Breaking the ice with different races

[kejaris]

Originally posted by becker
kejaris, I'm not saying I agree with it, it's just been my experience in the area. I hope for your sake things are different, since you're into these girls.

I agree that asian girls and caucasian guys are common. Funny how it isn't the same all the time with asian guys and caucasian women...

I find that funny too, personally I don't care either way. You should be with who makes you happy.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by becker
My experience says that Chinese people do not like black men unless they are very Americanized. I know it's pretty prejudicial, but that's what I've seen. Asians are generally more traditional and reserved if they are those that just came from Asia and didn't grow up in the States. They are more hesitant to get involved with stuff out of the norm, such as interracial dating.

You know, this is a good reason to have your own personality and style. Following trends and stereotypes will limit you to groups that follow the same patterns and stereotypes.

For me it has always worked to beat my own drum and do things based on my preference and not just what I see on television. Women that are bored of the same old thing tend to gravitate toward me.

Viva la difference!!!

 

[becker]

Originally posted by kejaris
I find that funny too, personally I don't care either way. You should be with who makes you happy.

Yeah, I agree, I wish everyone thought that way

 

[hardwork]

Discussion

 

[myfriendblu]

Re: I'd like to try and offer some help...

Originally posted by Chubbs Peterson
First of all, breaking the ice with any woman, regardless of race, depends on the situation. So there's no standard answers here.

However, I've been with all different races myself. Here's some GENERAL thoughts that I can offer you:

It's ALWAYS good to have some knowledge about the other person's culture. The culture's nuances, music, food, etc. Basically, you have to "go to her." This not only makes the female more comfortable, but it helps make you a more well-rounded and interesting person.

NOW, Here's what I know...

If you are a Black male interested in Asian females...

...your BEST bet is going to be with Philipinas. Most Philipinos, being a marginalized ethnicity in the USA, in general "choose sides." By this I mean that they either identify with "White" American culture OR "Black" American culture. This is in contrast to most other Asian ethnicities in the USA who tend to gravitate towards "white" American culture. Philipinos in general are very cool people.

...your second best bet among the Asian population is with Koreans, who tend to have more exposure to Black Americans than other Asians in the USA. It doesn't mean they will be attracted to you, but at least Blacks aren't "foreign" to them. They MAY identify with Blacks somewhat only because their ethnicity is the most derided among other Asians.

...your third best bet would be with "trendy" Japanese girls. DEPENDING on what your social scene is, there are plenty of Japanese nationals who are interested in "Black" American culture. This is a niche market, and you aren't part of this "scene" you may encounter difficulty.

...another option is East Indian females. Like the Philipinas, they also tend to "choose sides" as far as who they hang with. There are many people of East Indian origin who migrated to the Carribean, so they are familiar with Blacks and may share common Carribean culture. Particularly the darker skinned ones. Regardless of YOUR race, I've found that East Indian females are most receptive when you've displayed even as much as a superficial knowledge of their culture. Most Americans don't know SH1T about their culture, so expressing some basic knowledge usually impresses them.

Now as far as the LATINAS...
...Damn. I love the latinas. I have a soft spot (actually, a hard spot) for them.

First of all, don't call them "Hispanics." Among Latins, that term tends to denote someone as being a Eurocentric Sell-out. It's the equivalent of calling a Black person a "Negro." Call them "Latinas."

Secondly, Latins tend to date other Latins mostly. If they have more European features they might date White Americans, but in my experience most of those who date non-Latins will gravitate towards Blacks.

Thirdly, Latin culture is VERY macho. Latin woman are very faithfull to their men, but you have to play them right in order to get them.

Now, as a Black male, you'll be most successful with...

...Dominicans and Puerto Ricans, since they tend to live in the same areas as Blacks, and also are darker skinned and may actually be Black themselves--or at least have someone in their family who has more pronounced African features.

...Brazilians also share an African ancestry, and are somewhat less color concious than other latins. They are also very fun, warm people. Brazilians are the BEST, but their presence in the USA is relatively small.

...Cubans are difficult. Mostly because the ones who migrated to the USA since the 1960's were mostly the affluent, lighter abd fair-skinned ones who have an unspoken color caste-system.

...Mexicans are also a bit problematic. They are the most prominent of America's Latino population, and tend to date within their group exclusively. They also tend to not like Blacks since their is often competition between them and Blacks for neighborhoods. BUT there are plenty of Mexicanas that will date Black men. Usually if they've gone to school with Blacks.

