Broke NC with Stripper after 9 weeks

[headFirst]

I mean if he wants to hook up with strippers, prostitutes, nerds, black, white, Chinese.. whatever.. That's his deal.

But honestly giving the age difference I don't think anything good will ever come of it. I'm 27.. and girls who are 21-22, I feel like I have so much more life experience than them (at least the ones I've dealt with), and there is just an imbalance of maturity sometimes. I just can't see a 20 yr old stripper and a 41 year old guy ever going anywhere with the guy who has developed feelings for the girl 21 yrs younger than him.. If it was just fun great.. but clearly it's not. I'd find some girls at least in their late 20's..

I just can't see a 20 yr old girl staying with you for that long. Nothing against you, your looks, or your character.. Just logically doesn't seem like a good fit for you or her.

 

[bigneil]

First Solomon said she'd never call. Then when she did, he made fun of me for not taking her up on her last-minute Saturday night offer. Then upon learning she was at the club (as if her friends would offer sight-unseen, free sex to other guys), he said "Aha! It was a trick! He had to pay!" As you know, Solomon would never pay for sex. But he fell for my trap because I intentionally put the cost in terms of hours, which since our salaries are unknown (I just changed jobs 2 weeks ago), made the entire point meaningless unless Solomon (or any of the "I don't pay for sex" crowd) would state his annual salary.

Solomon, by telling us your 2011 earnings it will help the younger forum members who Tony Baloney is so valiently standing up for. For example, if Solomon makes the same as the average US household income of $35,000 (which I doubt), 5 hours pay would be $87.50 for each girl. Has Solomon ever spent that much on a date, and if it ended in sex would he consider that a success? To be honest, $87.50 is probably pushing the limit of most members dating budgets.

Meanwhile, what if I only make $2000 a year? That would mean it was only costing me 50 cents per girl. Would that constitute "paying for it"?

You have mentioned before you have a nervous tick.

That was sarcasm, chubs, but it's flattering to know that members study my every word like the Gospel. Maybe you can remember this: I'm in perfect physical health. Now go back to playing cards with a mob of Italian men in your mom's basement.

@headfirst: something good already came out of it, and I wasn't looking to marry her. No hot women are stable long term (they lose their beauty for one).


In Closing
Success means achieving what you set out to do. It's one step at a time. People here are mixing and matching my success regarding the OP with the morals of dating/paying a stripper and their own opinion of me. But the point of the OP was breaking NC with a Stripper. In particular, coming up with the magic words to undo the damage after your woman's love turns to hate. Given that the last time she offered a 3 way with her friend (at the club or not) was in February, in the heydey of our relationship, we're on the right track and I succeeded at my goal. Had it been called Breaking NC with that Girl from Church, success would have meant going to church with her again. Had it been called Breaking NC with the Girl from The Deli, it would mean TonyBaloney finally lost his virginity. With a stripper, successfully breaking NC means having her try to lure me to her club again (which is how the first 2 months of the relationship were).

If there is one thing people should take from this thread, it's that when you succeed, you'll have most members (who let's face it, are not good with women) tell you that you not only failed, but that you failed so miserably it proves you should never try again.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

First Solomon said she'd never call. Then when she did, he made fun of me for not taking her up on her last-minute Saturday night offer. Then upon learning she was at the club (as if her friends would offer sight-unseen, free sex to other guys), he said "Aha! It as a trick! He had to pay!" As you know, Solomon would never pay for sex. But he fell for my trap because I intentionally put the cost in terms of hours, which since our salaries are unknown (I just changed jobs 2 weeks ago), made the entire point meaningless.

I wonder if Solomon would state his annual salary to help the younger forum members he has so valiently stood up for here. so we can figure out ten hours pay would be for him? Given that we could divide his 2011 earnings by 200 for the answer (2000 hours a year / 10 hours). For example, if Solomon makes the same as the average US household income of $35,000 (which I doubt), that would be $175 (or $87.50 for each girl). Have any of you "I don't pay for sex" ever spent $87.50 on a date toward the end goal of obtaining sex? To be honest, that's probably pushing the limit of his budget.


