Black women for white guys

[Who is John Galt?]

Response

That '7 out of 10' comment was SARCASM, in direct reference to your shoddy theory. LOL... can't believe you missed that.

Newsflash: there are people who actually believe in absurd "facts" such as that. Plenty of white racists claim that an astronomical number of non-white males are marrying "their" women. That is why I asked "The Edge" for a source. I would be willing to wager that his source is a racist one...(his comment about black males going after FAT white chicks is a telltale sign of white racists when it comes to discussing this subject).

And you're only thinking about this from a White man's perspective (naturally).

I am Asian. It is simplistic to assume that anyone who disagrees with you ona racial issue is a white male.

The rate of outmarriage for Asian women is high because a large proportion of women older than 40 are war brides, or wives of men who brought them over to America from Asia... This certainly skews the ratio of Asian female-white male relationships to Asian male-white female ones

That is false. Apparently you are very ignorant on this subject. Perhaps you should do your homework and then comment on it.

The 1990 census revealed that among married people twenty-five to thirty-four years old in 1990, 70 percent of Asian women and 39 percent of Hispanic women (but only two percent of black women0 had white husbands.

Approximately 1/6 of black males have white wives. Now, I want all those people that assail blacks for that to respond to the much higher rate of white male preference for Asian and Hispanic women. In the minds of you simpletons does that mean they want to be Asian or Hispanic? Does that mean they feel they are inferior? Does that mean they hate their "culture"?

And MOST IMPORTANTLY, if what you said were true you would see a gradual "whitening" of every minority group in this country over subsequent generations. This has obviously not happened - in part due to still-existing segreation and mistrust, and also because of the polarization of Americans into various hyphenated entities, i.e. Korean American, Bahaminian-American, Polish American, Ecuadorian-American, etc. (though we do tend to simplify this into 'color categories' i.e. 'black', 'white', 'Asian', 'Hispanic', etc.) - this tends to breed a certain degree of insularity amongst the groups, with less resultant mixing.

You really have no clue. A study by the Population Research Center, in Portland, Oregon, projects that the black intermarriage rate will climb dramatically in this century, to a point at which 37 percent of African-Americans will claim mixed ancestry by 2100. By then more than 40 percent of Asian-Americans will be mixed. Most remarkable, however, by century's end the number of Latinos claiming mixed ancestry will be more than two times the number claiming a single background.

Your explanation is very simplistic. America is a very large nation. Many parts of this nation are not diverse. In diverse areas intermarriage is very high, and races are melting away just like
European ethnicities did in the middle of the 20th century. For instnace, out of four marriages in California today is interracial.

Again, it is extremely simplistic to expect groups to "melt away" overnight. It took well over half a century before European immigrant groups started to "melt away". Racial segregation and racist immigration policy ended only in the mid 1960's. Asians and Hispanics have started to "melt away" and African-Americans will start to melt away at a significant rate in a decade or two. By the time the white share of the population dips below 50% race will be as irrelevant as ethnicity is today among white Americans.

I'd like to go back to an absurd comment you made earlier.

. You have to take into consideration an individuals comfort with his own identity, and his determination to preserve his culture.

It is narrow-minded to assume that everyone blindly adheres to an irrational worship of their "identity" and their "culture." I am Asian; my parents are immigrants. I have absolutely no connection with the culture of their nation of origin. It is absolutely outrageous for simepltons to assume that I am betraying "my culture" or "my group" simply because I am dating a woman of a different ethnicity or "race". Newsflash: Many people have no links to their culture and could not care less about it. We seek the hottest babe we can find and do not believe in absurd quotas which will result in us finding an inferior mate to preserve a handful of nonsense customs invented centuries ago.

I find the tendency of people to make amateurish generalizations quite disturbing.

Then you must be very disturbed about yourself.

I am not merely just disagreeing with you as well. I find condescending ignoramuses who arrogantly believe they are know-it-alls very annoying.

 

[Who is John Galt?]

Don't worry about them

Originally posted by showtime17
guys color shouldnt be an issue..damm i like all kinds of chicks. if she's hot and has a good personality who cares if she is white, black or asian.

Don't worry about them. They are narrow-minded people. Do your own thing and get the best HB you can find among the total pool available and then watch them scramble for a much smaller pool of women due to their narrow-mindedness.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Maaaan...Let me put my perspective into this....

