Being masculine doesn’t work lol

[SmoothSmooth]

No masculine guy would go on the internet to make a post like this.

Just like no alpha guy would make a post complaining about online dating.

The answer is in the question.

 

[Francis]

I found when I get the best results when I’m fun goofy and just free like a kid. Anytime I act super masculine it actually backfired lol. What are your guys thoughts

What works for some people doesn't necessarily work for others. There is no one size fits all way of attracting people. A lot of it also depends on your personality. You could get rejected for being tall, short, mean, nice, shy, annoying, the list goes on. It all depends on who you are and what the other person is looking for or attracted to. Trying to be something you're not usually backfires unless you fake it well.

Do whatever it is that is working for you. A lot of people like to stereotype or claim that their way / beliefs are definite but it's not that simple.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

Women are attracted to high testosterone over low testosterone. This isn’t even debatable.
SoSuave has turned into a sewer.

 

[zekko]

Then you're not acting masculine.
Nothing is more magnetic than a masculine, reserved, calm, assertive man for women

Men need to have this in their personality when needed IMO. The problem with this description is that if that's all you are, it runs the risk of being boring. It's a good base, but where's the fun?