Best Cities For Single Men

[Solomon]

Translation: I had to find the best strip club in town.

AWARE!!! lol @ BigNeil.....gotta love that guy

Thats not true. I'm bagging new chicks on the regular here in Atlanta without driving a nice car or living in a fly condo. On a regular week I can go to Compound or Reign and come up on 10+ phone numbers and have dates lines up for the next 3 weeks. Its very easy to come up on women in Atlanta.


PrettyBoyAJ and I hit up a bunch of clubs and we had no problem hooking up with chicks.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1922493&postcount=37

Nismo explain!!

Funny what JRoc says everyone and their mama has been saying about the "A", even my buddy D and that guy sucks with women, he says he had women hollaring at him on the street. Know another dude who looks like SocialKenny and he was getting it in too. Either THe DonGorgons and Nismo's are going after snowbunny's only or they in the wrong spot


maybe Jroc can mentor Nismo on how to game

:crackup:

 

[Robert28]

southern women are like the girls everyone complains about on plenty of fish. no lie. if they arent fat, pregnant, used up, on drugs, alcoholics, etc they date the fattest ugliest b@stard they can find named Bubba and live in a goddam trailer park. I've lived in the south all my life. piss on southern women.

 

[floydb25]

southern women are like the girls everyone complains about on plenty of fish. no lie. if they arent fat, pregnant, used up, on drugs, alcoholics, etc they date the fattest ugliest b@stard they can find named Bubba and live in a goddam trailer park. I've lived in the south all my life. piss on southern women.

B to the S. But, where in the south, and what kinds of people you associate with? I see cute nice girls everywhere. Not loud, rude, annoying, bitter, *****y, fat, slutty, poor, or trashy. Pretty classy, actually. But this is in NC. A lot of people are normal, happy, and married. The single ones aren't miserable or hateful. Even girls compliment each other. Not a lot of hate at all. They're like real people down here.

There are the degenerates who are and do as you describe, though. That's why I avoid those people, and a certain part of this town. But they're in the minority.

The north was the same as you describe - not the south. Not trailer parks, though. They were all bar *****s, and got with the bad boys. Family structure was non-existant. Everyone was crazy, and all for themselves. I was considered nice up there, but an ******* down here. That's how different it is. People aren't nice for **** up north. They're all fake, treat people like crap, feel entitled, and wonder where all the good people are. There's a lot of nice couples down here. Nice people everywhere, and they actually like it. Family and religion is very important. As is class and respect.

Not sure what you're talking about...

 

[Robert28]

B to the S. But, where in the south, and what kinds of people you associate with? I see cute nice girls everywhere. Not loud, rude, annoying, bitter, *****y, fat, slutty, poor, or trashy. Pretty classy, actually. But this is in NC. A lot of people are normal, happy, and married. The single ones aren't miserable or hateful. Even girls compliment each other. Not a lot of hate at all. They're like real people down here.

There are the degenerates who are and do as you describe, though. That's why I avoid those people, and a certain part of this town. But they're in the minority.

The north was the same as you describe - not the south. Not trailer parks, though. They were all bar *****s, and got with the bad boys. Family structure was non-existant. Everyone was crazy, and all for themselves. I was considered nice up there, but an ******* down here. That's how different it is. People aren't nice for **** up north. They're all fake, treat people like crap, feel entitled, and wonder where all the good people are. There's a lot of nice couples down here. Nice people everywhere, and they actually like it. Family and religion is very important. As is class and respect.

Not sure what you're talking about...

is your next door neighbor Fred Rogers?haha I think I finally found out where the real Sesame Street is. NC might be different then SC, but I am speaking from over 30 years of experience having lived her in the south my whole life. Another problem the south faces is all of the northern girls similar to what you described have moved their @$$ down here and they're all over the damn place now. I must have met the nice ones that decided to stay put in Boston.haha

 

[floydb25]

is your next door neighbor Fred Rogers?haha I think I finally found out where the real Sesame Street is. NC might be different then SC, but I am speaking from over 30 years of experience having lived her in the south my whole life. Another problem the south faces is all of the northern girls similar to what you described have moved their @$$ down here and they're all over the damn place now. I must have met the nice ones that decided to stay put in Boston.haha

It really does feel like it. When I first moved here, and didn't have ****, neighbors offered me food, a fan, a couch, and other things. When one moved out, he gave me a vacuum cleaner, laundry baskets, and other things. They expected nothing in return. Always letting me use their phones, wanting to hang out and talk without ulterior, selfish motives. They genuinely care. The church is whole 'nother level.

