Black women for white guys

[Quick]

We'll we've gotten Edge from " All brothas chase white chykks" to basically saying that some of them may try to have sex with one at some point out of curiosity.

I'm a black male myself, raised in black neighborhoods, and went to a historically black university. We talked about everything, especially at school, and the truth is that most young black men have never had sex with a white woman, and even fewer desire too. Most find themselves more attracted to black women, period. More attracted to black women + social stigma of interracial dating + awkwardness of approaching a girl of a different race = not too many have actually been with a white girl. The general concensus is that if the opportunity came across with a cute white girl we wouldn't turn it down, but we weren't looking for it either.

 

[The Edge]

Originally posted by Quick
We'll we've gotten Edge from " All brothas chase white chykks" to basically saying that some of them may try to have sex with one at some point out of curiosity.

Quick

I am still learning how to pick my battles, and this is one I should not be fighting.. Arguing with spineless politically correct individuals is a lose - lose situation as far as I am concerned, so YES you are right and I am wrong about all brothas chasing white chykks...

Jake

Oh! and Jake, I still think you're a phukkyn punk...

Respectfully submitted.....Edge

 

[bishopdonjuan]

Game Over....

 

[Cruel Intentions]

*Yawn* Can we go back to getting hoes gentlemen... regardless of their color?

 

[WestCoaster]

I said it once and I'll say it again ...

... let's quit analyzing and leave Sociology 101 for a sec (though I think race is a good discussion topic) and date some sistas!

All you honkeys out there go date some sistas for awhile, you won't be disappointed. Maybe even some of you suburban boys who enjoy dating white American beyotches who will walk on you could get a new experience. I've never been let down by a minority ... well, maybe once, but not as much as pasty-white American women.

Hey, and besides if the brothers are dating white gals, that leaves more sistas for me!

Now go out there and find a sista with a nice big black booty!

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by The Edge
Oh and if you must know My Dad is Black(From Brazil)

the edge is black??!?!?!?!?!?



i never.....

 

[Devestator]

All I wanted to do was tell you all about my new appreciation for black booty and I started this amusing flame war! I'm so proud of myself.

It's been hard to get a hold of the person I got her number from. It's been some time, but I heard about "confident pursuit" (which is the opposite of "next"). I might as well. Prospecting has been harder since my weight topped 230, so I'm holding numbers longer than some of you might.

 

[MickoZ]

Devestator, let's all learn of this. I should write some tips about that... it is called conversation starter.

You talk about something that put in dilemma the value of the others:

- race
- multiple love at the same time
- sexual orientation
- etc.

It starts conversation and it also show how everything say stupidity about it... and you make them contradict themself.

As for for the race debat.

If there is no racial barrier in your head, then if there is 50 white chick and 1 black chick, and you do not get much along (attracted or whetever) with that black chick, chance are you will find one of the 50 white you love or vice versa.

People try to stereotype because it is the <OTHER RACE> that get attention that we get to know, the other one are like shadow, we do not see them, they are the average chump you find out everywhere, so no matter we will notice more a black dude pimpin a white chick, than a white dude getting 3 white girls the same night. ;-)

Also most race and often the black guys, you seem to take it way too much personal. Not everyone are, but some of you. It is just stupid if you think about it.

It is like myself, my background teached me to be somehow racism. When I was 5, I won't even eat my diner at school if that black girls was at my table... I remember... and it is weird... it is because my parenst won't have liked I date a black chick... it is how everyone get stupid values, when young... but more I evolve (good or wrong), there is some black chicks I wanna uNF, and that just show how ridiculous it is.

Also for the race, a lot of asian, black, etc. want to keep it that way because their parent think it is the way to do, and a lot will do it because their family expose them to people of the same race. Chance are some of you black find some white chick very nice, but because of your education you won't show it... and that is why you won't present the white girl to your parent. Not because she is not NICE, but mostly because you are afraid of the reaction of the other (your parent).

Therefore STOP ACTING FOR OTHER, START ACTING FOR YOURSELF. The judgement will be forgotten and will change, the chance you missed or when you repressed yourself, they will be part of your past and you won't able to come back!

 

[chlywly]

I like blackwomen too but I dunno about them not having a princess ego, maybe not princess; but they do tend to have their fists up and have a lot more attitude than I like...

 

[MickoZ]

Chance are you are attracted by the one having a big attitude and therefore those are the one you notice and remember... not the one who are all shy and stay at home and do **** ;-)

Also it can be that people coming from other country have more attitude, especially children, because they have been able to deal with all the new stuff, to adapt themself, to go against criticism, etc.

 

[Who is John Galt?]

The Edge: link?

Can you provide a link to prove your claim that 69% of black atheletes in the NFL and NBA have or had white wives? It would be interesting to see where you got it from...

69% happens to be virtually exactly what the white share of the population is. The bottom line is, if there are no barriers, and you are strictly looking for the hottest babe you can find, in America seven times out of ten she will be white. So even if minorities target white women that is rational simply because there exponentially more hot white women than hot black, Hispanic, Asian, etc. women. It is all about demographics.

 

[jakethasnake]

Re: The Edge: link?

Originally posted by Who is John Galt?
Can you provide a link to prove your claim that 69% of black atheletes in the NFL and NBA have or had white wives? It would be interesting to see where you got it from...