Go get 'em. tiger.

Yea i second that. What a kick as s post. Genious.
One thing i would like to add. As far as the brasilian prescence in the US, there ARE quite a few brasilians in the LA/so-cal area. Just wanted to add that. I met quite a few lest time i was in LA. As far as the rest of the US, forget about it.

 

[DIESEL]

Re: Re: I'd like to try and offer some help...

Originally posted by myfriendblu
Yea i second that. What a kick as s post. Genious.
One thing i would like to add. As far as the brasilian prescence in the US, there ARE quite a few brasilians in the LA/so-cal area. Just wanted to add that. I met quite a few lest time i was in LA. As far as the rest of the US, forget about it.

plenty of Brazilians down here in Miami...

 

[kejaris]

Re: Re: Re: I'd like to try and offer some help...

Originally posted by DIESEL
plenty of Brazilians down here in Miami...

When I was in Atlanta I've only met one Brazilian girl. She was nice but her acne turned me off but I loved her accent.

By the way the chinese girl at the drug store said she had a boyfreind. her loss

 

[iqqi]

i know in a perfect world people would like you for who you are. but in our world, people have preferences, and disqualifications. some of these are based on looks like body type, facial features. but they are also based on race. this goes for men and women. that's just the way it is.

i have friends who REFUSE to date anyone who isn't black, or maybe latin. and i have friends who would date any "preppicized" ethnicity except black. they just aren't attracted to those races. shallow, yes. but so is only being attracted to muscles.

i'd say don't beat yourself up over it. chic probaly just isn't openminded enough yet. maybe you can help her get there.

 

[Player_Supreme]

***this message is for the poster of this thread only****



sup my nizzo! I have had a few hispanic women...watch out! wildly passionate. they love too strong sometimes and talk about possessive and coniving.

the approach is the same as any other ho/woman. c&f works well with them.

I have very limited experience with asian women. I can't help you there.

Uhh about that being uncut...how the hell did that happen. most kids are circumsized in this country at birth or shortly thereafter.

I guess it's nothing to be ashamed of as long as your clean and shyt. Most brotha's are so you shouldn't have trouble.

As far as being a "black guy" your the in product now. I am living proof. With all those black stars in the movies, rap artist, ect ect that other races are loving on a lot of other races want to experience the black myth.

We are one of the tops of the food chain babyboi. Yeah Yeah I know a bunch of guys are going to disagree on this....and do disagree until they catch their woman oggling a black dude. Until they ask their woman if they like Denzel Washington or LL cool J, or Vin Diesel...ect ect.

So go out there and just do it!

 

[Pancho]

Damn I so wanna go to miami. If i had to pick a single place to live after i finish school, miami would be it.

There are almost NO latinas where I live, only chileans and salvadorians (in canada). I do alright with white girl and asians....right now, i am going out with a curvy asian girl (very unusual).....

But as a latino, I want to be around more latinos. Sh!t, one time i stopped at the miami airport on the way to south america, and i felt more at home there than here which is werid cause i was cursed (lol..some might disagree) with looking like a white guy. All my family is dark, and im the only light guy.

Still...when i finish school, miami is the first place im going.

Pancho

 

[kejaris]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
***this message is for the poster of this thread only****

As far as being a "black guy" your the in product now. I am living proof. With all those black stars in the movies, rap artist, ect ect that other races are loving on a lot of other races want to experience the black myth.

We are one of the tops of the food chain babyboi. Yeah Yeah I know a bunch of guys are going to disagree on this....and do disagree until they catch their woman oggling a black dude. Until they ask their woman if they like Denzel Washington or LL cool J, or Vin Diesel...ect ect.

So go out there and just do it!

Yo son by "uncut" I mean a black person that got big nose,lips and is dark-skinned it ain't go nothing to do with my temple.

But I feel you on chicks trying to experiece the black myth/style
Me personally I get white girls steppin to me but I only find a few of them that I feel are fine. And on top of that there's this thug fetish they got. Now I can handle myself on the streets but ain't a thug. I'm more of a geek but I click with chicks. Don't ask me how that works It just does but I cant get the asian chicks. I wanna also holla at some of these mexican chicks but I don't know a lick of Spanish.

 

[kejaris]

Originally posted by Pancho
Damn I so wanna go to miami. If i had to pick a single place to live after i finish school, miami would be it.