The place is 70% female, and they're all nice and welcoming. The girl at the pharmacy gave me double the meds on purpose; another walked through to the store to tell me it was ready. Everyone at the registers are super nice. I went to the laundry mat last weekend, and four random people were ready to help me figure it out (it uses a card, and I had no idea what was going on). These are just a few examples.

Everyone is polite and friendly. I havent run into real *******s or douche bags. No one is loud, rude, aggressive, intimidating, etc. The hospitality is unreal. Even though I knew nobody, they make you feel right at home. They don't bully or make fun of you for being a loner - they try to get to know you, ask if something is wrong, invite you to do things, etc. I went to the dentist recently, and thought I was in Heaven. The people were as nice as angels. Pure kindness I've never seen before. There was a lady at pizza hut who was the same way. I didn't think people could be that genuinely nice. All of my co-workers are pretty nice, and most everyone I run into is, as well. Although, not everyone is talkative. Many are shy and reserved, and stick with their families. Which is different. People up north don't even know their families. There's a lot of geeks, too. But not in the nerdy sense - normal, intelligent, knowledgeable, etc. They're not arrogant or boasting.

Women don't flirt with everyone. In fact, they hardly do at all. It's pretty traditional. Not a lot of fake *****es. They're not shallow or stupid. A lot of them are married; I don't see anyone dating or fooling around. They play with their kids at the park, go out together, and act like normal human beings.

It's a HUGE change, though. I'm not used to it, or fully accepting of it. It's like I was in Hell, and moved to Heaven. I still expect to run into Demons, but find a lot of Angels. Even what people consider bad isn't really bad. The ****y, sarcastic types like myself who do cuss and things, but not in an insultful, hurting others kind of way. People aren't mean or rude to each other. They don't gossip or talk ****. They don't scream or cause drama everywhere.

Those that are bad are in the minority. They're easy to spot and avoid. The fake *****es, skanks, losers, jerks, users, etc. I get rid of them fast, and its easy to find good people. But, they don't have huge social crowds like they do up north. But with that comes less drama, fighting, back-stabbing, hating, fake friends, followers, etc.

All I know is I'm never ever going back. This is the Paradise City, where the grass is green and the girls are pretty. I remember one of Axl's rants, where he added "which there ain't no ****ing place, anywhere". To that, I say LIES.

 

[Robert28]

It really does feel like it. When I first moved here, and didn't have ****, neighbors offered me food, a fan, a couch, and other things. When one moved out, he gave me a vacuum cleaner, laundry baskets, and other things. They expected nothing in return. Always letting me use their phones, wanting to hang out and talk without ulterior, selfish motives. They genuinely care. The church is whole 'nother level.

The place is 70% female, and they're all nice and welcoming. The girl at the pharmacy gave me double the meds on purpose; another walked through to the store to tell me it was ready. Everyone at the registers are super nice. I went to the laundry mat last weekend, and four random people were ready to help me figure it out (it uses a card, and I had no idea what was going on). These are just a few examples.

Everyone is polite and friendly. I havent run into real *******s or douche bags. No one is loud, rude, aggressive, intimidating, etc. The hospitality is unreal. Even though I knew nobody, they make you feel right at home. They don't bully or make fun of you for being a loner - they try to get to know you, ask if something is wrong, invite you to do things, etc. I went to the dentist recently, and thought I was in Heaven. The people were as nice as angels. Pure kindness I've never seen before. There was a lady at pizza hut who was the same way. I didn't think people could be that genuinely nice. All of my co-workers are pretty nice, and most everyone I run into is, as well. Although, not everyone is talkative. Many are shy and reserved, and stick with their families. Which is different. People up north don't even know their families. There's a lot of geeks, too. But not in the nerdy sense - normal, intelligent, knowledgeable, etc. They're not arrogant or boasting.