69% happens to be virtually exactly what the white share of the population is. The bottom line is, if there are no barriers, and you are strictly looking for the hottest babe you can find, in America seven times out of ten she will be white. So even if minorities target white women that is rational simply because there exponentially more hot white women than hot black, Hispanic, Asian, etc. women. It is all about demographics.

Oh... I guess that's why every 7 out of 10 Hispanic and Asian man has white wives. Not true. These simplistic "theories" are laughable. You have to take into consideration an individuals comfort with his own identity, and his determination to preserve his culture. Perhaps a lot of blacks would deny any shame or desire to be whiter up front, but harbor some of those notions inside? Just something to think about.

 

[Who is John Galt?]

Link?

Those numbers sound too high...

It is not about "being white." A large part of it is because of the Eurocentric standards of beauty here.

BTW, what percentage of Asian women marry white males? Does that mean those white males want to be Asian?

 

[MackJr]

I'm a "brotha", and you're missing something here. Regarding this "black men want white women stereotype:"

There are way more non-whites than blacks in this country. Then you get an education and bam!-- your numbers go down even more because the the class barrier is harder[/b/ to transcend than race. So you end up with around 6-10 white women for every 1 black woman, what are you going to do but make the most of it.

Do this: go to a online personal site, (unless you live in Philadelphia, atlanta or DC), and do a search for Black women in your area then do a search for women in general? The difference is astounding.

As for attitude, that's a class thing. Even though only lower class Blacks get put on TV, there are a lot more internal groups than the general public tends to know.

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by MackJr
I'm a "brotha", and you're missing something here. Regarding this "black men want white women stereotype:"

There are way more non-whites than blacks in this country.

i told them this.

 

[jakethasnake]

Re: Link?

Originally posted by Who is John Galt?
Those numbers sound too high...

It is not about "being white." A large part of it is because of the Eurocentric standards of beauty here.

BTW, what percentage of Asian women marry white males? Does that mean those white males want to be Asian?

That '7 out of 10' comment was SARCASM, in direct reference to your shoddy theory. LOL... can't believe you missed that. And you're only thinking about this from a White man's perspective (naturally). The rate of outmarriage for Asian women is high because a large proportion of women older than 40 are war brides, or wives of men who brought them over to America from Asia. Did you know that AS RECENTLY AS 1965, Asians were BARRED from legally entering the United States? Yes - there was a LAW forbidding any Asians from coming to America as recently as that time. And the only ones that were allowed to come were the Asian BRIDES that white American men brought over (I guess they'll make any exception for some puzzy. ). This certainly skews the ratio of Asian female-white male relationships to Asian male-white female ones -- but most Americans are not perceptive enought to notice things like this. But I just did you a favor. One of the biggest reasons why I think your and iqqi's theory is weak is because you fail to take into consideration the diverse and extremely complex reasons behind interracial marriage/relationship trend for DIFFERENT ETHNIC GROUPS.


And MOST IMPORTANTLY, if what you said were true you would see a gradual "whitening" of every minority group in this country over subsequent generations. This has obviously not happened - in part due to still-existing segreation and mistrust, and also because of the polarization of Americans into various hyphenated entities, i.e. Korean American, Bahaminian-American, Polish American, Ecuadorian-American, etc. (though we do tend to simplify this into 'color categories' i.e. 'black', 'white', 'Asian', 'Hispanic', etc.) - this tends to breed a certain degree of insularity amongst the groups, with less resultant mixing.


Btw, I'm not saying all this simply just to disagree - I find the tendency of people to make amateurish generalizations quite disturbing.

 

[jakethasnake]

Also, once a population reaches a critical mass it is possible for it's constituents to produce a self-sustaining community, both in culture and in heredity (actually it's even possible with small numbers - just look at the Pennsylvania Dutch Quakers). The African American community has reached this point because they have a sizeable number. Asian Americans and Native Americans have relatively tiny number (ESPECIALLY the Native Americans), so they aren't able to as effectively 'hold their numbers' - thus explaining their relatively higher outmarriage rates. In the case of Asian Americans, also recognize that they do not have a solidly-formed political identity - many are immigrants of widely disparate backgrounds - hence there is no cohesiveness yet, which is crucial for forming a self-sustaining community. Perhaps in time. With the case of Hispanic-Americans (esp. Mexican-Americans), their immense and growing numbers in America make it an inevitablility that they'll be the most powerful and organized group in America. It is forecast that they will be the largest ethnic group in America by 2050 - even greater in numbers than whites.

 

[mateo_g]

I think my I.Q. dropped 30 points reading this thread.

 

[jakethasnake]

You'd better go get that back, boy.

 

[showtime17]

guys color shouldnt be an issue..damm i like all kinds of chicks. if she's hot and has a good personality who cares if she is white, black or asian. i am white, but i actually prefer "minority" chicks, but it don't matter i would date a white, black, hispanic, indian, asian or whatever chick. if u have a chance to date a girl from another culture or race or background or whatever why close the door? go for it. that's what i am gonna hopefully start doing soon, just gotta get some new skills. oh yeah i dont know, but where i live the black guys seem to get all the chicks, no matter the color. for some reason in a club the hottest girls will gravitate towards the black guys no matter how butt ugly they are or if they're 40 or not. hopefully as i learn i will be able to overcome this forcefield and instead all the hot chicks will start gravitating towards me.