Banging a girl at the same time as another dude

[Zarky]

Lots of dramatic dudes in this thread.

Fact is, as long as she took a shower between the other guy and you, what do you care? I certainly don't give a rat's as*. I've banged two chicks in one day. I've banged three chicks in two days. And I'm sure I've banged chicks who have, within the previous 24 hours, banged some other dude. One chick I screwed said she banged 7 guys in 7 days.

We all do it at some point in our lives. Calm down and get over yourself.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

Lots of dramatic dudes in this thread.

Fact is, as long as she took a shower between the other guy and you, what do you care? I certainly don't give a rat's as*. I've banged two chicks in one day. I've banged three chicks in two days. And I'm sure I've banged chicks who have, within the previous 24 hours, banged some other dude. One chick I screwed said she banged 7 guys in 7 days.

We all do it at some point in our lives. Calm down and get over yourself.

Finally some solid advice. Thanks, man. You're right...I guess as long as she took a shower it's fine. After all, it's her husband anyway. Not some random dude she met at the club.

 

[Warrior74]

1) The guy's a piece of garbage. He's put her through extensive emotional and physical abuse during the course of their marriage. It makes it difficult to feel bad about taking a woman from a guy like that. But hey, maybe you guys think it's cool to hit women...I don't know. Whoever suggested that I find bush that is single is definitely right, but the only problem is that I'm a WWWWWWWBAFC and rarely come across potential tail (2 chicks a year usually.) Any girl that shows interest initially loses it very quickly once they realize that I have no confidence and do not portray the dominant, masculine area that they are evolutionarily predestined to be attracted to. So in short, I have to take any opportunity I can get in order to bust the metaphorical nut. Yes, I take some pleasure in instilling a desire in a woman to the point where she will risk her marriage in order to bone down, but I would obviously rather get a single girl that isn't being f'ucked by another guy...if I had that ability.

This is not my concern, though. My question is how do you best deal with nearly ASSURED day-old sloppy seconds. Yes, it's not as bad as having sex with her on the same day as another guy but the fact remains that she will have had sex with another guy very recently. Is there anything I can tell myself to feel better about this? Any tricks to forget about it?

According to my ex I hit her and cheated on her and stole her money. How do you know what that guy is? Did you see a police report? Bruises? Watched him do it? Or do you only know what some bytch told you?

So you admit your a pathetic AFC with women who has to take what he can get. It's good that you can admit that to yourself. Now it's time to do something about it. How does a guiy who is not an AFC act around women who are taken? How does a guy with several women in his rotation act around married women? Maybe he's getting so much drama free poon that he doesn't need to deal with married women. Maybe you should start acting like that.

As for how to deal with it. Suck it up buttercup. If she's well rode when you got her, you knew what you were in for when you signed up for this tour of duty. All you can do is make sure she's clean. Good luck.

 

[The Piano Master]

Here we go again. To the OP....your user name says it all when it comes to the husband....Just A Shot Away. All you care about is poon, without regard to anything else. Just gonna tell you, yer doing a woman who is married and while her husband is overseas in the military protecting your freedom? That's lower than a snakes azz in a wagon rut. You may just get what's comin to you. I hope you are smart enough to let her go and find a SINGLE woman.

Pretty much says it all.

 

[Razor Sharp]

I've tried to come up with ways for her to get out of it

Why should you care if she f*cks her husband? Clearly this is not LTR material so why are you trying to lock her down? It doesn't add up.

Maybe you should consider not having any emotional investments in someone who is already in engaged in the act of cheating? And perhaps your reaction to the situation does not match the common sense one for a seasoned adulterer, which would be to keep that trick on tap as a booty call and get some other hoes in the rotation (then pray that none of their husbands are well armed.. oh wait.. DAMN).

Seriously JASA, a wife banger worth his salt would know how to put a b*tch in her place. A piece of ass is often just that. Instead you're catching feelings for a branch-swinging skeezer, and somehow expect her to change what she is... for YOU?

:crackup:

You got me crying over here! How could you be making such an elementary mistake?

It's Suavology 101, mate:

Don't expect a hoe to be a housewife (or vice versa).

It NEVER works out well for anyone involved.

A woman is what she is. No matter how great your "frame" you still have to take her actions and choices in stock, and that's out of your control. Realize who you are dealing with and you can respond appropriately.

As for this one, just be a man about it and let her get GI-Joe's nut off. Dude f*cking earned it defending your country, and ummm he's her HUSBAND.

