Here are some quotes that back up what I said about men accusing the female of lying or deserving......
"The fact that this girl attracted a guy who would do such a thing says a lot about her, no?"
"The point is that it takes 2 to tango. She choosed to be with this guy and therefore thats that."
"jeez and those facts cant be right, or shes stupid enough to deserve getting all that shiit"
"it's the girls fault for staying with a worthless prick like him, I don't care if she has insecurities or emotional problems"
"She's apparantly one of those, well, idiotic women who make the conscious decision to stay with such an assh0le, so it's as much her fault that all of that happened to her as it is his."
"The "bad guy" hurt the women, its the women's problem, she should of done something about it."
No apology is necessary because I never accused YOU of saying she deserved it. I referred to you as a "jaded fatty" and unless you prove otherwise, I'll hold back on that apology.