They are all very similar. She was boxing you out from being able to affect her attention. Plus she likely had to prove and show she don't value you to be congruent with how she was behaving before you got there and what she said about you. Why would we want female like this?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
it's too damn stressful.. The funny thing was like 1.5 years into the "so called relationship" shes would always be like if we ever broke up I don't want you to come to this or that location.. first of all who says stupid things like that.. I'm free to go wherever I want the nice thing about it I learned a lot of different places so I have a few good eating spots.
It makes us better if you let it. You have to learn our worth and refuse to be part of disrespect or anything that devalues us.
I agree.. but I spoke too soon I see she just sent me a message I'm afraid to even open it.
Fun isn't it LOL, takes a toll on your mental well being it eventually burns you out and you're left in a WTF happened state. Their lives are train wrecks they want to make yours the same.
Yep, when you get too close to one and stay with her too long the chaos that is her life spreads into yours like a contagious disease. It's a natural process though.
I just dont get it. Honestly.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Yes, you're displaying some, but it's a big part of the anger phase of recovery you are currently in, so it's all good.
lol sort of when I had my EX over she was sitting at the kitchen table and she said something to the effect that I had a mental condition.. I was like to myself WTF....is she serious? my ex got mad because I did not tell her that my friend of like 23 years was going to propose.. OMG she kept bringing that one up for months! She was like you never want me involved in your life.. Normally when I ask she would always make a excuse not to go
Damn, I am. You are right.
Her bs was likely some passive aggressiveness stuff to hit you. Maybe your good quality made her feel ****ty and In turn she wanted to bring you down.
It's just who she was as a person. Nothing wrong with you except you cared and didn't accept who she is.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Yep sounds familiar. Always asking for more time yet giving none.
Do you think you can "Ignite" a NICER woman so that she becomes hot and crazy just for you? D1ckmatize her? Get her all into you?Been dating a BPD for the last few weeks. Recognized the signs at the first date but continued anyway. Sex was out of this world and she was love-bombing me like crazy. Had a VERY great time with her those weeks. But yeah, the ugly monster she is on the inside had to rear its ugly head eventually... It did, last week, she betrayed my trust in a very important matter! Didn't really come as a shock, I've experienced the worst of the worst, many times, with many BPD's. But even though my brain tells me that it's no surprise and that it's in fact EXACTLY what I'm used to from previous BPD women, it still FEELS as a suprise because it's the exact opposite behavior of what she showed up until that moment. You know, all the love-bombing, all the sweet talk, all the hugging and caressing, all the nice behavior and all the positive vibes we had from the beginning until that moment...
Actually, I wasn't able to break things off right there on that day she fvcked me over. Next time we met after that day, she was extra-extra sweet to me and we had a very nice night, I allowed myself to fall for that. But after that night, my self-respect and common sense slowly started taking over and eventually I decided to cut myself loose from her, so I told her we're done because she fvcked me over and had lost all my trust in doing so. Of course she responded by blaming me for being so harsh to her and falsely accusing her blahblahblah. Not one word about how wrong it was what she did to me, only how I am falsely accusing her, how I'm being mean to her because I've been mistreated by other women before her but she is not like them blahblahbah.
Again, no surprise there. They can't see or admit their own mistakes, all they do is counterattack and pretend like YOU are the bad guy. She did this over text and then blocked me so I can't respond back haha. I must admit I had the urge to call her up and say some veeeery nasty things to her, but you know what? I won't
She's not worth it and I'm above that sh!t. The lion does not concern himself with the opinion of a sheep... Sure, it bothers me enough to feel the need to write about it on here, so I can kinda process it. But really, nothing which happened comes as a surprise to me, I am very well aware that it's no use to try to reason with her or even expect her to understand her own wrongdoings, I am also aware that I shouldn't feel frustrated about any of her behavior, you can't expect a tiger not to rip apart a helpless deer when he sees it and you can't expect a BPD to act reasonable. They're like Non-player characters in games, they're scripted to say the same few lines and display the same behavior over and over, there's nothing more to them and you shouldn't expect them to behave like a normal human being, they're not. They're infans in adult bodies, that's all.
Funny experience... I've rejected many hot and attractive BPD's this last year coz I want to be done with the BPD experience, they do more harm than good, even if you stay with them for a short while. Yet they are all I attract, they come at me all the time but "good" women don't. So while I was rejecting all the crazy bytches I was having a dry spell, coz I can't succeed at attracting better women... Been living like that for a long time now and eventually I couldn't hold back anymore, a man needs to date/fvck a woman at some point. So I decided to date this bytch and enjoy her company for a few weeks and was able to cut myself loose before I got oo attached to her.