Women don't flirt with everyone. In fact, they hardly do at all. It's pretty traditional. Not a lot of fake *****es.

It's a HUGE change, though. I'm not used to it, or fully accepting of it. It's like I was in Hell, and moved to Heaven. I still expect to run into Demons, but find a lot of Angels. Even what people consider bad isn't really bad. The ****y, sarcastic types like myself who do cuss and things, but not in an insultful, hurting others kind of way. People aren't mean or rude to each other. They don't gossip or talk ****. They don't scream or cause drama everywhere.

Those that are bad are in the minority. They're easy to spot and avoid.

All I know is I'm never ever going back. This is the Paradise City, where the grass is green and the girls are pretty. I remember one of Axl's rants, where he added "which there ain't no ****ing place, anywhere". To that, I say LIES.

while I do agree with your post, you fail to mention how many southern women you've dated since you've been here. date a few, give it time, and I am willing to bet your tune won't be so merry.lol trust me on this! having some neighbor bake a casserole for you is one thing.

 

[BMX]

I left Charlotte this past spring. So many transplants there it was unbelievable. I moved by myself, no friends or family in the city so that was rough. While I was there I could not get a girlfriend but I wasn't trying very hard either. I did go on dates with a lot of women. The city was better for getting cougars, tbh. Plenty of entertainment, affordable housing and stuck up women. I wouldn't move back there unless I am ready to settle down.

Just over the line in SC is a different world. The women were friendlier with a healthier mix of young and cougars. USC and Columbia, SC in general had the friendliest women and booty. This is where they were southern, respectful and dtf. Clemson, they were all entitled, disregard those hoes.

North FL and Central FL, easy.

DC. Easy for daygame but they have a lot of entitlement issues.

Richmond, easy if you like dark meat.

Va Beach, they act like they've never seen a muscled physique. Easy.

 

[PlayerUntilDeath]

Buddha Mind, Thanks, and happy that you found it funny, hope you have some fun on your travels soon.
Sure guys who are good at "game" can game anywhere (even in a town or a room with only 3 girls), but in a town with say only 3000 people and the nearest larger city say 3 hours away the time you are in that small town (sure you can meet a few girls such as in a social circle or at the gas station where she just came into town with her family from the farm and looks and smells that way too) but maybe there's 100 girls in your age group and 70 of those are married so that's slim pickins - although most of 'em aren't slim, so in a city that is a Target Rich Environment there is many more options of girls to game.
Most of us would say avoid DC (whenever I'm there I can't wait to get out fast and then end up on the beltway in rush hour traffic). Atlanta is decent, and it sounds like it is a good fit for some of the commenters here, and if someone is from the south already they may like it too. Some places in Florida are worth checking out such as, South Beach and Tampa (it's humid in FL in the summer so I tend to go in other months). I lived in South Carolina for 5 months and it was way too (I'll call it) slow for me and I will not go there again. I was in Richmond for a month, it was ok plus laid back and there is a few places to go but again it is not an overly happening place, but it is a quick drive from NC if the OP wants to check it out. If the OP likes the South East and wants to stay in that area and is looking for some places near NC within a few hours then somewhere such as, Nashville could be a few hours drive to check out. Maybe there is something you like to do or some places you like to go and some cities may have more of those activities.
To the OP, jglide123, the Cost of Living in a place has to be considered as well. The COL is lower in North Carolina. The COL is extremely high in NYC/LA, so one has to be able to bankroll it or have connections (friends in the area to share the rent).
Good luck jglide123.

 

[Zerro]

So the guy from the north talks about how all women up there are rude and *****y and how much more awesome the ones down south are treating him, meanwhile the dude from the south is saying how rotten the girls down south are and how much more welcome he is up north. The only pattern I'm seeing is that each guy is being treated better when away from home as new the girls he's meeting see him as something new and exciting.

 

[floydb25]

while I do agree with your post, you fail to mention how many southern women you've dated since you've been here. date a few, give it time, and I am willing to bet your tune won't be so merry.lol trust me on this! having some neighbor bake a casserole for you is one thing.

But.... Pie? Fair enough... I'm speaking from an observational standpoint, since I've only been here 6 months, trying to get my **** together, and etc. After the long list of failed relationships and toxic women, I've taken a hiatus from any kind of dating for a while. Can't deal with it. Women still show interest, and I know when someone is interested, but I keep to myself on purpose. From what I've seen and heard, women expect the men to approach around here. Which is good, 'cause I don't have to approach anyone. :rockon:

Up north, women would approach, suggest sex (right away), and basically act like dumb *****s - only to complain when they were treated as such. It's like, they're not even human. No substance or personality. Just ****ing everyone and getting wasted and having kids. They all had issues. Down here, they're nice, and like to talk, and be respectful, and other things humans do. They don't jump on every ****, or push for sex, or act like complete retards with annoying, obnoxious, rude, demanding personalities. When women approach up north - its usually in a confident, aggressive, arrogant manner. If you refuse, they call you gay, say you're a jerk, never stop hounding you down... They're persistent and annoying and stupid. That's how people are up north... Rude, loud, overly opinionated, judgemental, etc. On the drive here, it wasn't until we left Kentucky and entered Virginia (I believe it was) that things changed. No longer were the drivers rude, aggressive, selfish, flipping the bird, looking like someone just killed their dog for passing them in a SEVEN lane highway... The people at the gas stations were no longer rude, snobby, stuck up, uninterested in people, etc. ****ing hate the north. HATE IT. :nono:

But, crazy ranting aside, these people were garbage before ever getting involved with them. They were vulgar, loud, rude, crazy, talked about "****ing", getting wasted, doing drugs, hot guys, and blah blah. So, they were trash all along. The people here aren't like that. They don't jump from guy to guy and ***** about them; they're not miserable and angry; they like other people; they're nice and giving; etc. Just by going on that, there's no way they can be as bad in the dating sense as they were up north.

I had friends who dated down here, and the girls weren't bad at all. The guys - now ex-friends - were complete losers and *******s, though. They didn't last with any of them, and the girls complained that they were too aggressive, mean, selfish, etc. Up north, the crazy *****es would try to marry them - being that they are the same way themselves - only to complain constantly. ****ing stupid, worthless people, man. All they do is complain about the same things they are - in their worthless lifestyles. Status is big there. Never setting foot there again.

As well, there's a difference in the online dating profiles. The snobby ****s and opinionated *****es are always from the north, and mention as such. "Yea, I'm a crazy ***** from the north... I like to annoy people with my stupidity, talk too much, don't have any friends, got kicked out of my state for being too worthless... Date me!" That's what the generator says, anyway.

Most of the losers down here came from the north, anyway. Those ex-friends were from Jersey. Other degenerates came from New York and Cali. The locals are awesome, though. Just based on their personality alone - you can tell when someone is decent. Of course, no one is perfect. But they don't care about status and stupid ****. Just normal people.

I dated decent women before (but only briefly, before going for another crazy slut), and they definitely match the ones down here. They're all boring, nice, reserved, shy, pleasant, geeky, have no lives, etc... That's what I'm talking about... Let's do this!

 

[Robert28]

welcome to women of the south.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=40510314

 

[In2theGame]

welcome to women of the south.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=40510314

I gotta go down south! lol

 

[Down Low]

LA. It's a college town, homie town to numerous minority groups, Kikeyboy town, tough industrial whitey town . . . you name it. Girls there get all hot and bothered b'cuz I'm a notch or two above anything they ever saw.

 

[Solomon]

Minneapolis, MN. Girls are super approachable and down to bang

^^True that

If your in decent shape and have some basic game down you'll clean up nice.

