Beautiful people don't hang with average people, of any gender

Urbanyst

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Like I said.......this poster with the account that's 1.5 months old believes he's the voice on what goes and how people should act......
Going by the PM's I've received, I'm not the only one who thinks you were a banned poster operating under a new name......
You'd usually see some humility from such a new member, not the absolute arrogance shown by this poster when he starts a thread questioning why the moderators banned another member. It's quite unusual for a very new member to show that amount of arrogance......unless they've
shown it here before........a banned poster under a new name......

You, my dear boy, are the troll.......and a racist troll too going by what you posted in another thread.

Shoo
Just because I'm new to posting, that doesn't mean I'm new to reading the forum.

I've said my piece. If you want to keep trolling and not discussing the thread topic you can, just now I will keep reporting you until you follow the rules.
 

resilient

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This should be pretty obvious. It goes back to abundance and the supply vs. demand rule. Those with more options choose the higher options.

For example, as a white collar guy making good money, I'm not really interested in hanging out with homeless people or people working as window washers. Its not that I look down on them.. its just that my lifestyle is totally different and I would have nothing much in common with them. On top of that, I have better options. I have access to men on my level who are closer to my situation.
I like this.

Sorta off topic, yet I think beyond game, it's important for us DJs to keep company with other successful men that are equally driven to succeed in life with career aspirations and such. For example, I belong to a volunteer group in my city. I meet people from all career backgrounds and learn more about industries from them. One dude I talked to last week was telling me how toastmasters has helped him with self-confidence. He does HR for a small company and he interfaces with clients frequently. Learning how to manage a client's fears and expectations helps him do his job better. He was telling me it helps with perfecting the art of the elevator pitch. He's given 30-90 seconds to sell a topic to his leader and peers.

Apply sales logic to game. If you're approaching a set with beautiful women and want to stay in the set without getting ejected by an AMOG, or a girl's wing; the approach must be fast, smooth, and charming with grace. If a beautiful woman doesn't like the initial attraction, she'll eject the approach quick. Recalibrate after the set and try again, a different set, venue, or day/evening.

Also, eliminate the lazy and the negative. Those who just want to get wasted, stoned, or who complain about everyone around them, play victim should first examine one's inner thoughts and take personal responsibility where appropriate. It's all about progression. How are we helping each other out to build up and lead?
 
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Just because I'm new to posting, that doesn't mean I'm new to reading the forum.

I've said my piece. If you want to keep trolling and not discussing the thread topic you can, just now I will keep reporting you until you follow the rules.
Bingo. Of course you're not new to the forum. Just what I and the eleven, yes eleven other members who have warned me what banned poster you are (well there's two guesses going around)

NO WONDER YOU HAVE A HARD ON FOR REYKHEL!!!!!!!

These banned posters have some neck!! If he wasn't such a hypocritical crybaby he wouldn't have brought any attention on himself....

Worthless. Shoo, boy shoo...

As for the thread.....

Birds of a feather flock together.....
 

devilkingx2

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Its not like he became best friends with the guy and started hanging out with him every day and inviting him to house parties. He did one little publicity stunt to look he is giving back. All his real friends are still people on his level.. not homeless people. Celebs do this stuff all the time. Most people are smart enough to see through it.
keanu reeves is known for being a rather nice person, it's not a publicity stunt, he just doesn't have a huge ego.

Your career totally matters. You get your facts from Hollywood movies? No wonder you're having a hard time understanding common sense.
if you think that discussing sports, video games and girls at a bar with your friends or dancing/beer pong/poker at a house party requires you to both make six figures and be an intellectual, then I know you've never left your house.

The lifestyle of a doctor vs. a bus driver is very different.
yes, a doctor has little free time from all their work and doesn't really start making the good money until they're like 30 and in plenty of debt from like 8 years of school

a bus driver has plenty of time for a social life, the lower status job only means that he has to be more charismatic to attract girls and make friends

There is a reason people mostly make friends with people on their level with similar income and similar jobs. They can relate to them better.
that's straight up not true. not on TV, not in real life. where did you get that from?

If I'm a banker and I can make friends with other bankers.. why would I go out of my way to make friends with a cab driver? Sure.. I'll talk to him and shoot the breeze, but I'm not going to ask for his number and start inviting him to house parties when I have higher value friends.
you're assuming that a banker is going to be the one who has time for an active social life full of parties but somehow a cab driver who only works 40 hours of relatively relaxed work won't
 

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Not even 3s and 4s wanted to hang with me. I would have thought that most women were out of my league.

Through my teens and 20s I was considered the weirdo both in personality and looks, and in the same breath they acted morally superior. It did nothing for my outlook on life in general, just being afraid of going out daily, mind full of self-deprecating thoughts, poor focus in work, caught between what my parents would say I was and what it was like on my own. It took me I'd say many years to realise that I was none of the negative criticisms I was given.

The system ought to give men more advice in their early years, the younger the better, with regards to the so-called beauty privilege and sexual attraction, were it not that govts and corporations call the shots.
 
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