First of all, its much easier for a black male to get a white female than it is for a white male to get a black female...Why? Because most black males are more masculine than white males...Alot of black males, including myself, were taught and treated like adults by their parents, because the outside world does not treat you like a child...You know how it is in this country if your a black male, so Im not gonna even go into that...

So how does this translate to women? Well, for starters, most black women stick to their own race because of the way the world is and because black males are more masculine...Some white girls see the masculinity and they go crazy over it, thats why you have all these white girls fukking black dudes alot...Another reason is why would you mess with other dudes that arnt as masculine as their own?

So if your not black and you want black chics, make yourself more masculine...At my job, just about everyone is black, and there are very few white people...Most of the black chics dont even notice the white dudes at all, except for a few, and thats because they are masculine as sh1t...

Of course there are people who are fukked in the head and refuse to mess with their own race, but thats an exception and a whole other can of worms...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Maaaan...Let me put my perspective into this....

First of all, its much easier for a black male to get a white female than it is for a white male to get a black female...Why? Because most black males are more masculine than white males...Alot of black males, including myself, were taught and treated like adults by their parents, because the outside world does not treat you like a child...You know how it is in this country if your a black male, so Im not gonna even go into that...

Alright, just for sh1ts and giggles, what's your definition of masculine and what of those traits differ from one race to another?

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Alright, just for sh1ts and giggles, what's your definition of masculine and what of those traits differ from one race to another?

This is how I feel, from my own life, so my definition is bound to have flaws, and it might be odd to read, but theres no other way to say it...

When I was growing up, I lived in some pretty rough areas, and I can remember that the late 80's/early 90's was a pretty sh1tty time for me and alot of people...My mother had to raise me in a way so that I could be prepared for extreme situations...Also, I went to a school with all the rich kids...When I was there, I used to get into alot of fights with them because they would just fukk with me for no reason or they would try to playfight with me, and where I lived, if someone faught with you, you cant back down...I saw all the kids I went to school with, they didnt have to deal with stuff like this, and they carried themselves differntly than me, I had to carry myself in a way so that no one would fukk with me...All of this stuff that has happened to me has made me more masculine than most of these other kids...Thats why some people are so intimidated of black males...To me, it seems like the people who arnt are masculine themselves, so it doesnt bother them...

As far as a definition, I cant really speak on anyone but black folks, but go outside and look around...Go into an area where you see, black, white, asian, etc. people just doing their thing...If you pay close attention, you can see what im saying...The black males for some reason seem really masculine...

Also, you can look in the media...Blacks are seen as more masculine, like athletes and rappers, and in roles they have, they just appear more masculine...Whites can go either way, but most of the roles you see are masculine, but not extremly masculine like most of the black roles...Spanish males can go either way, and Asians too...

BUT LIKE WITH ANYTHING, THERE ARE ALWAYS EXCEPTIONS TO THE RULE...

 

[Who is John Galt?]

There are two sides to that coin

Indeed, generically, black man are perceived as more masculine and than white men in America. However, generically, white women are perceived as better looking than black women. They both combine to play a large role in creating a huge disparity between black male/white female relationships and white male/black female relationships.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Re: There are two sides to that coin

Originally posted by Who is John Galt?
Indeed, generically, black man are perceived as more masculine and than white men in America. However, generically, white women are perceived as better looking than black women. They both combine to play a large role in creating a huge disparity between black male/white female relationships and white male/black female relationships.

Heres something to add...

To me, it seems like the reason why black dudes go for white chicks is because white chicks are seen as more feminine than black chicks...Some black dudes will be like, "Oh, black girls have an additude!" or whatever, so they go over to non-black chicks...Thats why you dont see alot of white dudes going for black chicks because they figure that their women are more feminine, so why would they go for any others, just the same way the black chicks feel about black dudes...

 

[Who is John Galt?]

Re: Re: There are two sides to that coin

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Heres something to add...

To me, it seems like the reason why black dudes go for white chicks is because white chicks are seen as more feminine than black chicks...Some black dudes will be like, "Oh, black girls have an additude!" or whatever, so they go over to non-black chicks...Thats why you dont see alot of white dudes going for black chicks because they figure that their women are more feminine, so why would they go for any others, just the same way the black chicks feel about black dudes...

Good point.

 

[jakethasnake]

Re: Response

Originally posted by Who is John Galt?
Newsflash: there are people who actually believe in absurd "facts" such as that. Plenty of white racists claim that an astronomical number of non-white males are marrying "their" women. That is why I asked "The Edge" for a source. I would be willing to wager that his source is a racist one...(his comment about black males going after FAT white chicks is a telltale sign of white racists when it comes to discussing this subject).



