Being handsome is not that easy

[DanelMadr]

The only thing holding us back is girls thinking we're ******* or players... As long as we don't act needy and we're confident, we'll do fine guys!

In other words Only thing holding us back is Us

I have to admit, I was more modest then necessary, thinking when I play the' Clark Kent' I would be less intimidating but it's not the good way at all lol.
Balance is the key.
The same goes in life. I used to ejoy the situations, where some "tough" guy thought he can reassure his ego putting down 6'4" guy....big mistake....these guys are probably still wondering where it come from LOL