Best response to "You never text me first". We are not dating yet.

[olympustenayxs]

I met this girl online and she texts me first daily. Today she sends me a message "You never text me first". I ignored the message and she pinned it to our chat.

Real reason I dont text her first is because I asked her to visit me at home and she told me she wants to hang out first. And didnt make any concrete plans to hang out. Plus she told me she is talking to other men too. This is the reason I only respond to her texts.

Whats a good response when someone says this?

 

[obelisk]

"You're just not that interesting."

"Come over and we'll chat."

 

[olympustenayxs]

dude, you met a girl online and expect her to just come over to your house without meeting her in person.

Ignore the "you never text me first" and just ask her out for coffee. She wants to know you're not a serial killer before walking into your house.

I have had women come directly to my house.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So basically you want pvssy to fall from the sky with no effort.

Good luck with that.

 

[Stanley]

If you don't think she's worth meeting up with somewhere first and you aren't willing to spend the minimal amount of investment (when she's made it clear she'd be down to see you?) then don't respond at all.

There are girls off of apps that will come straight to your place, but I don't want them. I need to meet them first, make sure they look like they present themselves, vet them a bit and be certain they aren't going to steal my kidney. I'd say try and setup a meetup if you are still interested otherwise move on.

To answer your question with "You never text me first", being c'ocky and funny is good.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Coffee dates are a no go, basically anywhere there are gonna be other people around to hear your conversation, you are almost automatically going to be in her frame for the meeting.

Not to say, don't entertain the notion of it, but just go for the power move: You pick her up, drive through for the coffee, then do the date in the car, do not go inside. Put her right into her place from the get go, which is inside your frame, she's not playing ball, you drop her off and hard next, forget about it, maybe she'll reach back out, maybe not, but the coffee date going beyond 15 min is a sure sign of low interest, your already far too available at that point, if you can't close by 15 min it's next.

I have had plenty of women reach back out to me after I've nexted them doing this, it's not the end but if it is you gotta be ok with that. Flowers after sex, not before, otherwise your on that chump time.

15+ min coffee date is low AF interest, you could have a coffee date an hour long with any woman at any time, don't think because it happens your special or there is a spark, you are only kidding yourself. Foot in door first, then have the long coffee date if you want after.

 

[RickPound]

“You always beat me to it babe. You free this week? Let’s grab a drink on ___”

 

[Bingo-Player]

"because you can never wait your turn"

^^^^^

This is how you get hamsters going crazy

 

[BadBoy89]

but the coffee date going beyond 15 min is a sure sign of low interest, your already far too available at that point, if you can't close by 15 min it's next.

What do you mean close In 15 min?

Meet at 2:00 pm, have sex with at 2:15 pm?

Flowers after sex, not before, otherwise your on that chump time.

Why would you give her flowers after sex?

You already got you wanted, why waste your money.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

What do you mean close In 15 min?

Meet at 2:00 pm, have sex with at 2:15 pm?



Why would you give her flowers after sex?

You already got you wanted, why waste your money.

Oh I forgot, you have to be at least 6 foot tall to have coffee with her as well.

 

[BadBoy89]

Oh I forgot, you have to be at least 6 foot tall to have coffee with her as well.

Ignore the argument and attack the poster.

I can see why ladies love you.

 

[RickPound]

This isn’t that complicated. Like some posters have said, you have to put in a little effort.

Make a ****y funny comment about texting first. Make a date. Be normal and cool. Bang her. But DON’T start texting her first just cuz she said so. Maybe every once in awhile at an unexpected time just to spike her heart rate. Then when she texts you, make another date, bang her, rinse and repeat.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

right, and this one doesn't want to. So go buy the girl a cup of coffee, jeez.

Exactly...it's amazing dudes on one hand cry there are no quality women then in the next breath are unwilling even leave the house to meet up for the first "date".

Is this real life?

OP, this women seems to have respect for herself. Clearly this has you shook since you don't deal with any that do apparently.

Just a little piece of advice. If you want something better than trash, you won't find it with your current methodology.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

All he wants is free pvssy delivered to his door. Is that so much to ask?

Hahaha, call an escort service then

 

[sangheilios]

dude, you met a girl online and expect her to just come over to your house without meeting her in person.

Ignore the "you never text me first" and just ask her out for coffee. She wants to know you're not a serial killer before walking into your house.

****, why would you ever invite a woman over to your house that you've never even met in real life before lol. I mean, it's easy to filter out if you are being catfished or you are talking to some trannie lol, though I could see some desperate simp falling for something like that. I'd be concerned about her trying to rob me or something along those lines. She could be bat**** crazy and you end up unable to be rid of her.

 

[sangheilios]

Hahaha, call an escort service then

Honestly, even with something like this you shouldn't have them come to your house and you should instead get a hotel room. Think about it this way, would you want an escort to actually know where you live? Escorts are at the end of the day individuals from the underworld that are associated with a lot of sketchy people and other crazy stuff behind the scenes, I sure as hell wouldn't want people like this to know where I live. Sounds like a great way to get blackmailed, robbed or many other terrible things.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Honestly, even with something like this you shouldn't have them come to your house and you should instead get a hotel room. Think about it this way, would you want an escort to actually know where you live? Escorts are at the end of the day individuals from the underworld that are associated with a lot of sketchy people and other crazy stuff behind the scenes, I sure as hell wouldn't want people like this to know where I live. Sounds like a great way to get blackmailed, robbed or many other terrible things.

Yeah you are right about that. I think a lot of them won't even come to your house and will instead insist on a hotel room for safety reasons, especially their own.

At least for the first few times...if you become a regular then maybe they will bend the rules a little.

I remember reading some anonymous article written by an escort about her "work" and how things worked and if I remember correctly she rented out a hotel room for the day and people came to her.

 

[sangheilios]

Yeah you are right about that. I think a lot of them won't even come to your house and will instead insist on a hotel room for safety reasons, especially their own.

At least for the first few times...if you become a regular then maybe they will bend the rules a little.

A few years ago I contacted a higher tier/business level one and honestly had a good experience but it's only something I've done once and I had/have no desire to try it out again. I had reached out to a lot of other "providers" and even just through text messaging I picked up on a very bad vibe with many of them, I can't really explain it but I think you understand what I'm talking about. Most of these women have issues with drugs and are involved with a lot of shady stuff that I'd not want to associate with. Even the higher tier ones I'm sure are like this as well, though with the added caveat of using their services to climb the social ladder, travel, etc.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

A few years ago I contacted a higher tier/business level one and honestly had a good experience but it's only something I've done once and I had/have no desire to try it out again. I had reached out to a lot of other "providers" and even just through text messaging I picked up on a very bad vibe with many of them, I can't really explain it but I think you understand what I'm talking about. Most of these women have issues with drugs and are involved with a lot of shady stuff that I'd not want to associate with. Even the higher tier ones I'm sure are like this as well, though with the added caveat of using their services to climb the social ladder, travel, etc.

My only experience with one was in Vegas several years ago when I was there for a conference for work and I was coming back to my room from a club and was walking thru the hotel in a big open area and a woman who was just kinda hanging out by herself swooped in to ask me if I "needed any company tonight". She looked good but I told her no thanks...

I kinda was insulted...I was like damn...do I not look like I could go get laid if I really wanted to? Hahaha

 

[zekko]

So basically you want pvssy to fall from the sky with no effort.

Yes, please.