Just as title says, I need help with pick up. The whole acting aloof and playing the game at the beginning is my weakness, but once I get past that (sometimes by luck) I'm good at sweet talking and keeping a woman around to the point they always fall head over heels for me.
Better at making women fall in love than picking them up
- Thread starter SeeThruIt
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PlayHer Man
Banned
Spin plates.
In the beginning of the game, no woman deserves your undivided attention.
In the beginning of the game, no woman deserves your undivided attention.
That's the problem I'm not good at picking them up to be able to spin plates. I'm better at after the fact. Usually if introduced from a friend or something.PlayHer Man said:Spin plates.
In the beginning of the game, no woman deserves your undivided attention.
PlayHer Man
Banned
I guess you need to start from scratch then and learn how to approach. I would suggest casually chatting with every attractive woman you see. Just say stupid sh!t like:SeeThruIt said:
"Cold out today right?"
"That's a nice coat you have on"
"Where is a good burger place around here?"
Just casual stuff. Do this every day. Then start closing.
Spinning plates to me isn't just dating or f*cking multiple women. It also means keeping your options open instead of just putting all your energy into one woman and ignoring others.
Even if you have a few plates you should be gaming new women. Never stop.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Great advice. Been doing that since this post, not just with women but men too. Getting used to starting casual convos with strangest.PlayHer Man said:I guess you need to start from scratch then and learn how to approach. I would suggest casually chatting with every attractive woman you see. Just say stupid sh!t like:
"Cold out today right?"
"That's a nice coat you have on"
"Where is a good burger place around here?"
Just casual stuff. Do this every day. Then start closing.
Spinning plates to me isn't just dating or f*cking multiple women. It also means keeping your options open instead of just putting all your energy into one woman and ignoring others.
Even if you have a few plates you should be gaming new women. Never stop.
But how exactly do I go from casual small talk to more? Just ask for their number?
PlayHer Man
Banned
Only close women who WANT to talk to you. If you get a lot of resistance just walk away. Attracted women will help you out.SeeThruIt said:
Use this sample conversation as a template:
YOU: That's a nice coat you have on.
HER: Thanks!
YOU: Where did you get it? I might buy one for my sister/friend/cousin.
HER: Blah blah blah
YOU: So where are you from?
HER: Blah, blah, blah
YOU: I heard most women from that place are really into porn. Is that true? (Get really close to her face and whisper this like its a secret. Touch her arm or back while you do it :yes: )
HER: No! Who said that? (or maybe she will say how did you know??!!)
YOU: Nevermind. Lets grab a drink together sometime soon. What's your phone number?