Better Beware!

[Oscar Wilde]

Physician, heal thyself...

Originally posted by ShortyBrown
I love the remote control on my telly, gives me the choice to decide what I watch,and the off button gives me the power to pass on it all together.

In other words ladies,
Get over it. No-ones cares if you don't like Tiburon. No-one cares to see your "I wanna be a whining little b-tch" posts about what he writes. Grow up.

It's strange that this amazing remote didn't give you the choice to ignore the flames... very select, isn't it?

This is a bbs on the Internet. People have been flaming for decades on these boards. Sometimes the original poster even learns from the flames - maybe after being told repeatedly 50 or 60 times, Tiburon will learn what a paragraph is.

For a smack-down-the-childish-flamers post, yours was remarkably a) childish & b) a flame.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Re: Physician, heal thyself...

Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
It's strange that this amazing remote didn't give you the choice to ignore the flames... very select, isn't it?

This is a bbs on the Internet. People have been flaming for decades on these boards. Sometimes the original poster even learns from the flames - maybe after being told repeatedly 50 or 60 times, Tiburon will learn what a paragraph is.

For a smack-down-the-childish-flamers post, yours was remarkably a) childish & b) a flame.

and here you are fanning the flames further. *rollsthedamneyeshigherthanyours* (oh crap forgot the spaces!!!)
Perhaps if I make 50 posts telling some of you to pull the poles out of your arses, you will learn to live and let live.
Maybe If I make 50 posts about how DAMN ANNOYING IT IS when some whinger has to pipe up and flame someone about something completely irrelevant to the subject of the thread you will see that that is equally damn childish.

*changes channel*

 

[Ninja Dude]

Thanks for the advice Spanky.

I would have edited the original post but the server wont let me so
Here is the edited version cos this approach has melped me immensely:

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I used to think if a girl slept with me on the first night, she was a slut. Then I met my LTR and realized what a limiting belief this was.

The truth is that sometimes you can connect with a girl on such a deep. primal level, that it cuts thru all the bullshyt and you end up attacking each other! I think this is where we want to be as DJs, men with the capability to touch a woman in that emotional/sensual spot that most guys are too clueless to acknowledge.

I cant tell you how many times I have had chicks freak out on me because things were progressing so fast. They would ask me if I thought they were sluts and if I respected them and they never do this sort of thing etc etc. Sure some of them were probably lying but I have noticed that you can even push nicegirls into a state where they will screw your brains out.

You just have to excite them. Play hard-to-get. Tease them, flirt, be ****y yet playful and once they are turned on and playing little games with you, you can see their IL go up and then its time to let them see your softer side. Let them get to know you as a person and show interest in them. Talk about sex real casually and keep changing subjects.

I wish I could write better to explain how much this has helped me, but essentially, these are the things that have taken my game to a whole nother level. I hope this makes sense...

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

I'll fan it further.

ShortyBrown, i never asked anyone to agree with me..i was just STATING my OPINION.

The farthest thing from whining, because i dont give a rats ass what he thinks or does....you wont see me in every single post flaming. I'm not known for that. I will speak up from time to time, as you do also. I said what i wanted to say. Period.

Brown, props for your contributions on this forum. Its good to see solid female input, and your posts make a lot of sense.

However, you really dont know WTF you're talking about in this case...i said one thing, and i was done. I dont have to justify myself to anyone, but i will explain it to you because im bored at work at the moment.


I spoke my mind, jumped in the middle and hijacked the thread. So cry about it.

You did the exact same thing...if theres any whining going on, its yours.

So, welcome to the "Flamers" club...and welcome to Growing up.

*turns up volumne*

Edited to add: Actually i take it back, Tiburon isnt the biggest tool anymore. I totally forgot about TOOT86 and his laughable "G/F Stealers Club". It came as a photo finish, but he takes the cake.
Happy now?

 

[bugsquish]

I think guys are like women. We THINK we want one thing but actually want something else.

