Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Oh yeah, I forgot about them hanging around Cirero Ave. Hey, how about over on 22nd street near King Drive. Is that area still called Jew Town or is that not politically correct any more?
Breaking the ice with different races
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kejaris
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Diesel get the f--CK outta here??? I don't belive it
"Cuban Asians", I get the best of both worlds.
Hey Diesel, I mean picture it. An asian chick with a J-lo booty or
a Shakira type chick with asian eyes. Hell a woman like that could
make me stop cheating on women for real. Diesel can you give me some more info on that? A brotha is mighty interested.
Holla back
kejaris
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As far as I know Francisco It's still called that.
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backbreaker
Master Don Juan
You seem to be asking the wrong question. I am to african american and I mostly date women of different enthnicity, and I really don't have a proglem "opening up" or "breaking the ice". This isn't the 60's, women and men are hip to interracial dating, I would even venture that being a different race plays in yours and my favor from time to time.
What I have learned is just don't make it in issue and more times than not it won't be. Plain and simple.
What I have learned is just don't make it in issue and more times than not it won't be. Plain and simple.
Come on down here to Miami if you want to meet some beautiful South American and Cuban chicks. My girl is from Brasil, and totally rocks. The Latin community is pretty strong in Miami and Fort Lauderdale. Brush up on your spanish (and portuguese for the Brasilians) though.
Re: I'd like to try and offer some help...
Beautiful and wonderful girls, i love them all. And if you can talk portuguese, you'll get many points with them. As Stil said, there's many brazilians in Miami, some in NY and Boston.
Yes, we are!
Beautiful and wonderful girls, i love them all. And if you can talk portuguese, you'll get many points with them. As Stil said, there's many brazilians in Miami, some in NY and Boston.BGMan
Master Don Juan
I checked for you.Originally posted by kejaris
Diesel get the f--CK outta here??? I don't belive it
"Cuban Asians", I get the best of both worlds.
Hey Diesel, I mean picture it. An asian chick with a J-lo booty or
a Shakira type chick with asian eyes. Hell a woman like that could
make me stop cheating on women for real. Diesel can you give me some more info on that? A brotha is mighty interested.
Holla back
Cuba has about 100,000 Chinese. If you're up on the news, you should have heard about Peruvian President Alberto Fujimori, but the largest concentration is the about 1 million Japanese in Brazil -- that's more than in the United States (200,000 in Hawaii, 600,000 in California and the rest of the other 48 states)
Actually, I think a lot of the mestizas have "Asian eyes", but maybe that's 'cos of their amerindian background. They make up the majority of Latin America's population.
So in summary, Asian Latinas are rather rare -- at least in the US -- but they do exist.
Happy hunting!
BGMan
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just wondered, is it the same for white guys or is it different?
learningtopimp
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I think white guys have a little easier time with certain types of asian females....especially Japanese and Chinese American from what I have seen. Maybe Korean also, I'm not sure. Because, as Jake and many other Asian DJ's will tell you, many Asian women (and other women also not just Asians) have internalized racism that leads them to date whites but not blacks.
At the same time, you gotta remember that about half of Asian females really don't like white guys or any non-Asian guys, so those you won't have a chance with. I think a white guy can get a cute Asian girl with a decent amount of work, just treat her like any other girl and DON"T show any Asian fetish type thing, they hate that. Don't say you like them better cuz they are Asian.
Also, remember, Asian girls can be harder to get up in than white girls (unless dealing with filipinas, who are more open and like black and latino guys a lot also).
At the same time, you gotta remember that about half of Asian females really don't like white guys or any non-Asian guys, so those you won't have a chance with. I think a white guy can get a cute Asian girl with a decent amount of work, just treat her like any other girl and DON"T show any Asian fetish type thing, they hate that. Don't say you like them better cuz they are Asian.
