Better Beware!

[Kibblez'n'Bitz]

Yeah, I gotta admit, I'm sick of his long-ass sh!t too in almost EVERY second f**king thread

That kinda babble only makes one out to be like "oh, oh..listen to me, I'm so important!!" There are LOTS of people on here who have lots to contribute, but they don't ABUSE it by overposting for Christ's sake. It gets aggravating to read a long, long post only to see no real point in that speech..

 

[MR_PERFECT]

Originally posted by Kibblez'n'Bitz
Yeah, I gotta admit, I'm sick of his long-ass sh!t too in almost EVERY second f**king thread

That kinda babble only makes one out to be like "oh, oh..listen to me, I'm so important!!" There are LOTS of people on here who have lots to contribute, but they don't ABUSE it by overposting for Christ's sake. It gets aggravating to read a long, long post only to see no real point in that speech..

I hate when there is a long post about a post being to long. I hate when someone states what has already been said.

 

[tiburon]

MisteryWoman

"But Tiburon, you have got it wrong. Lots of men commit and marry women who they sleep within the first month of meeting.
And the majority of cases show that is girls that end relationships, and yes they were sleeping with their boyfriends.

As for Latin Women (even in your country), they have to be sleeping around more than you believe, otherwise where are all you latin men getting your action. Through English and American women? Having gay relationships or going to prostitutes."

Any man that commits within a month is to my belief is very inmature or just an AFC on most cases . If a men is looking for something serious he must pick the right person before committing and 1 month is just what i call testing the water or getting a field for it, its the time were the best question should be asked. What is is that you see after one month? Well lets say that both person are only trying to show their best sides, commitment should be treated more seriously. All man definitely dont think like i do ,(just listen to the our DJ friends replying to this thread), but i know that serious commitment (any serious commitment should aim towards marriage by the way...) its something that should take longer for a man to commit on than a month. Probably this is why they are getting dumped, they were AFCs to begin with or Players who were hungry for sex !

Look about latin women , i know there are so many latin sluts that a few extra decent women really dont make a difference, the amount of sluts its mind blowing so i wont argue that point.

To all you readers that love criticizing and have no ideas of your own but all that do is criticize with any way to show a different point of view. The only thing i am going to say is that you should encourage interaction between members as much as possible because this is the way you get different point of views. If you want to debate, bring it to the table don just say "oh this guy is an idiot" or "lol" or "still laughing" because this only makes you look as someone that has lost an argument and has not way of arguing back but other than mocking the opposite side. I wont spend more lines on you because definetely you are not worth my time.


Tiburon

 

[Kibblez'n'Bitz]

I hate when there is a long post about a post being to long. I hate when someone states what has already been said.

Oh yeah, real LONG post I did.. What a few sentences?? I don't post THAT much myself so quit f**king busting my balls over NOTHING. I ain't bashing Tiburon, just agreeing with someone who finally spoke up that's all..

Oh oh, better stop now, TOO LONG

 

[BobbDobbs]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
The chances are that she is not physically attracted to you and is with you for some other reason.

There are some, however, that are motivated by religious or other moral principles. I don't agree with those principles, but I know of a least one good looking lady who holds to them.

 

[iqqi]

Also, what I hate is when a girl doesnt sleep with you early on because they are or were sluts...and they hold out to try to prove they are'nt sluts.

believe it or not many women are not holding out because of this. I love Tiburon's responce, because it was honest. Just like many women say they want something but don't know what the hell they are talking about, it is the same with men. You all say you want a woman who won't make you wait, but Tiburon said it best:

A woman who meets a man for one month and sleeps with him better have a back up plan, because in a month most reasonable men do not go for commitment but are only testing the woman they might be thinking about committing. She sleeps with one guy in a month they brake up, and in less than another month, she finds another one and the pattern continues...

Well respect, and understanding the male mind are the factors.

I think that men who say they want a woman who won't make them wait are the same as a woman who says she wants a man to bring her flowers and write her poetry when they are first getting to know each other.

THEY DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER....THAT IS WHY YOU WAIT.

You don't shower a woman with flowers and crap at first, because it isn't genuwine, you don't know them like that. Same with sex. Some people actually see sex as something that bonds, as well as feels good.