Sure, we want sex - on the surface. We're impatient. We want it NOW. We want it YESTERDAY. But it's the seduction that keeps the sex interesting. Sure if you start to lose hope you start to lose interest. But the more you have to work for something the more value it has to you once your hard work pays off.

We know that most women will feel a closer bond with a guy after the first screw no matter how early this takes place. On the other hand, the guy is more likely to start looking around for other chicks if his prize came to easily. There's a fine line between how much the guy is prepared to wait and how long the woman should wait to keep his interest after the initial screw. Bottom line though, is that the longer she waits the more respect the couple will have for each other.

I met the girl of my dreams, and she's now my GF. The problem is she had sex with me on the first date. It feels strange saying this but I REALLY WISH WE HAD WAITED. I can't see fault in the relationship, but I cheated on her. I didn't think I would but I did - very drunk but still. Just kissed someone. The fact is though:

I don't understand why, but even though I think she's perfect for me, I feel that subconsciously her value has gone down somehow in my mind since we had sex so soon. Even though I wanted it.

At the point I cheated on her, I would STILL have been happy waiting for her. What's more, I probably wouldn't have been so actively looking elsewhere! I am an insatiable rampant beast, but I think she could have tamed me by waiting a little longer. She really is that cool. I'm trying to make it work still....

<rant>Yes Tiburon, you elitist - you flamed me to a crisp when I posted for advice on this. I'm just glad I'm not the only person who think's you are a tool.</rant>

 

[Player_Supreme]

MysteryWoman...this is the best advice I've seen given by a woman on this site. I hope it reaches the right ears.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by SLIKKER_THAN_AVG
I'll fan it further.

ShortyBrown, i never asked anyone to agree with me..i was just STATING my OPINION.

The farthest thing from whining, because i dont give a rats ass what he thinks or does....you wont see me in every single post flaming. I'm not known for that. I will speak up from time to time, as you do also. I said what i wanted to say. Period.

Brown, props for your contributions on this forum. Its good to see solid female input, and your posts make a lot of sense.

However, you really dont know WTF you're talking about in this case...i said one thing, and i was done. I dont have to justify myself to anyone, but i will explain it to you because im bored at work at the moment.


I spoke my mind, jumped in the middle and hijacked the thread. So cry about it.

You did the exact same thing...if theres any whining going on, its yours.

So, welcome to the "Flamers" club...and welcome to Growing up.

*turns up volumne*

Edited to add: Actually i take it back, Tiburon isnt the biggest tool anymore. I totally forgot about TOOT86 and his laughable "G/F Stealers Club". It came as a photo finish, but he takes the cake.
Happy now?

delighted

it's cool, i just am of the "ah let it go" school of thought when it comes to proper use of english over the net. I'd also been awake for 48 hours on the trot when i posted that.....i was one cranky little lady.

thanks for the compliment.

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by bugsquish
I think guys are like women. We THINK we want one thing but actually want something else.

Sure, we want sex - on the surface. We're impatient. We want it NOW. We want it YESTERDAY. But it's the seduction that keeps the sex interesting. Sure if you start to lose hope you start to lose interest. But the more you have to work for something the more value it has to you once your hard work pays off.

SO F#CKING TRUE.

thanks bug, never thought i'd actually HEAR, ok i mean READ a man admit that sh#t on a forum like this! thought it was one of those things women would always realize about men, but men would never realize about themselves. props to you for being intelligent enough to see that and mature enough to admit it.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by bugsquish
I think guys are like women. We THINK we want one thing but actually want something else.

Sure, we want sex - on the surface. We're impatient. We want it NOW. We want it YESTERDAY. But it's the seduction that keeps the sex interesting. Sure if you start to lose hope you start to lose interest. But the more you have to work for something the more value it has to you once your hard work pays off.

We know that most women will feel a closer bond with a guy after the first screw no matter how early this takes place. On the other hand, the guy is more likely to start looking around for other chicks if his prize came to easily. There's a fine line between how much the guy is prepared to wait and how long the woman should wait to keep his interest after the initial screw. Bottom line though, is that the longer she waits the more respect the couple will have for each other.

