl to a date.

On another note, I have started to watch the Blueprint.

Day 21 Fap-Free Milk
Hold On, Be Strong
 

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BuddhaDJ said:
GOALS

-Become an athlete that can do anything (I do not want to focus on physique).
-Create music that I enjoy.
-Create art that I enjoy.
This is such bull****.
It's a weeak attempt on a third of the work. Where's the rest of your goals? Where's timeframes and planning? Where's steps and resources? Give yourself some respect.
 

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Did you write a song yesterday? Did you paint a painting? Did you dribble a basketball or soccer ball?

People who achieve those goals not only aspire to them, they commit their lives to them.
 

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Alright, alright don't get your panties in a twist.

1. Become an athlete
-Run 5 miles every day
-Work on pull-ups everyday
-Lift weights 3 times a week
-Rock climb for at least 30 minutes every day

(my shoulder is still healing, so currently all I can do is squats and run)

2. Create music
-Practice guitar for 30 minutes everyday.
-Practice rapping for 15 minutes everyday. (Currently, I'm reading the book "How to Rap")

3. Create art
-Finish at least one major project every 2 weeks
 

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Yeah, I really wish I had started going to the gym much earlier, its been 4 weeks and 2 days and man, I'm not going to exaggerate and tell you about the magical transformation physically. That's a long time away I suppose, but I enjoy it, it relieves my tension, I can't remember the last time I was ever totally stressed out. It gives me this chill vibe and maybe the change are happening more psychologically than physically at the moment but I feel like a man.

Its hard to put into words, but my posture has improved a bit, which leads to a better walk, which leads to an added sense of confidence, it must be the testosterone, yeah, maybe. But anyway, do it man, you will love it, I know I am.
 

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