Better Beware!

[MysteryWoman]

I'm talking about girls who date you for months and refuse to have sex with you. Guys, if a girl hasn't slept from anytime from after the third day to a month (six weeks at the latest). The chances are that she is not physically attracted to you and is with you for some other reason. She is waiting for a better good looking guy to come along and may ruthlessly dump you when he comes along. Or she is frigid and does not enjoy sex and will hang out as long as possible whilst avoiding it. If a woman is really attracted to you, she will be unable to resist and wait too long.

However there are a few exceptions to the rule, if she is a virgin, has been seriously hurt from a past relationship, been sexually abused e.t.c the above does not apply.

Watch out for mature virgins 21 plus or the ones that are waiting for marriage. They are either frigid and will probably never enjoy sex very much. Or they idolise so much that when they finally lose it, if it fails to live up to their expectation they may either completely withdraw from it or become extremely promisicious to make up for lost time.

Yes a lot of women were virgins in the past when they got married, and so were men. Feminists joke that it took women thousands of years to realise that they could orgasm, and this was when the pill came in the sixities.

To the latin men on this site, I don't believe latin women are less promisicuous than English women. They are much more discreet about it, I can picture a lot of them being fem fatales, great mistresses or dominatrixs.

Basically if a girl really likes you, she will want to sleep with you relatively soon.

Sorry to burst your bubble, Tiburon and 00Kevin.

 

[Blaaaaat]

Well... duh...

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by Blaaaaat
Well... duh...

Some of the guys on this board aren't as intelligent as you!

 

[Blaaaaat]

I know.

 

[marqZAL]

BUMP!!!! This is the damn truth!!!!! Also, what I hate is when a girl doesnt sleep with you early on because they are or were sluts...and they hold out to try to prove they are'nt sluts.

 

[duke007]

I answered a woman's question on this topic on the dating "Q&A" site, Answerology.com (don't ask why I participate).

She was 26-28 years old and asked something like, "How can I tell I guy I don't want sex until I get to know him better."

I gave a well-thought out, mature response telling her the truth about the situation, saying most guys of that age would not put up with it for the following reasons...

The b1tch gave me a zero rating! Some women are deluded, they ask for advice and don't listen if it's not what they want to hear.

 

[tiburon]

I LOVE THIS WOMAN!

Dear MisteryWoman: i have more than compliments towards you. I was almost about to leave so suave.com when i read your thread and let me tell you there few things sexier than a woman who fights back and defends her status. I like you very much.

Now like you say there are exception as virgins, women that have been hurt in the past, etc., and it is also true some woman are great con artists and wait to act more decent or just for the reasons you stated. Nevertheless your argument is kind of incomplete. Many women out there only sleep with a man they have gotten to love or gotten commitment out of in case the word love is debatable. On average to love a person takes longer than a month, and I have met many women who can control their attraction , and by no means does this mean they are not attracted to the male.

You see men revolve around sex, any smart woman knows she just cant be giving herself to anyone out there that she is attracted to, but in an opposite view maybe to one or a few that steal her hearts and will respect her for who she is. Attraction can be noticed and sleeping together is not the only signal and sometimes it does not signal attraction at all. A woman who meets a man for one month and sleeps with him better have a back up plan, because in a month most reasonable men do not go for commitment but are only testing the woman they might be thinking about committing. She sleeps with one guy in a month they brake up, and in less than another month, she finds another one and the pattern continues until she is old and finds an AFC who marries her. Then you wonder why the relationship fails, why by the age of 24 she has slept with more than 4 guys, why couldn't yshe keep them? Well respect, and understanding the male mind are the factors.

You see like us DJs try to understand females; maybe some women should try to understand men. Most men revolve around sex and just like if an AFC gives a woman everything and never says NO and then gets dump, some DJ players go to women and they go for sex and sex only or is at least 99 percent of their interest . If the women gives them sex so easily, just like the AFC gets dumped the women might be easily be replaced by a more beautiful one who can either give them sex or hold her ground an let him know that to sleep with her there better be some seriousness , respect, and commitment and actually prove it with his actions.

Maybe is just me, but I see woman who make the men wait , respect her, and commit as smart woman and the exception are...

Con artist/opportunistic women( who might wait just to marry a reach guy etc..)

I agree that Latin women in the states are almost as slutty as American women and I say “almost” because Latin culture it is still way more conservative and some girls are ruled by their fathers until the day they get married. Now Latin woman from Latin America countries tend to be way more reserved and more morally righteous because the MEDIA is not as strong there as in the states due to poverty. The day the MEDIA spreads the message there that it spreads every day here in the United Stades of America then they will be as corrupted in a short amount of time.

"Watch out for mature virgins 21 plus or the ones that are waiting for marriage. They are either frigid and will probably never enjoy sex very much. Or they idolize so much that when they finally lose it, if it fails to live up to their expectation they may either completely withdraw from it or become extremely promiscuous to make up for lost time."

Now this sounds to me like you are trying to scare people that have the idea of marrying a virgin. I could also say these women hold their ground and have a dream to save themselves for that men they will marry one day and make your scenario an exception.

MisteryWoman I think you are hurt and I am extremely sorry if I hurt you with my posts. I didn’t know there was such a high amount of female members. You are a very wise girl and if it i in your heart to marry a man who truly respect you then demand the respect , the seriousness , and the commitment. It is better to do the right thing late than to never do it. If you like to sleep around then there is nothing wrong with that. All men like this type of woman, they might not marry them but we sure like the adrenaline they make us feel, and if you are ok by just enjoying different men , then do it ...your decisions should be based on a path to happiness.

