Be careful how you treat women

[Jariel]

I recently caught up with an old female friend and was sorry to hear that her fiance was now in prison, serving time for GBH amongst other things. Then she told me what happened and I thought I'd share it with you guys...

Basically, my friend was seeing this complete misogynist loser a few years ago who treated her like sh1t. Back in my AFC days, she'd call me up crying all the time and I'd be her shoulder to cry on (yes, I've learnt now). She told me how he'd force her to go down on him and deep throat, and how she was once sick. He apparently hit her when she refused to have sex and many things that disturbed me. Meanwhile, her boyfriend would brag about this stuff to me and the lads, telling me how he fvcked her so hard she cried etc. I was tempted to give him a beating myself, but I was a wimp and a coward back then.

Basically, he was emotionally abusing and controlling her, using a lot of headgames and exploiting her insecurities so she felt dependent and in love with him. I suppose he was your archetypal jerk figure, and probably a hero to some of the losers on this board.

Anyway, she eventually left him and a year later got involved with another guy. He's really cool, treated her very well, made her very happy and they got engaged. He seemed soppy in the way he treats her sometimes, but he is one tough son of a b1tch and has some very powerful friends.

Well, one night my friend and her fiance were having a little conversation where she happened to talk about her ex- and the way he treated her. I'm not sure how much detail she gave him, but he flipped out and wouldn't let it slide. Even though it was in the past, someone abused the woman he loves and he would pay.

So this guy tracked down her ex- and he and some of his friends threw him in the boot of their car, took him somewhere secluded and pretty much tortured him. I wasn't told everything they did, but it involved literally cutting off his c0ck and balls! Apparently he nearly bled to death as a result so one of the guys rushed him to the hospital, which eventually led to the police investigation and the conviction.

Rather disturbing stuff eh? Though personally I think the guy deserved it. What goes around comes around! May this be a lesson to anyone considering the jerk mentality and thinks that mistreating women is acceptable.

 

[DJDamage]

I She told me how he'd force her to go down on him and deep throat, and how she was once sick. He apparently hit her when she refused to have sex and many things that disturbed me. Meanwhile, her boyfriend would brag about this stuff to me and the lads, telling me how he fvcked her so hard she cried etc. I was tempted to give him a beating myself, but I was a wimp and a coward back then.

You weren't a wimp or a coward but you were smarter back then. The point is that it takes 2 to tango. She choosed to be with this guy and therefore thats that. She was not married to the guy and she could have left him any moment but SHE DIDN'T!!! if you have beaten him up, she would have still ran back to him because in her mind she still loved the guy and he would have treated her the same. If she ain't your mother or sister, don't get involved in other people's business especially when they don't ask from you.

So this guy tracked down her ex- and he and some of his friends threw him in the boot of their car, took him somewhere secluded and pretty much tortured him. I wasn't told everything they did, but it involved literally cutting off his c0ck and balls! Apparently he nearly bled to death as a result so one of the guys rushed him to the hospital, which eventually led to the police investigation and the conviction.

Rather disturbing stuff eh? Though personally I think the guy deserved it

Nobody deserves this. Can you imagine if you break up with some crazy chick and she meets a guy like that and she tells him that same sh1t about you??!! Do you know how many guys get beaten and killed these days because Captain-Save-a-Ho was acting as a mercenary of revenge for them??!!

Bottom line is that : She choose to be with that kinda of guy and if she got out of that relationship then its great, end of story. But for her to get her new Boyfriend all worked up on something that happen in the past and almost have him killed then its much worse then that. This isn't like the movies where black and white is so easy to distinquish and we route for a guy like that to take the law into his hands and beat up the badguys who hurt women. Real life is much more complicated then this.

DJD

 

[Holland]

Yeah, he did deserve that, even though cutting of his **** and balls seems pretty damn sick too me
Another sad example how women can be manupilated by their feelings.
These ideas are not to mess people up, but to make them more fun and challenging. We shouldn't lose sight of that.

But I would never turn into someone like that, since I used to be an AFC and yes, I've still got some of those beliefs rooted deep within me
Never forget where you came from

 

[italostud]

Are you a fycking moron? The guy deserved to be castrated? You're fycking crazy. And yes, this is just another example of an over-zealous captain save-a-hoe. Let this be a lesson though, if someone attacks you and tries to force you to get into their car/van whatever, don't do it. Fight until the death before you let them take you anywhere, because it never ends pretty.

BTW, for some reason I don't believe this story. You have any links to reputed news sources?

 

[Julian]

ok so maybe im missing something but the guy who treats his woman like a ho is worse then the guy who tracks down and tortures people brutally? LOL

crazy world we live in yo

 

[MrS]

sounds like a cool story.
shame about the conviction, just dump him at the hospital I would have thought.

