Bearing and Posture

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In a conversation, the ladies and I were talking about the importance of body posture in selecting lovers. The essence was that some women select future lovers on their 'bearing and posture'. One of the reasons were masculine men tended to have a more 'military bearing', but people who are alert and aware of their surroundings just seem more interesting. An active and aware body posture would probably indicate an active and aware mind. An upright body posture shows confidence; slumped shoulders show defeat.

And I see for myself how important a woman's poise is for my attraction; not for nothing the majority of the women I've dated are graceful and lithe on their feet, like dancers/yoga/martial artists. A graceless woman plodding around is unattractive to me. And women often comment favourably on my posture and bearing.

How much do you look at someone's body language for attraction?
 

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It’s only one feature. A woman’s personality can detract from any outward physical characteristics. You need to assess the whole package. Which can be hard as a woman’s real personality is often only revealed through their actions over time and in certain situations.

But initially for me the way a woman carries herself is something I look for.
 

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people who are alert and aware of their surroundings just seem more interesting. An active and aware body posture would probably indicate an active and aware mind.
The posture stuff has been talked about a lot, but being alert and aware basically means you are more alive. More fun, energetic, and more healthy. All attractive qualities.
 

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Damn amsterdam got banned why? I liked the guy brought different idea to the plate
and he posted pics of young hot european thots
shame that he got banned
He gets banned every few months? i'm sure he'll be back in a few weeks
Mikedee quietly deleted his account last week. That's a bigger loss to the forum
 

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He gets banned every few months? i'm sure he'll be back in a few weeks
Mikedee quietly deleted his account last week. That's a bigger loss to the forum
Mikedee was going to help me out how to shoot good pictures and stuff to become a better photographer. :(
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New_Journey

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Mods banned him cause some b!tch in the forum got offended, I'm sure. Men in this forum are fvcking puzzies man. It's like a game of who gets offended with less.

Mods should be ashamed themselves for banning people for no reason, cause banning these kinds of members only sabotages this forum, more puzzified memebers will join and if you they feel offense, they go to the mods.

If someone gets offended, then don't come back, this should be the attitude, nobody is responsible for other people's feelings.
 
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