Some more thoughts for you to digest:

Even if things did pan out for you and he disappeared, you will never rest easy knowing what a selfish and disloyal person is at your side. Remember to keep perspective of how people treat their "loved" ones, it's a pretty good preview of what's in store for you.

Do not cast pearls before swine nor holy things to the dogs.

Your heart is a holy thing - protect its sacredness with solid discernment of whose hands you decide to put it into.

FWIW, You should probably double-wrap your genitals too. Lord knows what kinda action that box has seen.

 

[Igetit!]

You know, I almost put in the disclaimer of "no lame jokes" and "no moral judgment replies please", but I figured that would go without saying...

Well you might as well get used to that.

Anytime someone makes a thread about sleeping with another man's wife they're going to get some flack over it because most guys would put theirselves in the married guy's position,not to mention the fact that this guy was out risking his life in the military trying to make this a safer country.

1) The guy's a piece of garbage.

Yeah,so what if he is? What's that to you?

You say he's a piece of garbage. Well she's an adultress.

So now what?


He may be garbage,but she intentionally,ON PURPOSE,of her own FREE WILL chose to walk down the aisle with that "garbage".

So if him "being garbage" and supposedly "putting her through extensive emotional and physical abuse" isn't enough to make her leave the marriage,then what do you care?


She belongs to HIM by her choice.

It makes it difficult to feel bad about taking a woman from a guy like that.

Don't deceive yourself.

Having sex with a woman and "TAKING HER" from her man are two different things.


If this "relationship" between you and her has been going on for a while (a couple of months),then it's doubtful that you're going to "take her" from her husband. She's just doing the same thing ALL WOMEN DO in situations like this:she's getting her needs met from two different men.

Whoever suggested that I find bush that is single is definitely right, but the only problem is that I'm a WWWWWWWBAFC and rarely come across potential tail (2 chicks a year usually.) Any girl that shows interest initially loses it very quickly once they realize that I have no confidence and do not portray the dominant, masculine area that they are evolutionarily predestined to be attracted to.

If what you say is true about yourself,that stuff about having no confidence,not being dominant,not being masculine,etc,then what makes you think you're "taking" this girl from her husband?


You think she'd want to leave her military man for that?

If a man is strong and masculine,and ALSO a jerk,his jerkiness don't cancel out his masculine traits. Or in other words,him being a jerk won't kill the attraction a woman feels for him.

So in short, I have to take any opportunity I can get in order to bust the metaphorical nut.

Although I'm not into sleeping with other mens' wives,I DO understand what you mean here.

I "get" what you're saying here.

Yes, I take some pleasure in instilling a desire in a woman to the point where she will risk her marriage in order to bone down

I also understand what you're saying here as well. Don't agree with it,but I understand it.


This should make you feel good. If you can create this type of desire in one woman,then you can do it in another. Don't start thinking that you're Adam and she's Eve,and unless you make it work with her,that's there's no other women on the planet to pursue.

but I would obviously rather get a single girl that isn't being f'ucked by another guy...if I had that ability.

You do have that ability. You're sleeping with another man's wife,aren't you?

No, I cannot be sure if I'm already getting sloppy seconds.

You are.

Any woman who's not a virgin can be considered "sloppy seconds",and calling her "seconds" is being generous.

My question is how do you best deal with nearly ASSURED day-old sloppy seconds.

Beats me dude. I mean it's not like this is some random dude,this is her HUSBAND,the man she's bound to by LAW.



I'm sure somebody can come up with something for you to do.

 

[perseverance]

I think this thread has been made purely to a) cause some form of controversy, b) attention seek.

Sleeping with the wife or girlfriend of a man away on tour in Afghanistan and Iraq is hardly worth boasting about.

It makes you look like a moron on all accounts.

 

[1 Bad Dude]

What do you think you're doing if you take a women home from a club you just met. There is no stamp on her that certifies her d!ck free for a certain amount of time. For all you know, she was taken home by someone else the night before. Hell, the husband could be getting the mail mans sloppy seconds. What does that make your turn. If two guys can share a chick in a threesome. Sticking their d!ck in .875 seconds after the other guy pulls out. Then a couple of hours ain't gonna make it any less pleasurable for you. Get yours.

edit: And furthermore. Every girl you meet above twenty will have someone regularly servicing her pvssy. Or at least someone she can call in a bind. You are eventually gonna be someone's sloppy seconds. Especially in the beginning of all relationships.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

1. I don't believe you're a WBAFC.
2. I agree with the guys that have said you're probably not even 2nds. Maybe 3rds, 4ths or 5ths. Considering how low she is. Domestic violence isn't a get-out-of-jail free card to cheat on the guy. Why not tell him the deal or get the hell out of there, theres no sympathy for me on that part. I'd do her in only with little effort put in on my behalf.
3. Just fclose motherfvcker.