I am Asian. It is simplistic to assume that anyone who disagrees with you ona racial issue is a white male.



That is false. Apparently you are very ignorant on this subject. Perhaps you should do your homework and then comment on it.

The 1990 census revealed that among married people twenty-five to thirty-four years old in 1990, 70 percent of Asian women and 39 percent of Hispanic women (but only two percent of black women0 had white husbands.

Approximately 1/6 of black males have white wives. Now, I want all those people that assail blacks for that to respond to the much higher rate of white male preference for Asian and Hispanic women. In the minds of you simpletons does that mean they want to be Asian or Hispanic? Does that mean they feel they are inferior? Does that mean they hate their "culture"?



You really have no clue. A study by the Population Research Center, in Portland, Oregon, projects that the black intermarriage rate will climb dramatically in this century, to a point at which 37 percent of African-Americans will claim mixed ancestry by 2100. By then more than 40 percent of Asian-Americans will be mixed. Most remarkable, however, by century's end the number of Latinos claiming mixed ancestry will be more than two times the number claiming a single background.

Your explanation is very simplistic. America is a very large nation. Many parts of this nation are not diverse. In diverse areas intermarriage is very high, and races are melting away just like
European ethnicities did in the middle of the 20th century. For instnace, out of four marriages in California today is interracial.

Again, it is extremely simplistic to expect groups to "melt away" overnight. It took well over half a century before European immigrant groups started to "melt away". Racial segregation and racist immigration policy ended only in the mid 1960's. Asians and Hispanics have started to "melt away" and African-Americans will start to melt away at a significant rate in a decade or two. By the time the white share of the population dips below 50% race will be as irrelevant as ethnicity is today among white Americans.

I'd like to go back to an absurd comment you made earlier.



It is narrow-minded to assume that everyone blindly adheres to an irrational worship of their "identity" and their "culture." I am Asian; my parents are immigrants. I have absolutely no connection with the culture of their nation of origin. It is absolutely outrageous for simepltons to assume that I am betraying "my culture" or "my group" simply because I am dating a woman of a different ethnicity or "race". Newsflash: Many people have no links to their culture and could not care less about it. We seek the hottest babe we can find and do not believe in absurd quotas which will result in us finding an inferior mate to preserve a handful of nonsense customs invented centuries ago.



Then you must be very disturbed about yourself.

I am not merely just disagreeing with you as well. I find condescending ignoramuses who arrogantly believe they are know-it-alls very annoying.

For all your personal insults thrown at me (I don't care about it that much... whatever), it's clear to me from your last comment that you're a banana. If you tell me that you're an Asian Pryder, I swear I will shyt my pants from shock. Being a banana is nothing to be proud of.


Edit: I also thought of addressing each of your malicious points, but I am too focking tired - I had a trying time at work today. Maybe one day.

 

[Who is John Galt?]

Response

For all your personal insults thrown at me

What did you expect in response?

it's clear to me from your last comment that you're a banana.

How am I white? I am an individual. I cannot be pigeonholed. Tell me why I should preserve a handful of ancient customs--especially if that will mean I will wind up with a far inferior women.

If you tell me that you're an Asian Pryder

It is absurd to be proud of an accident of birth. Being proud of being Asian is as insane as being proud about being white or black.

 

[jakethasnake]

Re: Response

Originally posted by Who is John Galt?


It is absurd to be proud of an accident of birth. Being proud of being Asian is as insane as being proud about being white or black.

Did I hear that right? You are focking insane - another die-hard liberal on a 'we are all human' mind trip. Get a grip John.


And btw, a 'banana' is an Asian with a severe identity crisis. You are just a guy who has this very funny notion of 'humanity' - one that is typcially espoused by an educated upper-middle class with too much focking free time and too little worries on their hands to come to grips with reality (that class just HAPPENS to be generally white in America, so we'll just call it that - a line of thinking that 'is white'). All this "we are the world, we are the children" crap is making me queasy.



Duh - don't you think that I MYSELF WISH that the world was colorblind? I really do. .....but let's face it - it just isn't like that. We are politically polarized along cultures and ethnic groups because of our history. Perhaps this stuff will disappear with increased misegenation and the resultant population becoming too fvcking confused about their own heritage and history to even care, but as it stands, it's not going to happen soon - definately not within your lifetime. You have grand dreams of a humanity that will take time - much more time than your measly 70-odd years of life on this Earth.

