Beware of the Jaded

[candyman105]

So what. Whats your point?

A weak AMOG attempt.

 

[17 shots]

As much as she can get on my nerves sometimes, BE does at times gives solid advice, I'll give her that

But I do feel like she could have at least addressed some of the rebuttals to her stance in the OP. She gave a more detailed response about her diet and BMI then she did about anything this thread was about. Either respond or admit you were wrong, or that you can see where some of the guys were coming from. You made the thread

 

[candyman105]

And this makes sense? Clown LOL

The response of a female during PMS. Reduce your estrogen levels. Hysterical tantrums never look good.

 

[redskinsfan92]

As much as she can get on my nerves sometimes, BE does at times gives solid advice, I'll give her that

But I do feel like she could have at least addressed some of the rebuttals to her stance in the OP. She gave a more detailed response about her diet and BMI then she did about anything this thread was about. Either respond or admit you were wrong, or that you can see where some of the guys were coming from. You made the thread

That says a lot right there.

 

[user43770]

My tantrums will crush your winks bro. I do what i want. End of story. Females in a mans forum IS a bad idea HOWEVER it is good for us to have women here for exposing and discussing the fem imperative... Understand that part? It takes maturity to know the adversary serves its purpose.

Why dont you say something useful?

Sup, lightweight?

Good to have them here if you have dudes that can check them, which there hasn't been for a minute. Most dudes play into their little power struggle. Sh1t is gay.

 

[user43770]

Dude women used to be PROPERTY. Understand what's going on??
Ok now

No sh1t, douche.

 

[user43770]

They won't be "property" ever again, so lose that from your speak.

Y

Is that French?

Nah dog, I just feel like property has nothing to do with it.

Do I wish we could go back to those days? Yes fvcking sir.

Will we? Lol, of course not. We're gonna spiral to the bottom. Fvck it. Give me a beer.

 

[user43770]

We'll agree on this.

And if anyone wants to dispute it: show me any other that you reckon. Will be a laugh.

Very seriously the worst that I've ever seen.

You can be hard to understand, bro. I like your posts, but a lot of times, I don't know your meaning.

 

[user43770]

A challenge.

Find a worse thread than this.

I didn't read any of the thread, bud

 

[user43770]

Don't blame you

Looks familiar, though, so I might have when I was on one last weekend.

You doing alright, bud?

 

[user43770]

Eyes... property is your house bro. Raise your level up. Whether or not she stays your property is not the concern. Understand that woman was made for msan NOT man for women.
Do have another beer.

I reckon they were made at the same time, for the same reason.

You can't tell me ****, kid.

The older I get, the more I realize making babies is the point of it all. I denied reality for a long time, but there's no reason to live, other than kids.

Hedonism, sure. But that gets boring quick if you're smart. Leaves you with what?

A decision. That's what. How bad do want meaning in your life?

 

[user43770]

Straight game.

Oh yeah, this stupid sh1t.

 

[user43770]

No one can tell you anything Eyes tgats your problem brother. No one gives a fck about you but you.

No, you're right. I'm a determined individual. You don't want to bump into me, sweetheart

Nothing to live for lol

 

[user43770]

What? STFU wrong.
Dude if you don't travel do it now. If you do very cool.
Its one of the most enlightening things to do.
My bucket list of places on the short term is Thailand and Scotland.
Im going to drink Scottish beer with people under a straw roof... bank it. Its going to happen.

Bourgeoise dreams. I care nothing for them. Give me food, give me women, give me sport!

Travel once, you've traveled a thousand times.

 

[GrowingPains]

@candyman105 @stringpuller I wasn't trying to AMOG anything. I'm just pointing out that there's a lot of comments on this and literally its just you guys saying the same thing over and over.

Actually, it's not even about the OP or the poster anymore. It's starting to get to the point where it's just you guys arguing amongst yourselves.

It's ridiculous. And I hope you have better things to do with your time. It doesn't matter how many more times you say it, it will be no more effective than saying it once. That's my point.

Anyways, you guys have fun.

 

[Plinco]

From time to time it's interesting to observe certain dogmas around here. Some members adopt a distinctively binary view of something or other and the community is not well served by these attitudes. The result of binary thinking is not only that it limits or narrows one's perspective, but more importantly that it may influence someone less experienced in such a way that at the end of the day is actually detrimental to those who adopt a narrow view based upon what they read or absorb here and then find it isn't so in the real world. This leads to disillusionment and disappointment. It can lead to anger and frustration when perhaps a wider lens might better inform the reader.

In recent days (and this is always true to some degree or another) there have been posters espousing ideals that are from my perspective like caricatures of reality. And caricatures are cartoon characters. They are not real.

Some of the attitudes I see around here are things like:

"Marriage is a horrible deal. Don't get married, you'll only get divorce raped..."

"Women are only good for sex and after 35 they aren't good for anything..."

"Women are going to have sex with the Chads and then will cvck a normal man to gain his resources"

"Older women should be thrown away. Only the women from 18-23 are worth anything..."

"Women are incapable of logic and are ruled by emotion..."

"LTRs and Marriage are for cvcks. You should be spinning plates forever..."

"Don't ask a fish how to go fishing..." This one is a favorite of mine. Who but the fish knows its environment best?

