I agree in a sense of having a long-term lasting and healthy relationship.
Most of us will behave differently and act differently on many situations.
I believe that a healthy and lasting relationship should have mutual-respect and a good behaviour from both sites so i agree on most of the things you have said.
Of-course the relationship will also depend on what type of chick you have and if she is a slut, or a nice easy going chick with not much of problems or toxic traits like my ex.
What i found with my current GF is that she is as easy going as f3uck. What ever i say or choose happens. What ever place i choose to eat or go out or have an activity she is in she never complains or argues or changes places.
She is letting me lead in full control of this relationship.
Of-course having your sh1t together, money, health and looks helps quite-a-lot.
You remove competition.
Very true brother. It’s a really good point that this only applies to reasonably well adjusted women. Well, as well adjusted as any woman is, which is not very!
I dated a girl before her. I was rebounding so vulnerable. She was less hot by far than my wife, she had no decent job, lived with her parents, had a fairly serious auto-immune disease, had been around the block and had very little going for her . I by contrast had a good job, lots going for me.
she bailed after 2 dates, telling friends I wasn’t compatible etc.
she ended up with a guy who dressed like a gangster rapper, who lives in a trailer (rare in UK) and now keeps her under lock and key, she can’t see her friends. Me ans my wife now have a great lifestyle, kids, holidays and a very good life.
She chose that guy over me.
Now, this is where a lot of the deeply red pill stuff comes in. These types of girls are easy prey for a one night stand, and the red pill approach works VERY well on these girls. My wife would never sleep with a guy without a relationship, it’s kind of in her DNA . Sure, I expect if a movie star came along before me she would be different - naturally, she’s a woman, but what I have appeals to good women, not bad girls.
Game is all dependent on who’s playing the game.
what I got wrong for ages was trying to be a PUA when that’s not my frame. As soon as I presented myself for what I am - a professional, intelligent, witty and solid guy, the women who want this appeared.
Even before my wife, I had 6 months of flings. It’s not always the case that all women want a chad for flings, I had plenty, I had women want nothing but short term fun with me - and I am not a chad. Women have a type. Most will want a chad of course on some level, but a lot just want someone they can relate to. Some don’t like the superficial kind of guy, some like their men unpolished. We are the same. I don’t like that traditional playboy blonde much, I don’t like tall women. I neither like “thicc” women.
Bait the hook for the fish.
I swear a lot of the black pillers fail as they try to be a chad and fail. If they just were upfront about being a nerd, and had frame around it, they would get a woman.
It’s better to be a loser than a loser who pretends he’s a winner
) saying the same things? Doesn't it immediately strike you that at her age she's said it plenty before? And that it has no value, otherwise she wouldn't be with you, she'd be in a relationship already.