It's also a silly one - a notion of a land where every race is so busy mouting each other from behind that they won't care what they are and where their ancestors came from. Ask a lot of people on this board if they are proud to be white or black or Irish or Korean or Lithuanian or whatever. They will give you a resounding YES. Yes - yes -yes! We are all proud of where our ancestors came from, and what their journey in this land stands for. What a BORING ASS world it would be if everyone were of the same brownish mocha skin tone, without any distinguishable physical/linguistic/culinary/cultural characteristics? It is here that you're full of shyt. You can have that crappy bullshyt world to yourself John Galt... in your own delusional mind.


You're trying very hard to paint me as some kind of yellow Hitler SS Nazi Eugenist who espouses racial purity - that's why you're full of shyt. You're merely a propagandist. I don't condemn miscegenation - and just the same you'll be damn sure I'll support the rights of whites, blacks, and yellow and brown people to propagate their own. It is just as beautiful as any mixed-race union. Being proud of your past doesn't make you some kind of scummy sub-human species.

 

[alboh]

Look, I don't know if this has already been brought up -- I didn't have time to read all 5 pages of this -- but I think I know the reason why black guys date white chicks, white chicks date black guys, white guys date black chicks, white guys date black guys, black chicks date white chicks, and so on, which is that, especially in America, gender politics is still TABOO.

Race is an issue we're all supposed to sweep under the carpet and ignore. But face it, even here in Canada which is supposedly a multicultural wonderland, nearly all my friends are white, and for the most part groups of friends are split along racial lines.

Dating a black chick is exciting for me (the whitest guy on planet earth) because it's something new and unknown. That's what sexual attraction's all about, folks. Same goes for the Chinese exchange student I'm seeing right now. It's like she's from a different planet than me -- which is why making out with her feels so freaky.

Am I wrong?

 

[learningtopimp]

I have to agree with Jake. I try not to think along racial lines when I can avoid it, but America is a racially polarized society so I really cannot avoid such thinking sometimes. When people say racist **** to you especially, which people of all races do, then you will feel even more pissed off. We should all try to get along but it isn't that simple. That's how I feel about this whole thing.

 

[Who is John Galt?]

Response to Jake

Did I hear that right? You are focking insane - another die-hard liberal on a 'we are all human' mind trip. Get a grip John.

My point is that it is absurd to be proud of an accident of birth.

And btw, a 'banana' is an Asian with a severe identity crisis.

Why? Because they don't follow the script like most people?

that class just HAPPENS to be generally white in America, so we'll just call it that - a line of thinking that 'is white'

Asians have far higher education levels than whites. Asians born in the USA have significantly higher incomes than whites.

Duh - don't you think that I MYSELF WISH that the world was colorblind?

I was primarily talking about the pointlessness of "culture", not color-blindness.

It's also a silly one - a notion of a land where every race is so busy mouting each other from behind that they won't care what they are and where their ancestors came from.

History has proven this worked. Look at how ethnicity-blind whites are with respect to other whites. This was not the case 40-50 years ago.

We are all proud of where our ancestors came from

Why?

What a BORING ASS world it would be if everyone were of the same brownish mocha skin tone, without any distinguishable physical/linguistic/culinary/cultural characteristics?

What exactly is "culture"? Tell me how your "culture" differs from other common "cultures" in America. The fact of the matter is that the differences are extremely small and they are blown out of proportion by the racial pride and ethnic pride crowd.

You're trying very hard to paint me as some kind of yellow Hitler SS Nazi Eugenist who espouses racial purity

What other conclusion can be drawn about someone who has pride in "their race"? If you are proud of it surely you want to preserve it.

and just the same you'll be damn sure I'll support the rights of whites, blacks, and yellow and brown people to propagate their own.

"Their own"...think about that the next time you get discriminated against...

Being proud of your past doesn't make you some kind of scummy sub-human species.

No, but it is irrational and fundamentally bigoted.

even here in Canada which is supposedly a multicultural wonderland, nearly all my friends are white, and for the most part groups of friends are split along racial lines.

Canada is different. Virtually all minorities there are first or second generation Canadians. What is occurring in Canada is predominantly old-fashioned ethnic xenophobia, not racism. In America the problem is primarily racism. Canada will be a color-blind nation much earlier than America.