A lot of guys here are clueless phaggots who buy girls drinks even 4's get free drinks.

I keep telling guys Minneapolis is the place to be. You got hotties who are down, just have decent aesthetics and youll be smashing girls like Tiger Woods

srs

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Actually when Lebron was playing for cleveland they made it too the finals, and had the best record in the NBA two years in a row, and he was MVP one of those years

Just saying

p.s co-sign st99, one of my buddies lived in south dakota, and he got laid like a boss

He also never won a championship until he moved to a much better team, the Miami Heat.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

I gotta go down south! lol

So a single mom who's picky about the looks and height of a man is supposed to be a turn on?

Single mom = no go, even if she's an 11 out of 10.

 

[synergy1]

Any top 10 Nielsen markets would be good for single women.

Especially New York and LA. I've had experience in Los Angeles and I swear I had more hotties hitting on me than I could ever imagine.

I live in Boston now and for the first week I've started noticing attention on the subway, at work, and on the subway. I'll post a new thread about why I think that is the case.

Here is my experiences in respective areas:

1- Boston: A lot of colleges, and thus a lot of college girls of a variety of backgrounds. Meeting interesting girls is easy to do here. A lot of chicks living by themselves too, so that makes going back to their place and spending the night that much easier

2- Northeast new england- This is where I am now, and the game is slanted towards women here. There seem to be fewer, so they hold the cards. Whatever I bring to the table seems to be insufficient because I do not date hot women in this area. Its a struggle to get average looking women on dates. I also find personalities of women in this area to be very lacking. Think about it, with so few hot chicks here ( compared to boston), why would a chick have to do anything besides show up? Even an ugly chick can spread her legs and have 20 dudes willing to bend over backwards up here.

3- Southern California - the complete opposite of where I am now. In my brief time there, I was able to get a good number of phone numbers from attractive nice women. I even went on a 'date' having only been in the area for less than a week. The women were more approachable, down to earth, interesting, and most of all attractive when compared to the northeast suburbs.

Moral of the story: one can feel like a chump in one location, and feel like a champ in another. Its been discussed many times, but the scarcity mentality is a dangerous one to have. its easy to have it when you live outside a city and women are pickier. The upside is that a guy has to work hard at it, so when they go where the odds are even, its like taking candy from a baby...literally.

 

[floydb25]

So the guy from the north talks about how all women up there are rude and *****y and how much more awesome the ones down south are treating him, meanwhile the dude from the south is saying how rotten the girls down south are and how much more welcome he is up north. The only pattern I'm seeing is that each guy is being treated better when away from home as new the girls he's meeting see him as something new and exciting.

Whether intentional or not, this is pretty damn funny. :rockon: There's definitely some truth there. But I think its more of a case of different strokes for different folks. What he says is true, and what I say is true.

He likes the fact that women are the way they are up north - assertive, willing to approach, hit on you, sexually open, etc. This in itself isn't bad, but its all the other things that come with this kind of attitude and behavior. A lot of these girls (and guys) are jerks and sluts. That's the nature of an assertive, aggressive, don't give a **** kind of person, and they're in droves up there. They won't hesitate to speak their mind, they always have an opinion (even if its hurtful / degrading), they do whatever they want... It's like a bunch of animals. Social groups everywhere, night life is big, people yelling from their cars, lots of noise, very busy and fast-like, etc. Women do not hold back up there.

Down here is more peaceful and civilized, but also more boring and lame. The women aren't as loud, obnoxious, sexually open, assertive, etc. You don't have to be with them to see what kind of person they're like. There is a stark difference in the culture, society, attitude, and way of life. I'd compare it to the city life vs a rural, quiet community. What's funny is, the city I live in down here is bigger than the one up north, but the way people are certainly doesn't feel like it. I wouldn't say the women are nicer here 'cause I'm "different". It's just the way they are. People in general are more nicer.

