synergy1 said:
I've said it before, and i'll say it again. I like your style. you know your ****. You articulate what I have observed much better than I ever could.
As suggested in the post before this one, people in the north east seem to be like this. You are correct in saying that the bad boy attitude works wonders up here. If you aren't of this type, good luck dating the hot girls. I have tried being the ******* as an experiment and literally gotten laid being in that role. One of my friends plays the role naturally and gets pretty hot girls because of it. It was funny watching him act normally around girls elsewhere, and having them get turned off by the behavior.
I do not belong here. Most of the women I have dated here aren't even from the area which explains a lot. Of all the women i have been with, a shockingly small percentage are actually from the area. Its a testament to how my personality does very little to attract women who are from the area, but does a lot to attract women of different backgrounds.
You pretty much become one either way. It's like being thrown in with a pack of wolves.
take steroids, get a bunch of tattoos, learn how to insult women, and you can come up to this area and clean up. the word 'cumdumpster' doesn't scare off as many women as one might think...
My experiences were the same. Sure, I could be bad, and eventually became that way (unintentionally, out of hate and disgust towards the scene), but I didn't like it. Still don't, and am trying to change.
A lot of girls were just nuts. No family structure, overly independent, dysfunctional, irresponsible, unloyal, etc. They loved the drama and bad boys, and kept going back so they could ***** and feed their misery. It really did work to become bad, too. A lot of girls were very slutty, disrespectful, and weren't afraid to show it. They loved the ****y, smartass, violent, aggressive attitudes. If you weren't a jerkface - you were considered a *****. The girls were such *****es that you had to be an even bigger ******* to attract them. They liked to be "put in their place" - only to ***** and complain. Just ****ing stupid, nonsensical rejects. Nice guys were trampled all over - whether they were found attractive or not.
Daddy issues were common. A lot of drama, alcohol, ****ing, and general craziness. No one trusted anyone, they just ****ed and acted like ****s; a lot of people were immature, bratty, retarded, shallow, rude, etc - even at age 30+. Likely because there was no family or religion or any kind of care or discipline in their lives. People would just ****, have kids, break up, and repeat with another person. All while *****ing and complaining - only to cause more problems. They'd literally get with people - only to ***** and cry and scream and throw things the next day. Phones were tossed, ashtrays were broken... A lot of violent, aggressive behavior. People became very mean, very fast. Players and *******s ruled the scene - for both sexes.
The party / bar scene was HUGE, and there were groups of people within groups of people everywhere. People would jump from group to group, **** them all and try fit in with each person, without a care for anyone but themselves. Drama and chaos ensued. Fake friends, back-stabbing, manipulation was common amongst this. All everyone did was *****, cause drama and problems, make enemies, etc. No wonder why so many ex-nice people became bad. It was chaos everywhere.
Bullies were also common. If you were shy, and considered weak or "good" - good luck. Everyone was so crazy and miserable that they'd dump their insecurities and failures out on you. Corruptive people everywhere - with no class or respect for anyone. Competition was fierce and rampant - even among friends. Everyone wanted to be cooler, hotter, and better in every way. Those that weren't would tear down those who were. Everyone thought they were a celebrity or a pretty boy badass - fake *****es and bullies are who they'd look up to. This was considered "cool" - to be a fake degenerate douche bag loser. It's what everyone tried to become.
Insultful, witty, back-handed, degrading, sarcastic, ****y comments were the norm, and how people would communicate. Relationships were garbage, and didn't last for ****. Just jump from one person to the next, and treat each other like crap. You couldn't tell if someone was being nice, because no one was genuinely nice. Most people were charming and manipulative, and hid under a charade of fake niceness. But, you couldn't tell the difference, since this was as nice as you'd ever see.
Just a lot of fake ass garbage. Enough to make anyone miserable, bitter, and crazy. And, a lot of them were. This is the society and culture in general - not just in my immediate social groups. This **** was going on EVERYWHERE. At work, going outside, during hobbies, at the mall, even the damn movie theatre... in other cities / states - it really didn't matter. Random people you've never met would act this way, and ***** about everything. Even a lot of people I talk to down here say the same exact thing about people who came from the north. They always ask me, "What is wrong with those people?", and I just laugh and say "Why do you think I left?"
I got on Facebook to check up on some old friends, and the area in general, and everything was still the exact same. Only now I had something to compare it to, and realize just how horrible those people are. Still doing everything they always did. The society and way of life is still the same. Everyone is rude, loud, vulgar, opinionated, fake, bitter, *****y, entitled, stupid, etc. Still jumping from guy to guy, acting like filthy *****s, being fake as ****, making babies, *****ing about all the drama they create, and wondering where all the good men are. Just *****ing and *****ing about everything they get themselves involved in.
Friends of friends of friends; randoms; people I never met; it doesn't matter. It's still all the same. The few decent ones complain about all the horrible ones. They're shunned, rejected, bullied, etc, until they become just like them. It's almost unavoidable, 'cause there's so many damn toxic people with no manners or care for anyone.
So, yea... **** the north. :nono:
