This should be pretty obvious. It goes back to abundance and the supply vs. demand rule. Those with more options choose the higher options.
For example, as a white collar guy making good money, I'm not really interested in hanging out with homeless people or people working as window washers. Its not that I look down on them.. its just that my lifestyle is totally different and I would have nothing much in common with them. On top of that, I have better options. I have access to men on my level who are closer to my situation.
I like this.
Sorta off topic, yet I think beyond game, it's important for us DJs to keep company with other successful men that are equally driven to succeed in life with career aspirations and such. For example, I belong to a volunteer group in my city. I meet people from all career backgrounds and learn more about industries from them. One dude I talked to last week was telling me how toastmasters has helped him with self-confidence. He does HR for a small company and he interfaces with clients frequently. Learning how to manage a client's fears and expectations helps him do his job better. He was telling me it helps with perfecting the art of the elevator pitch. He's given 30-90 seconds to sell a topic to his leader and peers.
Apply sales logic to game. If you're approaching a set with beautiful women and want to stay in the set without getting ejected by an AMOG, or a girl's wing; the approach must be fast, smooth, and charming with grace. If a beautiful woman doesn't like the initial attraction, she'll eject the approach quick. Recalibrate after the set and try again, a different set, venue, or day/evening.
Also, eliminate the lazy and the negative. Those who just want to get wasted, stoned, or who complain about everyone around them, play victim should first examine one's inner thoughts and take personal responsibility where appropriate. It's all about progression. How are we helping each other out to build up and lead?