ntdawg said:
Hey Guys,
Has anyone experienced bad feedback from old female friends after becoming a DJ? I'm getting things like. You've changed and I don't know if it's for the better.
Even old AFC friends don’t respond too well to an alpha personality. Confident people love a Don Juan. I'm finding insecure people aren't quite so fascinated.
Any comments or similar experiences? Just something that I have been noticing lately.
NTDAWG.
This is a very interesting topic, as there are four different types of DJ's, (1) being the tough cool dude redneck type, (2) the smooth talking flamboyant ****y and funny pretty boy type who although being extremely confident when around woman can't really protect himself in a violent type of physical confrontation, (3) the yuppie or businessman type, (4) the ones like us on this site who are not natural DJ's and have had to learn how to become one.
I don't think many guys, either DJ's nor AFC's like to be around a DJ, especially the type of guy who wasn't a natural DJ in the beginning.
In most cases if you have been known to everyone as an AFC, a Wuss, a Wimp, and a Loser in the past, it is going to be extremely difficult for you to ever be veiwed as the ultimate AlphaMale by many of these guys even after you have changed for many years.
First impressions are very powerful and they usually depict how other guys and girls as well veiw you throughout your life.
It is much easier to make a positive impression on someone who knows nothing about your past after you have changed.
Many guys who have changed from being AFC's to DJ's still carry the effects of their pasts as losers, wusses, and wimps, and therefore may still resent the natural types of DJ guys and attack them on their weaknesses once they have discovered them.
There are alot of DJ's who were former AFC's who are not alluring the hot babes by their confidence, but more so by the psychology of which they have learnt about attracting woman over the years.
These guys have learnt how to pick up the prettiest girls, yet they don't really like the natural DJ types.
I tend to think that the natural DJ's prefer to be in the company of the other natural DJ guys, who have always been in the in crowd, where as the guy who has changed from an AFC into a DJ often remains the lone wolf type, manages to be able to allure the hottest babes, focuses alot more on sarging for pretty girls, rather than on building freindships with other guys and prefer their former AFC freinds over the natural DJ types.
I may be wrong about this, but it seems as if it is right to me, what I have written here, :yes: