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Master Don Juan
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It's not the focal point. The focal point is entertaining myself and being "charming", as Damian pointed out.MisterD said:But why is getting laid the focal point? Why are you changing who you are in order to get laid? This may work short term, but in the end, you're going to want to find someone who you don't have to act for, who will dig you for being your true self.
But I guess it depends on what you consider "deep". Deep to me is talking about dreams, beliefs, the meaning of life. I talk about topics like this all the time, with men and women alike, since i'm a big time dreamer, and i've never had a problem with it. It's never costed me a woman. And even if it did, I probably wouldn't care because it wouldn't work with the girl anyway.
I understand what forum I'm on but not everything you do has to lead to vag. Sometimes you have to live your life regardless if what you do gets you laid or not.
As I said before: I used to talk about "deep" things so frequently that I now need to swing all the way over, just to see what the other side of the spectrum is like. It's also just way too serious, and I've noticed that people want what's "fun" when they're out. It's a great way to dampen a good time by having "deep" discussions.
Also, I realized that no one cares about your dreams. If anything, it makes them uncomfortable because it makes them realize their own mediocrity and small mind. I keep my dreams to myself and a very small circle of people. There's a time and place for deep discussion. The initial meeting of women isn't that time.
I sense that there's a presupposition that changing who you are is a bad thing. It's not. Especially when who you were before was too serious and up his own ass.
I wonder, MisterD, if you're a "fun" guy or if you are overly serious, like I used to be.