I posted this story in another thread in the General Forum, but I thought it might belong here. I'm here to dismiss the typical DJ Rules. I've been here for over a year. I've studied Doc Love's System before that. I've been through the DYD, Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction, and some of MM. I was (and am) part of a few private seduction forums and have taken Juggler's seminar. Yet here I am, full-circle trying to help you guys so that you don't have to waste a year; and instead could spend maybe 2 months and figure out who YOU are in order to make things work for you.
Lets start here. Attraction is something that you cannot consciously control and manipulate. It happens entirely behind the scenes. When a chick meets you, she will decide if she would EVER fvck you, within the first 5 minutes. IF you survive that window, and she isn't REPULSED by you then you're good to go. A lot of guys mistake that for "Naw, it's not all about looks, chicks love personality". Yes, they do love personality but no of a guy that she can tell you right then and there that she wouldn't fvck no matter what. If you start talking to her, and you are getting bad vibes and can feel there is no chemistry, just eject. The attraction isn't there and there is no trick, or scheme that is goinn to change that. Plus, it's just not worth the effort when there is a chick across the hall that IS into you and is waiting for you to open the conversation.
When you're in, it's just a matter of being real with her, and setting up a circumstance where she is comfortable with having sex with you. The attraction is ALREADY there so don't fvck it up by doing things that are not natural to you. Here is a story:
When I was in Las Vegas last week. I met a girl by the pool. She was laying on a chair, tanning, with 2 of her friends. All that I said to her was "Hi, how old are you?". She answered "19". I said "Oh ok". Then I laid there, and she asked me how old I was. I continued the conversation from there. I didn't "DJ" her. I just had a conversation. I busted on her a little bit but that's just because I said whatever I wanted to say. Not because you guys here told me to say it. When my friend and I was leaving I said "Well lets hang out tonight if you're going to be around, maybe you can meet us in the lobby or something". And she voluntarily gave me her phone number.
I called her at about 10:00 and got her voicemail. I left a message. She called me back at 2: 00am. We met her and her friends down at the lobby. I was excited to see her so I gave her a HUGE hug and picked her up and spun her around. That set the tempo. We were holding hands, and hugging.
We then sat down at Denny's, and I said to her while she was in mid-sentence "Lets get married, tomorrow". She said "Okay!" in an excited voice. You could tell she knew I was teasing but she playing along. So I talked about the wedding, and our honeymoon, and that I have to propose. So we were walking down the strip and we passed by the volcano show in front of The Mirage. I got down on one knee and proposed to her. Her friends took pictures. I was having fun. I didn't care whether she was into me or not, I just did whatever. And was having a ball.
We hit it off very well the entire vacation. She lives in Cali which is across the country but we talk on the phone and e-mail. She had an amazing time and is worried because she caught so many feelings.
The moral to this story is that if I TRIED to "DJ" her I could have ONLY fvcked it up. Instead I was real, I did whatever I wanted, said what I wanted and just enjoyed myself and her company. SHE was into me from the beginning. I didn't follow any rules and she STILL felt the way she did for me. It's not the tactics and you physical behavior guys, it's who YOU are inside. The more real you are with yourself, the more you can evolve yourself NATURALLY, and not through superficial means like some things on this site.
Guys, this is a GOOD thing. You no longer have to be a slave to rules to govern your behavior. You say what you want, when you want and it won't matter. The more you can be real, the more you are radiating the essence of who you are. You can't fake it by 'acting' confident or 'acting' cool, her unconscious isn't looking at that. It's all behind the scenes and it's shyt that you CAN'T manipulate. You are free now, of those rules and regulations. You can rest easy knowing that she likes YOU and not the silly little game you are running.
-Blitz
Lets start here. Attraction is something that you cannot consciously control and manipulate. It happens entirely behind the scenes. When a chick meets you, she will decide if she would EVER fvck you, within the first 5 minutes. IF you survive that window, and she isn't REPULSED by you then you're good to go. A lot of guys mistake that for "Naw, it's not all about looks, chicks love personality". Yes, they do love personality but no of a guy that she can tell you right then and there that she wouldn't fvck no matter what. If you start talking to her, and you are getting bad vibes and can feel there is no chemistry, just eject. The attraction isn't there and there is no trick, or scheme that is goinn to change that. Plus, it's just not worth the effort when there is a chick across the hall that IS into you and is waiting for you to open the conversation.
When you're in, it's just a matter of being real with her, and setting up a circumstance where she is comfortable with having sex with you. The attraction is ALREADY there so don't fvck it up by doing things that are not natural to you. Here is a story:
When I was in Las Vegas last week. I met a girl by the pool. She was laying on a chair, tanning, with 2 of her friends. All that I said to her was "Hi, how old are you?". She answered "19". I said "Oh ok". Then I laid there, and she asked me how old I was. I continued the conversation from there. I didn't "DJ" her. I just had a conversation. I busted on her a little bit but that's just because I said whatever I wanted to say. Not because you guys here told me to say it. When my friend and I was leaving I said "Well lets hang out tonight if you're going to be around, maybe you can meet us in the lobby or something". And she voluntarily gave me her phone number.
I called her at about 10:00 and got her voicemail. I left a message. She called me back at 2: 00am. We met her and her friends down at the lobby. I was excited to see her so I gave her a HUGE hug and picked her up and spun her around. That set the tempo. We were holding hands, and hugging.
We then sat down at Denny's, and I said to her while she was in mid-sentence "Lets get married, tomorrow". She said "Okay!" in an excited voice. You could tell she knew I was teasing but she playing along. So I talked about the wedding, and our honeymoon, and that I have to propose. So we were walking down the strip and we passed by the volcano show in front of The Mirage. I got down on one knee and proposed to her. Her friends took pictures. I was having fun. I didn't care whether she was into me or not, I just did whatever. And was having a ball.
We hit it off very well the entire vacation. She lives in Cali which is across the country but we talk on the phone and e-mail. She had an amazing time and is worried because she caught so many feelings.
The moral to this story is that if I TRIED to "DJ" her I could have ONLY fvcked it up. Instead I was real, I did whatever I wanted, said what I wanted and just enjoyed myself and her company. SHE was into me from the beginning. I didn't follow any rules and she STILL felt the way she did for me. It's not the tactics and you physical behavior guys, it's who YOU are inside. The more real you are with yourself, the more you can evolve yourself NATURALLY, and not through superficial means like some things on this site.
Guys, this is a GOOD thing. You no longer have to be a slave to rules to govern your behavior. You say what you want, when you want and it won't matter. The more you can be real, the more you are radiating the essence of who you are. You can't fake it by 'acting' confident or 'acting' cool, her unconscious isn't looking at that. It's all behind the scenes and it's shyt that you CAN'T manipulate. You are free now, of those rules and regulations. You can rest easy knowing that she likes YOU and not the silly little game you are running.
-Blitz