That was sarcasm, chubs. Go back to playing cards with a mob of Italian men.

@headfirst: something good already came out of it, and I wasn't looking to marry her. No hot women are stable long term (they lose their beauty for one).

We get it Big Neil. You promote dating dancers on this screen name then promote the Ukraine on your BigJimbo alter ego. Keep up the good work.

 

[bigneil]

NAUGHTY NINJA'S CLAIM TO FAME IS THAT HE PUTS EVERY POST IN BOLDFACE SO IT APPEARS LIKE HE'S SHOUTING.

PS -

I'm 27.. and girls who are 21-22, I feel like I have so much more life experience than them

Absolutely true. And 27 is the best age to date them too, you're in your prime and can date women 16 to 40. But you realize that ALL women 21-22 are out of control.

It's not that 21-22 are too young. They are too old. They are already jaded by then.

Regarding paying girls: if you think the sex is expensive now, wait until it's free.

 

[Trump]

Well it had been over 60 days since I cancelled our last date and walked away, officially ending our 6 month courtship (due to her acting like a woman scorned for a whole month after our first fight). But as many of you know, I couldn't forget the stripper. So last night I finally broke down. After I went to her club (where for the second time she was not working) I texted her (her replies in italics):

11:30PM - "Dear Stripper, The club just isn't the same without you. Bigneil".
11:36PM - "Well then I guess you shouldn't go there!"
11:43PM - "Would you prefer I didn't?"

Note she claimed to have ended it because of the way I treated the (luxury) hotel staff on the phone when they actually forgot towels in the bathroom.

I haven't replied. What do you guys think?

I'm just curious, how do you care about a woman who hasn't phoned or texted you in 2 months? Doesnt that mean she doesn't care if you are dead or alive, or screwing other women?

When I was in my early 20s I used to think all girls cared about me and I was the man, then I realized that they never called me or checked up on me, I was only good to them after they slept with other guys and needed some emotional support. Needless to say it was a good wake up call.

 

[Gray The Prince]

All noobs should stay out of this thread. This will drive them off course big time.

 

[TonyBaloney]

Couple of obvious and not so obvious points here. Firstly, as you are not European, I think you need a little history lesson as your mind is mashed up from spending soooo much time on here. Not all Italian men sit round playing cards in basements. Far from it; without sounding too sycophantic, they are a strong race of people, whom America, the rest of Europe and the World owe a great amount of culture and civilization too. So have some gratitude to be sitting there in the good U.S.A, as it wouldnt have existed without the original Roman empire. Rather than a lame, snarling remark.

Secondly, why did you assume I'm Italian???? I'm not. I am a proud Anglo Saxon. My roots are recorded, with my surname for over a thousand years in England.

Thirdly, Im 6ft 1 and weigh 14 stones. How did you arrive at the conclusion, (this key thrase should be a mantra for all of us Neil dis believers) that I am fat???

Oh Neil, do us all a favour and step back into line, and start behaving like just a normal forum member. Its tiring reading your garbage. I'm here for interesting articles. Not to hear you drone on about the mundanities of your disasterous relationship.

 

[Solomon]

answers in bold

First Solomon said she'd never call. Then when she did, he made fun of me for not taking her up on her last-minute Saturday night offer.

Only a phaggott would turn down a 3-some, even if it's with an ex, of course you conviently forgot to mention that these women wanted you too "trick" off. Your not a player, far from a pimp. Your still a AFC at heart and this thread proves it!

Then upon learning she was at the club (as if her friends would offer sight-unseen, free sex to other guys), he said "Aha! It was a trick! He had to pay!" As you know, Solomon would never pay for sex.

We all have paid in one way or another. Whether you buy a bottle of booze or take her to some fancy dinner. We pay, sometimes it's not money that we pay with the most but with but our time, which is priceless!