Also, remember, Asian girls can be harder to get up in than white girls (unless dealing with filipinas, who are more open and like black and latino guys a lot also).
kejaris
Don Juan
I disagree at least up here in Chicago, IR's with white girls are as common as ham and eggs.
kejaris
Don Juan
Damn, that's a long way to go for a date but I do want to go to Brazil one day. thanks for the info.Originally posted by BGMan
I checked for you.
Cuba has about 100,000 Chinese. If you're up on the news, you should have heard about Peruvian President Alberto Fujimori, but the largest concentration is the about 1 million Japanese in Brazil -- that's more than in the United States (200,000 in Hawaii, 600,000 in California and the rest of the other 48 states)
Actually, I think a lot of the mestizas have "Asian eyes", but maybe that's 'cos of their amerindian background. They make up the majority of Latin America's population.
So in summary, Asian Latinas are rather rare -- at least in the US -- but they do exist.
Happy hunting!
BGMan
jakethasnake
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Bruddah,
No, YOU'VE got it wrong. MY indian brother Learningtopimp is sayin that ASIANS are harder to convince to go IR (esp if its with a non-white guy) than white chicks. So you're disagreeing to nothing. Y'all on the same page. And btw - WHO hasn't phucked a white chick these days? For real!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I lived in Chicago and kejaris is right. Chicago is just as cool with IR's as NYC.
kejaris
Don Juan
Point taken, my bad.Originally posted by jakethasnake
Bruddah,
No, YOU'VE got it wrong. MY indian brother Learningtopimp is sayin that ASIANS are harder to convince to go IR (esp if its with a non-white guy) than white chicks. So you're disagreeing to nothing. Y'all on the same page. And btw - WHO hasn't phucked a white chick these days? For real!
kejaris
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I wonder why an asian girl would be like that
I know that asians are far and between except in Cali. I would think that since mates of the same race are hard to come by they would welcome the fact that anyone would date them. I not saying that they are desparate, or want to "just settle" for anyone but I'm just curious
I know that asians are far and between except in Cali. I would think that since mates of the same race are hard to come by they would welcome the fact that anyone would date them. I not saying that they are desparate, or want to "just settle" for anyone but I'm just curious
jakethasnake
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kejaris,
I know that was an honest question, but the fact you are SO in the dark about why an Asian woman would actually PREFER ASIAN MEN is so typcial of white and black American men -- and that is in turn very disturbing.
I think that the assumption that Asian women would be somehow 'automatically open' to dating whites and blacks is because of the stereotype of the Asian women being 'easy'. What a load of baloney!
Some definately are, and I don't deny that. But it is a pretty small percentage. Most are very conservative and because of that very reason, they are more apt to date within their race (and even then within their own ethnic groups) than white or black men. That's just the way it is.
I mean, people these days make such a big deal about the increasing number of black men dating white women, white men dating Asian women -- but the fact is that the OVERWHELMING number of Asian women and white women stick to their own. The percentages of IRs are indeed growing (esp. white men and Asian women and Asian men/white women, probably b/c in general they Asians and whites are on closer socio-economic levels than with blacks), but it's not reaching epidemic proportions as some dumb-ass muckrakers like to advertise. Gimme a break. And just the same, most black and Latin women stick to their own. It's what they're more comfortable with.
So if an Asian chick or a Latin chick or a white chick turns you down -- THEY ARE NOT BEING RACIST. Well at least, you have to give them the benefit of the doubt. (And if they are indeed not dating you coz they are prejudiced, they did you a favor. You don't need trash like that in your life.)
I mean, let's say that you're not attracted to black chicks, and some black chick accused you of being racist when you turned her down. How the hell would you feel? I think when it comes to IR dating, men need to calm the fvck down and remember that it ain't nothing personal, 99% of the time.
It ain't about race, either. If you're a very good looking Asian or black man, white chicks will DEFINATELY consider your offer. As will Latin women with a hot white guy. In this day and age, interracial dating is not that big a deal (I won't say anything about marriage, though). If you're attractive to a different race woman, she will date you.