The biggest difference is, women will act rude even if they like you up north. A lot of these girls I'm talking about were interested, and did want sex, but they weren't nice people in general. They didn't give a **** if you were attractive or not - they weren't going to change. Being a bad boy was very effective up there, 'cause so many girls were *****es. But a lot of guys were *******s, as well. You pretty much become one either way. It's like being thrown in with a pack of wolves. A lot of people became corruptive, bitter, resentful, hateful, etc because of all the bad people. But the fast-paced, anything goes, all for yourself lifestyle pretty much creates this kind of environment.

There's also more money up north, so they can afford to be snobby, fake, superficial, etc. The environment you're in breeds this kind of stuff. Down here everyone is too poor to gloat or compete. "My trailer's better than yours... I have more teeth, and less holes in my pants than you!" Yeah, doesn't work.

I think neither of us understand what the people are FULLY like in our respective areas yet. We see only the changes we like, but didn't dwelve enough to get the full picture yet. I like quiet, he likes assertive. But there's more to it than that, certainly. I have a feeling there's a lot of "nice girls" down here, and not in the good way. I see a lot of passive aggressive, holding back kind of behaviors going on. Whereas up north, they don't give a **** what anyone thinks, and will do themselves regardless. If you don't like it, **** off, cause they don't care.

I think we're just better suited for these areas. I always felt like I didn't belong up north. It's a perfect fit for me here.

 

[synergy1]

The biggest difference is, women will act rude even if they like you up north. A lot of these girls I'm talking about were interested, and did want sex, but they weren't nice people in general. They didn't give a **** if you were attractive or not - they weren't going to change. Being a bad boy was very effective up there, 'cause so many girls were *****es. But a lot of guys were *******s, as well. You pretty much become one either way. It's like being thrown in with a pack of wolves. A lot of people became corruptive, bitter, resentful, hateful, etc because of all the bad people. But the fast-paced, anything goes, all for yourself lifestyle pretty much creates this kind of environment.

I think we're just better suited for these areas. I always felt like I didn't belong up north. It's a perfect fit for me here.

I've said it before, and i'll say it again. I like your style. you know your ****. You articulate what I have observed much better than I ever could.

As suggested in the post before this one, people in the north east seem to be like this. You are correct in saying that the bad boy attitude works wonders up here. If you aren't of this type, good luck dating the hot girls. I have tried being the ******* as an experiment and literally gotten laid being in that role. One of my friends plays the role naturally and gets pretty hot girls because of it. It was funny watching him act normally around girls elsewhere, and having them get turned off by the behavior.

I do not belong here. Most of the women I have dated here aren't even from the area which explains a lot. Of all the women i have been with, a shockingly small percentage are actually from the area. Its a testament to how my personality does very little to attract women who are from the area, but does a lot to attract women of different backgrounds.

You pretty much become one either way. It's like being thrown in with a pack of wolves.

take steroids, get a bunch of tattoos, learn how to insult women, and you can come up to this area and clean up. the word 'cumdumpster' doesn't scare off as many women as one might think...

 

[Solomon]

I've said it before, and i'll say it again. I like your style. you know your ****. You articulate what I have observed much better than I ever could.

As suggested in the post before this one, people in the north east seem to be like this. You are correct in saying that the bad boy attitude works wonders up here. If you aren't of this type, good luck dating the hot girls. I have tried being the ******* as an experiment and literally gotten laid being in that role. One of my friends plays the role naturally and gets pretty hot girls because of it. It was funny watching him act normally around girls elsewhere, and having them get turned off by the behavior.

I do not belong here. Most of the women I have dated here aren't even from the area which explains a lot. Of all the women i have been with, a shockingly small percentage are actually from the area. Its a testament to how my personality does very little to attract women who are from the area, but does a lot to attract women of different backgrounds.

You pretty much become one either way. It's like being thrown in with a pack of wolves.

take steroids, get a bunch of tattoos, learn how to insult women, and you can come up to this area and clean up. the word 'cumdumpster' doesn't scare off as many women as one might think...

The midwest is slowly strating the Jersey Shore doucebag trend as well


You northeast guys can keep your "Guidos" and "Guidettes" I don't want that shyt here, heh