Walking away, moving on & living well IS the best revenge. Anything else, any angry action you take, any revenge you plot, will make you look like a dumba$$ in the end.
BUT:
Since this thread IS about retaliation and countermeasures, at least sort of, let me share a short story.:rock:
I got cheated on by my girfriend a couple of years ago. She thought I didn't know, but I knew. Her grifriends knew (some of them were my friends too) without ever bringing the topic up and of course my boys knew too, because i told them. No big deal since she wasn't my big love anyway. We had a good time for a couple of month but after that it became boring.
I never called her on the cheating and it went on for about a month or so. When I decided that I had to end this "relationship" I wrote an email to about 20 of our mutual friends:
Subject: Need your help. Urgent.
Lately i've been suspecting that my girlfriend is cheating on me. Sometimes she gets a call, leaves the room and secretly whispers into her phone. She would get a text, reading it and instantly deleting it. When I ask whom it was from, she would say from a co-worker or from her sister.
She's been going out late in the evening with her "co-workers" a couple of times during the last month and wouldn't return before midnight. She always leaves her car here and tells me she's taking a cab. One night when i was out myself, i saw her getting dropped of by a car, but not in front of my place but about a block away. I am not even sure it was a cab that dropped her off.
So yesterday I decided to wait outside in my car late at night, to see who brings her home and if it's some other guy. I parked my ride at the end of the street where she was dropped of last time. Originally i wanted to wait inside the car but then i changed my mind because i thought she would see me sitting in the drivers seat.
So i was waiting crouched on the passengers side hiding behind my rear fender, when i suddenly spotted some rust starting to build up near the wheel house.
So here's my question:
Do you think it's enough to sand over that spot and have it painted or is it better to have the whole fender replaced?
Didn't hear from her for 5 days. When i finally met her a week later at a birthday party, she couldn't look me in the eye and left immediately. It wasn't revenge. I just ended it before she did. Kind of.:flowers:
