I sometimes think there should be a section in the DJ Bible for break-ups. Alot, and probably most of the guys are here for that very reason and it would be good to know how to handle things properly.
Anyway this post deals with the aftermath. What to do after your heart was stomped on.
Maybe she cheated, found someone else, or just needed space. You're pissed as many guys are when their heart gets ripped out. Alot of guys turn into women hating bastards. You feel like punching the wall, or his face, or even hers.
So what's the best REVENGE!?
Screw as many chicks as you can? Mess up her car? Beat up her new boyfriend? Light her house on fire? Throw acid in her face?
(Just kidding about the acid. Read that somewhere on this forum)
No. Although these things might be fun and make you feel better for a minute or two, this is not the right type of Revenge.
The Best Revenge Ever on the Ex that dumped you is simply, LIVING WELL.
Living your life to your best capability.
What a slap in the face it would be for your ex to run into you down the road and there you are, better than you've ever been! Kicking a$$! on the rest of the world. Kind of like "Thanks for dumping me, cuz look at me now!"
You've got a new and improved girlfriend, better job, new car, new clothes, you look great. You've got new friends, you're doing new and exciting things that you never did before. You don't even have time to stop and talk to her. Your life is better, more complete, and you are happier than you've ever been.
The above are just examples but the point is to improve yourself and your life in every possible way.
Now you'll say "But Slick, shouldn't we be doing all that stuff anyway?"
EXACTLY. That is the beauty of it.
We've all probably had our hearts broken at one time or another. We all know that feeling like you can't go on. Life seems meaningless. You feel like you'll never find another one like her. You can't eat, can't sleep. Blah, blah, blah. You end up moping around all depressed.
Well its gonna take some TIME before you can get yourself together and get back on the right track. It might be a few months, it might even be years!
But when you head out looking for Revenge in this way, you'll be WAY ahead of the game.
Now go show that B*tch!
Anyway this post deals with the aftermath. What to do after your heart was stomped on.
Maybe she cheated, found someone else, or just needed space. You're pissed as many guys are when their heart gets ripped out. Alot of guys turn into women hating bastards. You feel like punching the wall, or his face, or even hers.
So what's the best REVENGE!?
Screw as many chicks as you can? Mess up her car? Beat up her new boyfriend? Light her house on fire? Throw acid in her face?
(Just kidding about the acid. Read that somewhere on this forum)
No. Although these things might be fun and make you feel better for a minute or two, this is not the right type of Revenge.
The Best Revenge Ever on the Ex that dumped you is simply, LIVING WELL.
Living your life to your best capability.
What a slap in the face it would be for your ex to run into you down the road and there you are, better than you've ever been! Kicking a$$! on the rest of the world. Kind of like "Thanks for dumping me, cuz look at me now!"
You've got a new and improved girlfriend, better job, new car, new clothes, you look great. You've got new friends, you're doing new and exciting things that you never did before. You don't even have time to stop and talk to her. Your life is better, more complete, and you are happier than you've ever been.
The above are just examples but the point is to improve yourself and your life in every possible way.
Now you'll say "But Slick, shouldn't we be doing all that stuff anyway?"
EXACTLY. That is the beauty of it.
We've all probably had our hearts broken at one time or another. We all know that feeling like you can't go on. Life seems meaningless. You feel like you'll never find another one like her. You can't eat, can't sleep. Blah, blah, blah. You end up moping around all depressed.
Well its gonna take some TIME before you can get yourself together and get back on the right track. It might be a few months, it might even be years!
But when you head out looking for Revenge in this way, you'll be WAY ahead of the game.
Now go show that B*tch!
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