There are almost NO latinas where I live, only chileans and salvadorians (in canada). I do alright with white girl and asians....right now, i am going out with a curvy asian girl (very unusual).....

But as a latino, I want to be around more latinos. Sh!t, one time i stopped at the miami airport on the way to south america, and i felt more at home there than here which is werid cause i was cursed (lol..some might disagree) with looking like a white guy. All my family is dark, and im the only light guy.

Still...when i finish school, miami is the first place im going.

Pancho

come to CHI town if you like mexican girls or puerto ricans girls you will be happy

 

[Pancho]

CHI town??

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by kejaris
come to CHI town if you like mexican girls or puerto ricans girls you will be happy

Out of curiosity, where can Latinas be found in Chicago?

 

[kejaris]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Out of curiosity, where can Latinas be found in Chicago?

The mexican community is roughly in the inner city on Pilsen is located on Chicago’s near west side adjacent to Downtown and the South Loop. Little Village is also located on the west side adjacent southwest to Pilsen. You can also go to Cicero or Joilet to find mexican girls but watch out for gang members and such. But overall they are cool as hell. I really can't say where you can find other latina types they are pretty much everywhere.

 

[BGMan]

Originally posted by DIESEL
I highly recommend a little field trip down to Miami...

but til then... get a load of some top-shelf Cuban pvssy:

Isabel Fleitas aka "Sissi" every Cuban boy in Miami wants to hit this:

check it:
http://especiales.univision.com/contentuvn/rinconlatino/sissi/galerias.html

Odalis - check out the rack and booty on this one!
http://www.celebshop.com/cgi-bin/tour.cgi?id=2657

Niurka Marcos - i don't really know what the hell she's famous for (other than the obvious) she's sort of a latin cross b/w Cher and Jessica Rabbit.

http://www.fulllatin.com/niurka_galleries.htm

Yow wow! Too bad I live at the other end of the COUNTRY!

Originally posted by DIESEL
...Cubans are difficult. Mostly because the ones who migrated to the USA since the 1960's were mostly the affluent, lighter abd fair-skinned ones who have an unspoken color caste-system.

Maybe so, but I guess this means that at least us white brothers have a chance! (Heck, as far as I'm concerned, the chicks you have up ARE white, just... umm... a different flavor!)

BGMan

 

[Player_Supreme]

Yo son by "uncut" I mean a black person that got big nose,lips and is dark-skinned it ain't go nothing to do with my temple.

lol...you mean like the 1 over 2's (half & halfs like vin deisel)...el debarge types...your just a plain ole black man ya mean...100 percent all raw and natural no additives or dilutitives....I feel ya!
Good lookin out family

Holla!

 

[DIESEL]

Originally posted by BGMan

Maybe so, but I guess this means that at least us white brothers have a chance! (Heck, as far as I'm concerned, the chicks you have up ARE white, just... umm... a different flavor!)

Yeah bro... that's what I'm trying to tell people.. I think most Americans have this vision of Latinos as all looking like either the Mexicans you see in East LA on TV or the half-black 'Ricans/Dominicans you see in the Bronx/Queens. Granted those two groups make up almost 95% of all Latinos in the US, but it reinforces a stereotype about Latinos that just isn't true...

Latinos come in every color, shape, and size. Did you know there are Cuban Asians? Yup. a lot of Chinese immigrated to Cuba at the turn of the century! Or that there are Japanese in Peru?

A word of advice, about the white boys and Latinas.. you better come with your "A" game.. your average Latina, especially Cuban girls in Miami are much harder to mack than your average white girl, fo' sho!

Also, most Latinas I know have a bad stereotype about white boys - i.e. they are kind of "square" and dorky... like I said, you gotta come with your best shyt to these Latinas... after a lifetime of gettin' macked to by much more aggresive Latin men, they will not give you a second chance if you come like a weak chump !

good luck with the latinas,
D

 

[Player_Supreme]

A word of advice, about the white boys and Latinas.. you better come with your "A" game.. your average Latina, especially Cuban girls in Miami are much harder to mack than your average white girl, fo' sho!


djeah, I've heard that shyt!

 

[learningtopimp]

Dude I've noticed with Latinas you just gotta be as confident as possible and remember that you are the shyte. I've had a few Latino friends that were true DJ's and they are always telling me how aggressive you gotta be with Latinas because of what they are used to I guess. I've hooked up with a couple, just don't get intimidated and come strong, you should be fine.