But he fell for my trap because I intentionally put the cost in terms of hours, which since our salaries are unknown (I just changed jobs 2 weeks ago), made the entire point meaningless unless Solomon (or any of the "I don't pay for sex" crowd) would state his annual salary.

ROFLLLLLLLLLL, what does my salary have to do with this? typical bait & switch tactic. More proof that you are a Simp!

Solomon, by telling us your 2011 earnings it will help the younger forum members who Tony Baloney is so valiently standing up for. For example, if Solomon makes the same as the average US household income of $35,000 (which I doubt), 5 hours pay would be $87.50 for each girl. Has Solomon ever spent that much on a date,

2 years ago I spend $107 on a girl that I wasn't fuccing. We were friends the bill came to $150(she paid the rest). Now I knew going into this I wouldn't be fuccing her, and at the time it didn't bother me cause I had the funds. Lately I've been paying more for my guy friends as well. Most of them are fresh out of college, which is fine. Last year I spend $80 on a a first date. I had cabin fever and wanted to go out and ended up getting blue balls. This year the most I spend on a date $55 inlcuding a bottle of booze I bought, was it worth it? :cheer:

and if it ended in sex would he consider that a success? To be honest, $87.50 is probably pushing the limit of most members dating budgets.

Now your trying to "stunt" on me with how much money you can throw around. LIke I'm suppose to be impressed. A real boss never talks about how much doe he holds dum dum. On another note, I did some math last year and I noticed on average the girls I was spendig the most money on equaled $37 a date. I never got laid. THe girls that I got laid the most I spend $16. You do the math

I came to the conclusion that the girls I knew I didn't have to take out I didn't spend much money on which goes to show that qualfying is key to knowing if your in or not
Meanwhile, what if I only make $2000 a year? That would mean it was only costing me 50 cents per girl. Would that constitute "paying for it"? .

In the end now your trying to argue semantics
BigNeil while I respect that you bang chicks half your age, how you go about it is far from impressive.

Anyone can go to a strip club "make it rain" and bang a few strippers that way.

You can try to argue how rich you are all you want. In the end your crying over a low quality stripper chick, when you could be going out and getting some other new broad

Just saying

 

[Naughty Ninja]

NAUGHTY NINJA'S CLAIM TO FAME IS THAT HE PUTS EVERY POST IN BOLDFACE SO IT APPEARS LIKE HE'S SHOUTING.

You just might be on to something there. In the immortal words of Frank Rizzo Jerky Boy: Open your ears jacka$$!!

 

[coochieman]

Okay ladies, it's only over-analysis now.

About the Money corckfight:
Money's good, very. If you can afford spending big on whaterver, go 'head. That's the luxury you enjoy for your hard work. Way better than being otherwise.

With that being said....
Let BigNeil make his decisions, he's a big boy. It would be better to know what's hiding in the dark since his curiosity is that triggered. Nothin' would kill, you'd only know better for next time. Make your decisions.

To Bigneil:
So much talk I don't even know the situation any longer (too tired to go thru' this thread so).... Bro, what's the plan with this chick ? When do ya intend to end with her ? Or what's up ? Lemme hear a long term plan.

PS.... The stripper is the most discussed lassie I've seen on this site (Bro, I really hope she's worth the spotlight). Maybe even the most discussed person. Her only rival seems to be Mr. Jibbles.

 

[Professor Booty]

You can't be a customer of and be dating a stripper at the same time. Even if some stuff happens for free, if you have to keep going to the club and paying for dances and drinks to keep the relationship alive, then it's a business relationship. Strippers make most of their money off their regulars, and one way to keep a regular is to make him think he's in some kind of relationship with her. It's a classic scam.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

It is interesting how Bigneil sees and posts threads not about a chick he's dating but sees her as her job= 'stripper'.

Anyone else refer to chicks they're dating as "the banker" "the secretary" "the college grad" all the time rather than a chick?