Tiburon

 

[vdk]

I know a few HB's that are holding out till marraige. Needless to say their boyfriends are frustrated to the point of leaving them. These HB's expect a good looking, tall, caring,alpha boyfriend and expect them to hold out. God only knows how these women hold it for so long.

 

[tiburon]

OFCOURSE this lead to the Doubt..

Is she a con artist..and was a slut but is doing this just to get me or has she learned from previous mistakes? Well thats upto the guy in the situation to make up his mind. TOUGH DECISION ! I would evaluate her as a person, how she treats me, how she treats her family, her family and their values, and how well we match. If i was by any chance in this situation I would make a decision base on that.

Tiburon

 

[tiburon]

ALSO TRUE

IF A MEN TRULY LOVES A WOMEN HE WILL WAIT AN ETERNITY IF HE HAS TO......


Tiburon

 

[MR_PERFECT]

Re: ALSO TRUE

Originally posted by tiburon
IF A MEN TRULY LOVES A WOMEN HE WILL WAIT AN ETERNITY IF HE HAS TO......


Tiburon

Tiburon, this is the stupidest thing I've ever read on this site. A woman that makes you wait forever, is having sex with another guy!

 

[spanky]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
Some of the guys on this board aren't as intelligent as you!

-or experienced, maybe. Sometimes it is a good idea to reiterate some things here. If this thread was not started, I probably have walked in this place and saw at least a couple of threads from some guys (most likely newbies) asking us about someone 's IL who hasn't slept with them after two or three months of dating. You can hopefully prevent those annoying threads with one good one that lays it down.

Also, I think it is just good to remind everyone of such things. A good example is the important use of kino; it simply can't be emphasized enough.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Re: Re: ALSO TRUE

Originally posted by MR_PERFECT
Tiburon, this is the stupidest thing I've ever read on this site. A woman that makes you wait forever, is having sex with another guy!

LOL




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Ok done

 

[Legend]

yeah this is true.....but the question i was wondering is how could the girl i was with not be attracted to me?hahha

 

[ShortyBrown]

It's my belief that if you're giving your $hit up after three dates, you're a ho. If it's months, you gotta come down outta that ivory tower sister.

Basically if a girl really likes you, she will want to sleep with you relatively soon.

I had a guy begging for my $hit 48 hours after I met him. I liked him and was attracted,but there was NO WAY I was screwing someone that soon.

Go with your gut when it comes to this one. If for all the DJ bible reading and whatnot you still can't distinguish which women are holding sex over your heads, and which ones are not, then you need to go back to the drawing board.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Re: ALSO TRUE

Originally posted by tiburon
IF A MEN TRULY LOVES A WOMEN HE WILL WAIT AN ETERNITY IF HE HAS TO......


Tiburon

and what the phuck is wrong with this, oh hardcore DJ's?

 

[MysteryWoman]

But Tiburon, you have got it wrong. Lots of men commit and marry women who they sleep within the first month of meeting.
And the majority of cases show that is girls that end relationships, and yes they were sleeping with their boyfriends.

As for Latin Women (even in your country), they have to be sleeping around more than you believe, otherwise where are all you latin men getting your action. Through English and American women? Having gay relationships or going to prostitutes.

Shorty Brown, I don't think a woman is a Ho for giving up on the third date, a woman is a Ho if she cheats on a good guy or gets involved with a married man e.t.c. Otherwise how she chooses lead her life, does not deserve to be referred to such derogatory words such as Ho, slut e.t.c.

I had a friend who slept with her boyfriend on the first date (exception to the rule), and they were both faithful and lasted at least three years together and were planning to get married. I haven't seen her for two years, so I don't know whether they got married.

The last guy I dated didn't see me again because I wouldn't sleep with him on the second date. And I wouldn't have made him wait too much longer. We both ignore each other, but he gets so nervous when he sees me. And I have not seen him with another girl since, and a few of my friends thinks he's good looking. So Tibroun, not all guys think like you.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
But Tiburon, you have got it wrong. Lots of men commit and marry women who they sleep within the first month of meeting.
And the majority of cases show that is girls that end relationships, and yes they were sleeping with their boyfriends.

As for Latin Women (even in your country), they have to be sleeping around more than you believe, otherwise where are all you latin men getting your action. Through English and American women? Having gay relationships or going to prostitutes.

Shorty Brown, I don't think a woman is a Ho for giving up on the third date, a woman is a Ho if she cheats on a good guy or gets involved with a married man e.t.c. Otherwise how she chooses lead her life, does not deserve to be referred to such derogatory words such as Ho, slut e.t.c.

I had a friend who slept with her boyfriend on the first date (exception to the rule), and they were both faithful and lasted at least three years together and were planning to get married. I haven't seen her for two years, so I don't know whether they got married.

The last guy I dated didn't see me again because I wouldn't sleep with him on the second date. And I wouldn't have made him wait too much longer. We both ignore each other, but he gets so nervous when he sees me. And I have not seen him with another girl since, and a few of my friends thinks he's good looking. So Tibroun, not all guys think like you.

I do see your point girl. I have been in a similar situation to our friend, except when he realised that I wasn't just another brainless slut, he got worried that he might end up liking me and losing his freedom and I got the arse
We live in liberated times obviously. But we can't forget the "old rules" either.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

For the record, I will point out that TIBURON is the biggest tool on this site.


There, i am done.

 

[Julian]

Well if Tiburon got to the damn point instead of trying to be a smartass and writing a fukking 600 word reply, people might read his posts instead of disregarding them as babble.

All i read was "Dear mysterywomen blablablbalbalbalbalbala"