Tiburon, thanks for such a real reply. It is rare that a man understands his own gender (same with women). To those of you who disagree, why is it that all fathers tell their daughters that all men want is sex and to make them prove their worth?

 

[MysteryWoman]

Most guys don't write off a woman if she sleeps with him within a month. It might be different with most latin men, but they can be a lot trouble. And most women are not looking for marriages in their twenties.

I will say it again, it is usually the women that are initiating break ups in relationships and they were sleeping with their boyfriends.

Tiburon you can't brand all guys as AFC's for accepting this, otherwise 80 percent of men are AFC's and most of the DJ's on this site, because most aren't bothered. All this AFC and DJ are stupid terms, men are men at the end of the day.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

To all you readers that love criticizing and have no ideas of your own but all that do is criticize with any way to show a different point of view. The only thing i am going to say is that you should encourage interaction between members as much as possible because this is the way you get different point of views. If you want to debate, bring it to the table don just say "oh this guy is an idiot" or "lol" or "still laughing" because this only makes you look as someone that has lost an argument and has not way of arguing back but other than mocking the opposite side. I wont spend more lines on you because definetely you are not worth my time.

I dont give a f*ck what it looks like. I just stated my opinion, that you, are the biggest tool on this site.

You post every second thread, none of them make any kind of coherent sense, and you act like your so called "advice" is some sort of divine revelation that NOONE has heard of before. That and the fact that you babble on about nothing.

Keep in mind that i havent lost an argument because i havent participated in this one. I continue to encourage discussion and i respect a LOT of the guys here, because of their experiance and their solid advice. You, in my opinion, do NOT fit this mold, and that is why i am saying what i am saying.

But you are right, i shouldnt have wasted my time responding, because you are definitely not worth my time either.

That being said, i stand by my previous statement. Flame away do whatever the hell you want, i dont give a damn. But anytime i see your name on the "poster" label, be assured i wont be reading it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: ALSO TRUE

Originally posted by MR_PERFECT
Tiburon, this is the stupidest thing I've ever read on this site. A woman that makes you wait forever, is having sex with another guy!

And if she isn't having set with another guy, she is playing games with you to find out how much you care about her. If that's the only way you can tell, you can only imagine what will happen to the poor SOB that marries her. Every time that they have an argument, guess who's not getting any?

 

[iqqi]

i like tiburon

i think he is definately not your average, and that diversity is an asset. he is very passionate in his beliefs and can be long winded but that is just character. any good recipe has many different spices. i love tiburons spice. even if he does annoy me at times. he is just so hard core in his belief!

respect that.

and his advice may be a little extreme and unrealistic at times, but it is usually really good advice. i doubt he is having to much troubles with the ladies. even when he pisses a girl off here, see how he responds to them. he is a real fcuking pimp, man.

 

[Bud Wiser]

I'm not going to get into a long-winded rant here, but what Mystery Woman says is not universal truth.

I've had women who've waited longer than the time period she states and, let me tell you, in all cases except one it was well worth the wait!

The key is this: other than intercourse, how sexual is she with you in other ways? If she's hot for you, you'll know it. She may be holding back from going all the way, but it's taking a mighty effort on her part to do so. That's what you're looking for.

If she's not going past, say, kissing in three dates to a month then I'd say, yes -- "next" her. But just because she's not giving it all up after that time period isn't always a reason to hit the "eject" button.

 

[tiburon]

NO WAY

ACTUALLY 80 percent of men might be AFC ....and man are definitely not MAN at the end of the day. A penis and testicles does not define you as a MAN. If you want more on this subject i could elaborate on future posts.

I agree that most women at 20 aren't looking for marriage and this is why men at early age shouldnt be getting so serious unless they found one that was willing to commit as much as them and they actually tought they were ready for the commitment.

There are two paths to a relationship brake up or marriage- this i heard from a girl i was working my shift with at the GYM . It is very true. If you are serious is either all the way or nothing or with atleast the idea of marriage in the back of your head..if not is my opinion that the relationship is a wate of time or is not really worthy of the word "serious".

"I will say it again, it is usually the women that are initiating break ups in relationships and they were sleeping with their boyfriends."