 

[DJDamage]

Yeah, he did deserve that, even though cutting of his **** and balls seems pretty damn sick too me

So now everyone that feels vindicated is allowed to take the law into their hands??!! In the eyes of the law, they couldn't arrest her ex because she never filed charges. If she would go in front of a judge he would ask her:

Judge: Did you ever call the cops when you were abused?

Her: No I did not.

Judge: Did you leave him after the alleged abused?

Her: No I did not.

Judge: So you went back to him despite the abuse and never called the cops?? I find that hard to believe, Case dismissed.

Another sad example how women can be manupilated by their feelings.

How about women manupilate facts to get emotional support. This is a typical case of a drama queen who loves chasing guys who cause her drama and when it all ends she feels like a victim and gets attention and support from everyone.

Assume everything you did to a woman was true and after you dumped her, she will take everything you did and multiply that to the power of 10 and then spill it all to her friends. I would love to be a fly on the wall when I break up with a woman so I could hear her make sh1t about me so she could feel good about herself and get support from her friends.

DJD

 

[Jariel]

I don't have any sources, so it's just hear say from my friend. She probably exaggerated, but I admit the story really perked me up! I remember feeling sick when I'd hear how he treated her and feeling that there was no justice in the world.

Logically she did have the choice to leave him and not put up with the abuse, but I'm sure most guys here know what it's like to have oneitis, no confidence and to keep chasing women who are bad for you. It doesn't matter what people tell you, you still go against reason and follow your heart. Women are far more susceptable to this, and one day a guy can be abusive and the next he can be telling her he loves her, apologises and makes her feel great.

Even so, it doesn't really matter to me if her fiance is a "captain save a ho" or not, I admit I am a big advocate of vigilante justice. Regardless whether the victim is male, female, young, old or whether the crime is legal or illegal, I like to think that the perpetrator will pay for what they did.

All choices have consequences and if you choose to mistreat another person, any consequence is your own fault...even if it's as extreme as having your balls removed! The fiance got jailed, and that's the consequence of his actions, but the law would not have stepped in to defend or avenge the girl who was abused.

 

[dannowillbookem]

im on the side of the guy who was castrated. i wouldnt do the **** he does or condone it, but christ jesus he's a man and its his business. this dude acts like shes the first woman to get hit or something...it happens all the time. i used to be cruel to my woman i beat her and kept her apart from the things that she loved...and those are fucckin beatles lyrics.

jeez and those facts cant be right, or shes stupid enough to deserve getting all that shiit

 

[Jariel]

How about women manupilate facts to get emotional support. This is a typical case of a drama queen who loves chasing guys who cause her drama and when it all ends she feels like a victim and gets attention and support from everyone.

True, a lot of women are exactly like this. I know plenty of them. But you shouldn't let the sins of those women poison your thoughts against all women. Every case is individual and I would definitely not put this girl into that category.

 

[Silverback82]

Apparently he nearly bled to death as a result so one of the guys rushed him to the hospital, which eventually led to the police investigation and the conviction.

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lol you mean to tell me one guy actually helped cut off his genitals, felt sorry for him and rushed him to he hospital?

smells like bull****

it's the girls fault for staying with a worthless prick like him, I don't care if she has insecurities or emotional problems she's just another girl that is bored around a nice respectful decent guy so she needs the "bad boy" that craps on her to make her feel alive

she deserves no sympathy

her Lorena Bobbit boyfriend is also an idiot

I hope spending many years in jail getting ****ed up the ass by your cellmate is worth it for another dime a dozen ****ed up chick

 

[Jariel]

lol you mean to tell me one guy actually helped cut off his genitals, felt sorry for him and rushed him to he hospital?

No, I don't think he felt sorry for him. He just didn't want to be convicted for murder.

The thing is, how many of you would seek revenge if you mother or sister had been abused? I know I would, and as long as I got justice, I'd face my prison sentence. I've never been engaged, but I imagine he must love her on the same level as his mum or sister.

 

[Silverback82]

No, I don't think he felt sorry for him. He just didn't want to be convicted for murder.

The thing is, how many of you would seek revenge if you mother or sister had been abused? I know I would, and as long as I got justice, I'd face my prison sentence. I've never been engaged, but I imagine he must love her on the same level as his mum or sister.

haha that shows how stupid they are not realizing that if you got off a body part you could bleed to death

that never occured to him before he committed the stupid act:crazy:

and no I would not go to jail for attempted murder (20 years to life), kidnapping (possible 25 years), aggravated assualt (5-20 years) over my mother or sister being stupid enough to stay in that kind of relationship

why throw away your life over someone elses stupidity?

 

[doctoroxygen]

I think it's interesting how most people here are laying the blame for this squarely at the woman's feet. There's "Captain Save-a-Ho" and then there's the 180 ideological reverse. Both indicate cluelessness about male-female dynamics, and neither one is where you want to be.

