Being masculine doesn’t work lol

[PRW63]

Correlation is not causation
Most relationships the man also LOOKS better than the woman too. So the relationship has nothing to do with game. Just the guy settling for someone below his smv)
But in relationships where the woman LOOKS better than the man (ie his sexual strategy takes precedence) the man is often much more masculine than average.
Also a lack of masculinity in general society means women will settle for less masculine options out of lack.
But they will feel arousal for and be more tempted to cheat with more masculine men they eventually encounter .

I can go with that 100%

 

[darksprezzatura]

I go after what I want, take what's useful, discard what's useless.

I don't care about being masculine. I don't care if it works to get women. I don't give a flying fvck what works with women.

I don't care about anything except myself and the people I care about.

Fvck are you guys on about LOL

 

[SW15]

I was out with a new wing this weekend just gone (annoying af and not sure i'll game with him again!) but he apparently has a monsterous lay count, and the dude is actually pretty camp! Definitely not macho man masculine energy. He's good looking and young though

One of my friends is mid-30s now. In his mid to late 20s, he was putting up big notch count numbers. He wasn't a masculine guy though I would not have called him camp or effeminate. He had a look at that time that was very appealing to college educated white women. 6'4" and former NCAA athlete in a country club sport. Basic white male with no extreme features other than height.

I tend to think a more masculine vibe is best but it's not automatic.

 

[soulforge]

I just came in to say.. LOL

 

[Rocnavy]

I found when I get the best results when I’m fun goofy and just free like a kid. Anytime I act super masculine it actually backfired lol. What are your guys thoughts

Its not working cause you acting masculine instead of being masculine.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

No masculine guy would go on the internet to make a post like this.

Just like no alpha guy would make a post complaining about online dating.

The answer is in the question.

 

[Francis]

I found when I get the best results when I’m fun goofy and just free like a kid. Anytime I act super masculine it actually backfired lol. What are your guys thoughts

What works for some people doesn't necessarily work for others. There is no one size fits all way of attracting people. A lot of it also depends on your personality. You could get rejected for being tall, short, mean, nice, shy, annoying, the list goes on. It all depends on who you are and what the other person is looking for or attracted to. Trying to be something you're not usually backfires unless you fake it well.

Do whatever it is that is working for you. A lot of people like to stereotype or claim that their way / beliefs are definite but it's not that simple.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

Women are attracted to high testosterone over low testosterone. This isn’t even debatable.
SoSuave has turned into a sewer.

 

[zekko]

Then you're not acting masculine.
Nothing is more magnetic than a masculine, reserved, calm, assertive man for women

Men need to have this in their personality when needed IMO. The problem with this description is that if that's all you are, it runs the risk of being boring. It's a good base, but where's the fun?