 

[Ricky]

Originally posted by iqqi
perhaps one of the reasons black men (or men of any race) date white women has alot to do with the fact that there are disproportionately MORE white woman than woman of any other color...

here in the us atleast.

this would seem like common sense to me.

This is about the only thing in this thread that makes sense....

Good job Iqqi. Are statistics an unknown science to many?

I've never had a problem with interracial dating... Both doing it or seeing it. If I get jealous of a guy with a girl I like, it doesn't matter what race he is.. it's just that I want his girl and didn't meet her first!

 

[alboh]

Re: Response to Jake

Originally posted by Who is John Galt?
Canada is different. Virtually all minorities there are first or second generation Canadians. What is occurring in Canada is predominantly old-fashioned ethnic xenophobia, not racism. In America the problem is primarily racism. Canada will be a color-blind nation much earlier than America.

That's untrue. We have tons of first-generation immigrants coming to Canada, primary from Asia and the Middle East.

 

[jakethasnake]

Re: Response

Originally posted by Who is John Galt?



How am I white? I am an individual. I cannot be pigeonholed. Tell me why I should preserve a handful of ancient customs--especially if that will mean I will wind up with a far inferior women.

Holy shyt dude. I KNOW you just didn't refer to Asian women (YOUR OWN KIND) as "inferior". That is some Major League BS right there.


You know, I cannot respect idiots like you AT ALL. You can talk a tight game with all your statistics, but regardless of that you're beneath contempt. Ask any person if they'd rather be with a white/black/brown/yellow person who is comfortable in their own skin, or some wannabe that is desperately trying to sever all his/her ties from their ancestral identity. And to top it off, you are ONE FOCKING generation removed from your parent's home nation. Give me a break - you act like you're a 15th generation Asian-American. I'll bet that your parents speak their native tongue at home, and keep in regular contact with their relatives in the mother country. You guys probably even go to local ethnic eateries that remind them of their homeland, and even watch some Asian television programming from time to time. There are things all around you that remind you of who you are, but you're trying your darndest to push it out of your mind. It's a WASTE OF TIME, banana-boy. It flows through your veins, and it written all over your golden-hued skin, in your black hair.

You seem to think that being Asian and being American are mutually exclusive. You are wrong. Black Americans embrace both their American nationality and their African heritage (even though it isn't pin-pointable to one African nation). So why can't an American with parents from Asia do the same? Sure they can! I think it's the coolest thing ever. My co-workers who only speak English look at me with envy when they see me make all those extra sales to Asian and Korean customers - they envy that I'm bilingual. It's is a definate advantage, and a blessing. And btw, I speak English like I was born and raised in some bumfvck lily-white town. It's perfect - flawless. The problem with bananas like you is that you're so uncomfortable with your Asian-ness that you treat it like it's some diesease. Maybe you've had traumatic experiences when ignorant focks pulled the ''ching chong Chinaman" act on you while pulling the corners of their eyes. What you SHOULD have done instead of internalizing that hate was kick their lily white asses. Their intention was to make themselves feel bigger than you - and it has worked. Even though you feel so un-Asian you're still only half a man. You'll never be white, so if you're not Asian, then what the hell are you? A LOSER, is what.


Any "superior" white woman you date that hears what you just said should just leave your ass on the curb. You have no respect for yourself - the hallmark of a self-hating Uncle-Tom banana. And let me tell ya - you are one RIPE ASS banana. Totally sad.

 

[jakethasnake]

By the way John - how do you picture me in person? Like, my style of dress, my speech mannerisms, my diction, my body language. I want to know what your perception of me is. Y0ur response will be telling of your personal impression of most Asians.


I'll be waiting.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm still waiting for someone to give specific masculine character traits that differentiate Black men from other races.

People have thrown the word 'masculine' around several times in this thread as some universal blanket statement that every race understands in the same manner. So if that is or isn't the case, someone speak up and lay it on the line and educate us.

 

[Devestator]

There is politically incorrect research going on about biological, innate racial differences. It is usually not done in this country b/c it can support racist beliefs and thus cannot get funding.

The findings are that, in all countries, black men have more testosterone and are more aggressive and muscular. They also tend to be better athletes in most sports. This also makes them overreprented in the criminal population. But they are better "DJs" for that reason. In other words, they tend to be more "alpha" as defined by Playa Supreme.

The book "Race, Evolution, and Behavior" outlines these differences. Amazon has it.