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Master Don Juan
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I noticed that us smart guys have a double edged sword. I used to make it an identity to be an "authority", someone who was known by everyone to be really smart. I noticed that I would alienate/annoy people though. Looking back, I've realized that I was just lame and not cool.
After going through Jeffy from RSD;s programs, I noticed that he was a very intelligent, articulate guy that pretty much acted like he was really dumb, but peppering very intelligent and complex words into conversation.
Then I decided to start doing that too. It worked. I no longer had to "think" about sh*t. I could say dumb, frivolous stuff and get away with it, because it was entertaining, at the very least to myself.
Once I got over my need to have deep, meaningful conversation with EVERY woman I came into contact with, my results went up. Did I get laid a ton? Nope. But I was getting more results in terms of looks, conversations, and situations that would have led to more lays that I didn't get simply because of lack of experience. I was getting more opportunity.
Then I read an article on Chateau Heartise. In that article it mentioned that interacting with a woman in a more feminine way was a way to get your foot in the door, since she could relate to you better. No, I didn't talk about shoes and sh*t. The only thing feminine about me is my style of communication. More like how our conversations would jump from thread to thread, often with little or no relation to each other. Guys started complaining to me about how "random" my conversations were. That's when I realized that I had achieved the female communication style, because it drives guys nuts when the thread changes so constantly, but for women it's natural. Listen to a group of women talk and you'll notice they don't stay on the same subject for very long.
And since most women don't understand how men think, I made it a point to understand how THEY think. A similar concept is how most women value status over looks, and therefore tend to get jealous when you look at women who are more high status than them, even if you're not attracted to the higher status women.
In other words, I'm pretty much the male version of a woman who could easily talk about whatever you're interested in; sports, cars, guns, etc.
Once we have sex, THEN I switch over to being the mysterious dude. Maybe even a deep conversation or two.
I've also noticed that reading the manosphere blogs helps fine tune your understanding of game dynamics since they're updated more frequently than the books and programs that come out, and tend to be more well written than forum posts.
Hell, I might even consider starting a blog of my own. I don't know if I have enough experience or whatever the f*ck you need for a blog. Maybe I ought to start one based in my local area and try to gain the same notoriety as other dudes have in the past. That would be fun.
After going through Jeffy from RSD;s programs, I noticed that he was a very intelligent, articulate guy that pretty much acted like he was really dumb, but peppering very intelligent and complex words into conversation.
Then I decided to start doing that too. It worked. I no longer had to "think" about sh*t. I could say dumb, frivolous stuff and get away with it, because it was entertaining, at the very least to myself.
Once I got over my need to have deep, meaningful conversation with EVERY woman I came into contact with, my results went up. Did I get laid a ton? Nope. But I was getting more results in terms of looks, conversations, and situations that would have led to more lays that I didn't get simply because of lack of experience. I was getting more opportunity.
Then I read an article on Chateau Heartise. In that article it mentioned that interacting with a woman in a more feminine way was a way to get your foot in the door, since she could relate to you better. No, I didn't talk about shoes and sh*t. The only thing feminine about me is my style of communication. More like how our conversations would jump from thread to thread, often with little or no relation to each other. Guys started complaining to me about how "random" my conversations were. That's when I realized that I had achieved the female communication style, because it drives guys nuts when the thread changes so constantly, but for women it's natural. Listen to a group of women talk and you'll notice they don't stay on the same subject for very long.
And since most women don't understand how men think, I made it a point to understand how THEY think. A similar concept is how most women value status over looks, and therefore tend to get jealous when you look at women who are more high status than them, even if you're not attracted to the higher status women.
In other words, I'm pretty much the male version of a woman who could easily talk about whatever you're interested in; sports, cars, guns, etc.
Once we have sex, THEN I switch over to being the mysterious dude. Maybe even a deep conversation or two.
I've also noticed that reading the manosphere blogs helps fine tune your understanding of game dynamics since they're updated more frequently than the books and programs that come out, and tend to be more well written than forum posts.
Hell, I might even consider starting a blog of my own. I don't know if I have enough experience or whatever the f*ck you need for a blog. Maybe I ought to start one based in my local area and try to gain the same notoriety as other dudes have in the past. That would be fun.