Fvcked-up story, though. Sometimes I get like that, though I've never made any eunuchs.

 

[tigre]

let me get this straight. they torture the ex, cut his d1ck off etc. and then take him to the hospital??! WTF!? those mafia-wannabee fags deserve to go to jail if they were stupid enought to take him back to the hospital, they would have just killed him and left.

 

[Jariel]

Just to clarify, I don't agree with what these guys did and think they were foolish and overreacted. Now, this girl has her fiance in jail and will probably end up with another jerk. This was just an example that these lunatics do exist and will take extreme measures for people they love. So think twice before you decide to act the jerk to get women.

That said, I still love hearing tales of vigilante justice even if they are moronic and extreme. I don't believe in god and have no faith in the judicial system, so it's good to know there are people who put karma into effect.

This also brings to mind an incident last year when a class mate of mine was beaten up and mugged by a gang of youths. They gave him cheek from a passing car, he showed them his middle finger and they got out and beat him into a coma. The guy was terrified to leave the house for months after and when I saw him in class, he was shaking and constantly looking over his shoulder. The case went to court, one of the guys was convicted for 2 years and the others got away with a warning. A few months later, those guys got jumped and beaten up too, and one of them was sprayed in the face with spray paint and permanently blinded.

My mate claims he never had anything to do with it (which is a good legal stance if nothing else), but damn that felt satisfying to hear!

What can I say, I live in a rough area where this stuff isn't unusual.

 

[A-Unit]

Re:

Every guy has a different feeling on this, but having been put in similar situations (not losing my balls), I know what women can and will do.

My own girl now wasn't molested, but her X did try *ish. She was playing it like he was an old friend, like there was nothing, which I'm fine with. She's either loyal to me, or I'm out. If I catch a sniff of infidelity, I'm done. I don't want or need evidence or begging, just my gut feelings. And I'd told her time and time again, that most guys, esp X's, don't want and can't handle friendships. They only use that as a mechanism to get back in. Suffice it to say, I let everyone play their "evolution" out, no matter how dumb it is, because THEY need to learn. So I let her do her thing, he stops by, and sure enough, he tries to lay down some kisses. Now, I told her this ahead of time, so i didn't care, nor did I feel bad. I told her, if any sort of infidelities happened, I'd be through, so it's her choice. He got nothing out of it, and I spoke to him personally, but I ended it there. SHE, she was dumb enough to think he could be a friend and could be decent. I wanted her to see that.

And time and time again, I see the same thing. A girl wants her cake AND to eat it, too. She wants to take risk without ANY side effects or consequences, even though women are as likely to be wisked away on their emotional rollercoaster as men, esp. because of their highly emotional natures. Any guy who retalitiates BASED on heresay is a FOOL. What happened in her past IS HER PAST. Before her. Before you. Don't get wrapped up in that. It doesn't matter; you weren't there. You can't judge. Sure, you might love, but vigilante justice has no place unless you're the victimized fool, placed in jail for years like the Count of Monte Cristo and you can't enact revenge that day. What's the statute of limitations for such foolish?

Were this true, a host of men would wind up dead for any guys' transgressions, since most women's PERCEPTION of a situation is WAY OFF. She might begin her argument about you and how you like your friends more than her. And then your frustration mounts, she cries, and now it's about how you're an AHOLE, and not about the initial discussion.

Were it my cousin, or mother, or sister (if I had one), what would I do? I don't know. I would hope they'd come when it happened. And I would go through the normal course of action. Him going to jail for killing someone, foolishly, only prolongs her pain, since now she's an abuse victim AND dealing with a fiance in prison. Smart. Now what? Put life on hold?

This might be case for illustrative purposes, but still. Think before emotions run the gammit.



A-Unit

 

[( . )( . )]

I'm in a hurry so I only have 5 flaws in this story to highlight.

1. Your going by what a chick SAYS.

2. I see no proof the guy was a "mysogynist"

3. He deserved to be castrated? Are you an angry lesbian or something?

4. Jariel is the author.

5. And this ones just for me, your a fvckin idiot.

 

[Jariel]

I'm in a hurry so I only have 5 flaws in this story to highlight.

1. Your going by what a chick SAYS.

2. I see no proof the guy was a "mysogynist"

3. He deserved to be castrated? Are you an angry lesbian or something?

4. Jariel is the author.

5. And this ones just for me, your a fvckin idiot.

I knew this would be perfect bait for you!

But you can totally disregard my opinion on this. I don't intend to castrate anyone (I hate the sight of blood and male genitals), but there are psychos who will based purely on a girl's word, so the warning stands!

 

[Marlimus]

I don't see enough justification for genital mutilation.