If you look at any of the above assertions (which I as a woman am well aware I may catch some heat for mentioning) they are all coming from a place of fear and lack. The reader of various posts around here must bear in mind that many men here have had genuinely awful experiences with some awful women and there are plenty of men around here who haven't had success in the relationship department ever. This creates a bias. A negative bias. I am pointing this out because there is a frustration that emerges when some men around here cry about how some short or fat or bald or ugly man ended up with a pretty woman and yet here he is, objectively more (fill in the blank) and he is not having success. "Why am I not successful!" some cry. I dunno. Perhaps a close examination of your attitudes should be considered.

Some posts are asking for basic nuts/bolts advice. How do I text? How much is too much? What do I say? That's cool but really the answer is get out there in a social environment and get some experience. Get rejected, fail. Fail some more.

I'd be willing to bet a substantial sum that top salesmen are not running around on here lamenting their woes with women. Those guys are too occupied getting laid or in good LTRs or marriages. By the same token I do not see the men here on the forum who are known to be in satisfactory LTRs or marriages jumping on the negative bandwagon to agree with the above attitudes...nor do I see (as a rule) the older more life experienced men jumping on that bandwagon. But some of the most frequent and vocal posters espouse these narrow views.

It's an observation. Be aware of your own individual goals in your personal life and your life at large. As some posters have stated there is plenty of gold to be mined here so long as you weed out the dogmatic self defeatist stuff.

I do think there is a great deal of value in understanding the generalities that can be observed in the marketplace. Plate spinning serves a useful purpose for example. Going by actions rather than expectations or words is a good practice. Avoiding unhealthy women is certainly good advice. Self-improvement as a focus benefits each of us individually and improves our experience and enjoyment within the world around us and the world at large. Lots of women are entitled or vacuous and so forth.

Learn to screen properly and efficiently the women you allow into your life. Know WHY you are allowing a woman an opportunity. And that is some of the debate I am referring to. Your attitudes are going to affect your ability to screen well. And how well you screen is going to affect your outcome, even though early on it is best that you are as outcome independent as possible...

In some ways the board here is a representative slice of the world at large when you factor in who as a percentage of the population, is more or less successful in any given arena. There are plenty of successful contributors here whose content is worthwhile. There are those who have transformed themselves along the way and benefited from the information and wisdom that exists here. And there are those who beat their chests and spout dogma which may or may not really be of service in the long run. What I enjoy about the group here is the variety of viewpoints. Determine your own individual aim and then seek out guidance on how to get where you want to go. Whether that is getting laid tonight or getting married and being a father one day, or whether it's enjoying a companion you can hang out with once you are over the hill, because at some point we are ALL going to be over the hill.

Obviously I am not a man and have never and will never be one. But I had a great man for a father who did not pamper nor spoil me, and I have a responsible man for a son (for I do not pamper nor spoil him), and I have had the pleasure of knowing many great men over my lifetime, in personal relationships and in family and among friends and colleagues. I have also known men who haven't manifested themselves as they could have. So I've seen a few things over the years.

Beware of the jaded. Be careful what attitudes you allow to populate your mind. Be sure it serves your greater purpose in your personal life and your life at large.

You are invited to discuss.

This is what I have tried to get at here, and the reason why I am ready to spend my time and attention elsewhere. I did not point this out as articulately as you did, however my thread on trying to re-live my youth, and later posted that I did it with success, demonstrated that people here tended to be negative and astonishingly ignored success stories.

 

[user43770]

Unwatching.



Been drinking in Scotland a bunch. Think you might be overrating it just a little

Lol, really? That's where my people are from. If there was one place I was going to visit on earth....

Meet the local people, go to some scotch distilleries....living the fvcking life, mate

 

[candyman105]

Beware of dried up old skanks who try to be your mommy yet try to look like your daughter.

 

[candyman105]

The problem is she's sellin' and no one's buyin.' In any marketplace, whether of ideas, commerce, sex, or even just conversation, this means one thing and one thing only: you're out of business.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

There are at least 50 guys here at any given time giving worse advice than one woman ever could.

As for the thread topic....I think it's legit. So much of the focus on this site is on LMS and "game", but there is a simple disposition that eludes all of those topics. And it's important.

Have you ever met a feminist who hates men?
A woman who is just generally disgusted by men in general?

Did you need to talk to her for an hour or go out on 3 dates with her to figure that out? Probably not. You probably figured that sh*t out inside of 5 minutes by just being in her presence.

On the flip side, have you ever met a woman who is largely turned on by and attracted to a masculine man?

The man-hating feminist and the masculine-loving woman are going to have two, very different dispositions in the presence of a masculine man. A man can very easily tell the difference between the two.

It is no different for a woman.

A woman will be able to easily tell the difference in the general disposition; the way a man interacts with women in general, between one man who has a bitter, distaste toward women and another man who carries no such bias.

I have met my fair share of crazy ass women. Some of which I would have even loved to have a free pass on punching in the face. But none of those women have ever had the ability to sway or influence my disposition with women in general.

Maybe if guys can get past the bitterness and jaded focus on the fact that B.E. is a woman, they might pick up a decent tip on how to behave like a man who does not allow a woman to sway his disposition.....

Once you understand them, you gotta love them and the shyt they attempt to pull...