This only happens because usually the guy is an AFC or a player... no matter how slutty the girl is , how decentshe is, if the guy is a GREAT GUY( DJ with deep understanding of women using it for the development of a great relationship) and she falls in love with him the idea braking up with him would does not cross her mind unless he does something dishonest or unrespectful, or starts acting AFC for some reason. Most women brake up with men because they are not challemges or because they are inmature and their mind could change from blue to green , black to red in a couple of seconds even tough that when she falls in love this is alot harder. MisteryWoman if you met a TRUE MAN and felt in love with him you will think about marrying the guy in the back of your head....GREAT WOMAN AND GREAT MEN ARE HARDER AND HARDER TO FIND....

I wont speak for all Latin Men but atleast for this Cuban ..yes i am trouble..because i am not looking to settle and I actually try to hide myself form posible wife material girls because i don t think i am ready and mature enough for the commitment. And about the Djs in this site with the exceptions of Djs like POOK, ( . )( . ) , Gonzalo, and others they dissapoint me often enough.

Tiburon

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by SLIKKER_THAN_AVG
For the record, I will point out that TIBURON is the biggest tool on this site.


There, i am done.

I second that notion.

Great Post mystery. You have been the first winner of the "First Post by a women that isn't full of sh it" award. Congrads

 

[spanky]

All this AFC and DJ are stupid terms, men are men at the end of the day.

Then it must pain you to know that this site is called Don Juan Discussion Forum.

 

[Frosty]

Tiburon you can't brand all guys as AFC's for accepting this, otherwise 80 percent of men are AFC's and most of the DJ's on this site, because most aren't bothered. All this AFC and DJ are stupid terms, men are men at the end of the day.

At the end of the day, some men may kiss you good night, and some men may give you a black eye.

At the end of the day, some men may say they love you, and some men may call you a slut.


At the end of the day, some men may lay down next to you in bed, and some men may lay down next to your best friend in bed.


But at the end of the day, all men will agree that all men are not the same.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Tiburon there is a world of difference between sleeping with a man in the first month and going through a 1000 plus men. A lot of women do this and can end up in a happy relationship. You might only like virgins Tiburons, but a lot of guys don't care.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
I second that notion.

Great Post mystery. You have been the first winner of the "First Post by a women that isn't full of sh it" award. Congrads

Agreed on both points.

Originally posted by iqqi
he is very passionate in his beliefs and can be long winded but that is just character.

All that passion is well and good, but long-winded, unparagraphed posts are hard to read, and that's when they're in grammatically perfect English, nevermind what he's posting in.

To say nothing of the post contents.... I just skip every one like Mr. Slikker there.

--

Mystery - cheers for the insight.

I've had 2 LTRs in the last while, and both started with us sleeping together on the 1st night.

Oscar.

 

[Ninja Dude]

I used to think if a girl slept with me on the first night, she was a slut. Then I met my LTR and realized what a limiting belief this was. The truth is that sometimes you can connect with a girl on such a deep. primal level, that it cuts thru all the bullshyt and you end up attacking each other! I think this is where we want to be as DJs, men with the capability to touch a woman in that emotional/sensual spot that most guys are too clueless to acknowledge. I cant tell you how many times I have had chicks freak out on me because things were progressing so fast. They would ask me if I thought they were sluts and if I respected them and they never do this sort of thing etc etc. Sure some of them were probably lying but I have noticed that you can even push nicegirls into a state where they will screw your brains out. YOu just have to excite them. Play hard-to-get. Tease them, flirt, be ****y yet playful and once they are turned on and playing little games with you, you can see their IL go up and then its time to let them see your softer side. Let them get to know you as a person and show interest in them. Talk about sex real casually and keep changing subjects. I wish I could write better to explain how much this has helped me, but essentially, these are the things that have taken my game to a whole nother level. I hope this makes sense...

 

[spanky]

Ninja, it makes real good sense to me. I think you covered it well. The only thing I would suggest is the use of mutiple paragraphs. Once I see those long posts with only one paragraph, I usually skip right over them but I could see that your was going to be different since you started off pretty well. So ditto.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Hey flamers

I love the remote control on my telly, gives me the choice to decide what I watch,and the off button gives me the power to pass on it all together.

In other words ladies,
Get over it. No-ones cares if you don't like Tiburon. No-one cares to see your "I wanna be a whining little b-tch" posts about what he writes. Grow up.