But on the other hand, if you're not attractive to her, or only marginally so, then she will have to over look that fact and consider many other things before agreeing to see you. Things like:
- do we have friends in common?
- is he some dumb perv with a race fetish?
- is he worth my (conservative) folks throwing a fit over?
- how long have I known him?
- etc. etc.
And sometimes.... it's just not worth the effort. She might not have the patience. Or she isn't THAT tired of her current BF to consider all those damn factors just to go IR.
So kejaris and others.... it isn't THAT unnatural that some of these Asian girls might choose familiar Asian boys and the Latin girls their Latin men. Give them and us (Asian guys) some respect. We hold our own, and you have to respect the choices of Asian and Latin and black and white women. That's just the way it is....
Well, I'm just going on and on about this stuff b/c I had the exact same debate with a white girl (platonic friend) not long ago. We got into the whole 'why women might reject a man if he is from a different culture' thing, and those are the answers we came up with together. I think they're pretty solid, and fair to both sides.
What do you think?
I know that was an honest question, but the fact you are SO in the dark about why an Asian woman would actually PREFER ASIAN MEN is so typcial of white and black American men -- and that is in turn very disturbing.
I think that the assumption that Asian women would be somehow 'automatically open' to dating whites and blacks is because of the stereotype of the Asian women being 'easy'. What a load of baloney!
Some definately are, and I don't deny that. But it is a pretty small percentage. Most are very conservative and because of that very reason, they are more apt to date within their race (and even then within their own ethnic groups) than white or black men. That's just the way it is.
I mean, people these days make such a big deal about the increasing number of black men dating white women, white men dating Asian women -- but the fact is that the OVERWHELMING number of Asian women and white women stick to their own. The percentages of IRs are indeed growing (esp. white men and Asian women and Asian men/white women, probably b/c in general they Asians and whites are on closer socio-economic levels than with blacks), but it's not reaching epidemic proportions as some dumb-ass muckrakers like to advertise. Gimme a break.
And just the same, most black and Latin women stick to their own. It's what they're more comfortable with. So if an Asian chick or a Latin chick or a white chick turns you down -- THEY ARE NOT BEING RACIST. Well at least, you have to give them the benefit of the doubt. (And if they are indeed not dating you coz they are prejudiced, they did you a favor. You don't need trash like that in your life.)
I mean, let's say that you're not attracted to black chicks, and some black chick accused you of being racist when you turned her down. How the hell would you feel? I think when it comes to IR dating, men need to calm the fvck down and remember that it ain't nothing personal, 99% of the time.
It ain't about race, either. If you're a very good looking Asian or black man, white chicks will DEFINATELY consider your offer. As will Latin women with a hot white guy. In this day and age, interracial dating is not that big a deal (I won't say anything about marriage, though). If you're attractive to a different race woman, she will date you.
But on the other hand, if you're not attractive to her, or only marginally so, then she will have to over look that fact and consider many other things before agreeing to see you. Things like:
- do we have friends in common?
- is he some dumb perv with a race fetish?
- is he worth my (conservative) folks throwing a fit over?
- how long have I known him?
- etc. etc.
And sometimes.... it's just not worth the effort. She might not have the patience. Or she isn't THAT tired of her current BF to consider all those damn factors just to go IR.
So kejaris and others.... it isn't THAT unnatural that some of these Asian girls might choose familiar Asian boys and the Latin girls their Latin men. Give them and us (Asian guys) some respect. We hold our own, and you have to respect the choices of Asian and Latin and black and white women. That's just the way it is....
Well, I'm just going on and on about this stuff b/c I had the exact same debate with a white girl (platonic friend) not long ago. We got into the whole 'why women might reject a man if he is from a different culture' thing, and those are the answers we came up with together. I think they're pretty solid, and fair to both sides.
What do you think?