I met the girl of my dreams, and she's now my GF. The problem is she had sex with me on the first date. It feels strange saying this but I REALLY WISH WE HAD WAITED. I can't see fault in the relationship, but I cheated on her. I didn't think I would but I did - very drunk but still. Just kissed someone. The fact is though:

I don't understand why, but even though I think she's perfect for me, I feel that subconsciously her value has gone down somehow in my mind since we had sex so soon. Even though I wanted it.

At the point I cheated on her, I would STILL have been happy waiting for her. What's more, I probably wouldn't have been so actively looking elsewhere! I am an insatiable rampant beast, but I think she could have tamed me by waiting a little longer. She really is that cool. I'm trying to make it work still....

<rant>Yes Tiburon, you elitist - you flamed me to a crisp when I posted for advice on this. I'm just glad I'm not the only person who think's you are a tool.</rant>

And you wonder why feminism took off? You'll probably continue to cheat and blame her for it.

 

[Blaaaaat]

Originally posted by iqqi
SO F#CKING TRUE.

thanks bug, never thought i'd actually HEAR, ok i mean READ a man admit that sh#t on a forum like this! thought it was one of those things women would always realize about men, but men would never realize about themselves. props to you for being intelligent enough to see that and mature enough to admit it.

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
And you wonder why feminism took off? You'll probably continue to cheat and blame her for it.

Really, get the f*ck of this board. You don't belong here.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by Blaaaaat
Really, get the f*ck of this board. You don't belong here.

Though shyt you will have to get me banned first

 

[Ninja Dude]

Leave Mystery Woman alone!!! She is my funky english homegirl and I have one-itis for her so BACK OFF punks!

Seriously, stop this woman-hating. I think they are beautiful creatures and I love them, even their stupid tantrums and bytch-fits are sometimes adorable. Does Mystery Woman annoy me sometimes? sure, but so does everyone. Its human nature, fools! Lets quit this hate fest and make with some LOVE my peoples. Unless being a sarcastic, bitter-as-fukk, hate monger is what attracts the girls to you, then hey more power to ya! BUt somehow I doubt that is the case.

I would personally like to welcome all the females to this board, and if they behave, they will get VIP passes to the afterhours party at my place

*blows kisses to tha hotties and vanishes in a cloud of smoke, ninja style of course*

 

[Bonhomme]

People do value things they have to work for

But I agree with Mystery Woman. Good advice, MW!

In absence of extraordinary circumstances, a woman who's attracted to you will want to get intimate before too long. Not necessarily have intercourse, but certainly get off.

 

[Blaaaaat]

Damn you sound like a puss1e, excuse me, i'm going to puge now..

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

good point man!

 

[Ninja Dude]

Originally posted by Blaaaaat
Damn you sound like a puss1e, excuse me, i'm going to puge now..

That may be the case Blaaaat, but why dont we let the women decide which attitude is more attractive?

Ladies, who would you rather chill out with? Me or the guy whose name sounds like vomit?

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by Ninja Dude
That may be the case Blaaaat, but why dont we let the women decide which attitude is more attractive?

Ladies, who would you rather chill out with? Me or the guy whose name sounds like vomit?

You
xxx

 

[Blaaaaat]

Aha, but it's clear that MysteryWoman is attracted to woman, why else would she participate on forum dedicated to "getting woman". So it's quite logical that she would choose to hang out with you.

 

[Ninja Dude]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
You
xxx

right back atcha, hottie

xx....teases with brushing lips and a caress before the final ... x

Looks like you have earned yourself a VIP pass into the Ninja Lounge, would you care for red wine or white? If you crave something sweet, I have my stash of exotic chocolates and afterwards we can smoke a fat-ass joint together on my roofdeck and philosophise under the stars while I delicately trace naughty subliminal messages across your skin.

 

[Ninja Dude]

Originally posted by Blaaaaat
Aha, but it's clear that MysteryWoman is attracted to woman, why else would she participate on forum dedicated to "getting woman". So it's quite logical that she would choose to hang out with you.

I think even as a lesbian I could still pull more hotties than you, my decidedly unsuave friend.