On the one hand, I'm not proud of doing this. I knew she was crazy from the start, I don't want to deal with those women anymmore, I deserve better, how weak that I went with one again. But on the other hand, I feel okay. I had extreme good sex with a pornstar body type, and yes I experienced intimacy with her. Some call it fake but I know I allowed myself to feel something real with her and she did the other way around. It's just impossible for them to allow that to go on very long, so then they go from hot to cold and onfortunately you have to do that too in order to protect yourself from her.
That's what I did, I allowed myself to feel something with her and it did me good. Now that her sweet, loving and caring behavior has changed to treacherous-evil-cvnt-behavior, I told her we're through and I've buried my own feelings too.
Kinda amzed that this is who I am and I am able to do this. But the experience meant something to me, gave me some warmth for a few weeks, after being cold and woman-less for a long time. A little fuel to survive, I guess. Now I'll try to get back to the path of improving myself and finding a woman who has more to offer than those worthless BPD's. Sigh...
Good write up.Been dating a BPD for the last few weeks. Recognized the signs at the first date but continued anyway. Sex was out of this world and she was love-bombing me like crazy. Had a VERY great time with her those weeks. But yeah, the ugly monster she is on the inside had to rear its ugly head eventually... It did, last week, she betrayed my trust in a very important matter! Didn't really come as a shock, I've experienced the worst of the worst, many times, with many BPD's. But even though my brain tells me that it's no surprise and that it's in fact EXACTLY what I'm used to from previous BPD women, it still FEELS as a suprise because it's the exact opposite behavior of what she showed up until that moment. You know, all the love-bombing, all the sweet talk, all the hugging and caressing, all the nice behavior and all the positive vibes we had from the beginning until that moment...
Actually, I wasn't able to break things off right there on that day she fvcked me over. Next time we met after that day, she was extra-extra sweet to me and we had a very nice night, I allowed myself to fall for that. But after that night, my self-respect and common sense slowly started taking over and eventually I decided to cut myself loose from her, so I told her we're done because she fvcked me over and had lost all my trust in doing so. Of course she responded by blaming me for being so harsh to her and falsely accusing her blahblahblah. Not one word about how wrong it was what she did to me, she only spoke about how I am falsely accusing her and tried to shame me telling me I'm being mean to her because I've been mistreated by other women before her but she is not like them blahblahbah.
Again, no surprise there. They can't see or admit their own mistakes, all they do is counterattack and pretend like YOU are the bad guy. She did this over text and then blocked me so I can't respond back haha. I must admit I had the urge to call her up and yell some veeeery nasty things to her, but you know what? I won't
She's not worth it and I'm above that sh!t. A wise man won't allow himself to be dragged down to the level of a moron... Sure, it bothers me enough to feel the need to write about it on here, so I can kinda process it. But really, nothing which happened comes as a surprise to me, I am very well aware that it's no use trying to reason with her or even expect her to understand her own wrongdoings, I am also aware that I shouldn't feel frustrated about any of her behavior, you can't expect a tiger not to rip apart a helpless deer when he sees it and you can't expect a BPD to act reasonable. They're like Non-player characters in games, they're scripted to say the same few lines and display the same behavior over and over, there's nothing more to them and you shouldn't expect them to behave like a normal human being, they're not. They're infants in adult bodies, that's all.
Funny experience... I've rejected many hot and attractive BPD's this last year coz I want to be done with the BPD experience, they do more harm than good, even if you stay with them for a short while. Yet they are all I attract, they come at me all the time but "good" women don't. So while I was rejecting all the crazy bytches I was having a dry spell, coz I can't succeed at attracting better women... Been living like that for a long time now and eventually I couldn't hold back anymore, a man needs to date/fvck a woman at some point. So I decided to date this bytch and enjoy her company for a few weeks and was able to cut myself loose before I got too attached to her.
On the one hand, I'm not proud of doing this. I knew she was crazy from the start, I don't want to deal with those women anymore, I deserve better.. How weak that I went with one again... But on the other hand, I feel okay. I had extremely great sex with a pornstar body type, and yes I experienced intimacy with her. Some call it fake but I know I allowed myself to feel something real with her and she did the other way around. It's just impossible for them to allow that to go on very long, so then they go from hot to cold and onfortunately you have to do that too in order to protect yourself from her.
That's what I did, I allowed myself to feel something with her and it did me good. But now that her sweet, loving and caring behavior has changed to treacherous-evil-cvnt-behavior, I told her we're through and I've buried my own feelings too.
Kinda amazed that this is who I am and that I am able to do this... But the experience meant something to me, gave me some warmth for a few weeks, after being cold and woman-less for a long time. A little fuel to survive, I guess. Now I'll try to get back to the path of improving myself and finding a woman who has more to offer than those worthless BPD's. Sigh...
Yep lots of that for sure.