 

[Veridin]

So I recently became involved with a married chick, and a situation that I really haven't had to face has arisen. Her husband has been away for a few months (military), but he's coming back tomorrow (Thursday). Obviously they are almost guaranteed to have sex, and she is flying out to see me the next day. She tried to time it so she could come see me before he gets back but he came back early and it looks like I'm either going to have to get this dude's day-old sloppy seconds or not have sex with her when we meet up.

I've tried to come up with ways for her to get out of it, but she says she feels "obligated" to have sex with him when he gets back since he's her husband. Anyway, if anybody has any ideas of how she can get out of it or relate how I can deal with my disgust of sleeping with a girl that just got railed the day prior I would like to hear it. Usually this would disgust me to the point where I wouldn't even bother, but...this chick is kinda hot and I won't see her again for a few months.

You want ideas on how to make a woman not have sex with her husband? Seriously? You made your bed, now sleep in it. Or don't. And by the way, you are ALREADY getting his "sloppy seconds." And if that is how you think of a woman, then you have issues.

And for those who got political in this thread: invading poor countries on another continent based on charges that even the former Secretary of State Colin Powell has publicly admitted were false, after having bombed the bridges, water refineries and power plants in one of those countries on average once a week for twelve years first, is not "defending your freedom." Paul Wolfowitz, Deputy Secretary of Defense, was the one who planned and gathered support for the invasion of Iraq, and he had been calling for such an invasion since the mid-1990s, because Iraq was giving funding to Palestinian resistance groups. It had nothing to do with your freedom. Don't insert such comments in a thread that shouldn't be about foreign policy.

1) The guy's a piece of garbage. He's put her through extensive emotional and physical abuse during the course of their marriage. It makes it difficult to feel bad about taking a woman from a guy like that. But hey, maybe you guys think it's cool to hit women...I don't know.

Yes, that must be it: people reply negatively to a thread about having sex with another man's wife because they think it's cool to hit women. That's logic straight as an arrow.

Any girl that shows interest initially loses it very quickly once they realize that I have no confidence and do not portray the dominant, masculine area that they are evolutionarily predestined to be attracted to. So in short, I have to take any opportunity I can get in order to bust the metaphorical nut. Yes, I take some pleasure in instilling a desire in a woman to the point where she will risk her marriage in order to bone down, but I would obviously rather get a single girl that isn't being f'ucked by another guy...if I had that ability.

Now that's just sad.

 

[The Piano Master]

Well you might as well get used to that.

Anytime someone makes a thread about sleeping with another man's wife they're going to get some flack over it because most guys would put theirselves in the married guy's position,not to mention the fact that this guy was out risking his life in the military trying to make this a safer country.


Yeah,so what if he is? What's that to you?

You say he's a piece of garbage. Well she's an adultress.

So now what?


He may be garbage,but she intentionally,ON PURPOSE,of her own FREE WILL chose to walk down the aisle with that "garbage".

So if him "being garbage" and supposedly "putting her through extensive emotional and physical abuse" isn't enough to make her leave the marriage,then what do you care?


She belongs to HIM by her choice.






Don't deceive yourself.

Having sex with a woman and "TAKING HER" from her man are two different things.


If this "relationship" between you and her has been going on for a while (a couple of months),then it's doubtful that you're going to "take her" from her husband. She's just doing the same thing ALL WOMEN DO in situations like this:she's getting her needs met from two different men.



If what you say is true about yourself,that stuff about having no confidence,not being dominant,not being masculine,etc,then what makes you think you're "taking" this girl from her husband?


You think she'd want to leave her military man for that?

If a man is strong and masculine,and ALSO a jerk,his jerkiness don't cancel out his masculine traits. Or in other words,him being a jerk won't kill the attraction a woman feels for him.


Although I'm not into sleeping with other mens' wives,I DO understand what you mean here.

I "get" what you're saying here.

I also understand what you're saying here as well. Don't agree with it,but I understand it.


This should make you feel good. If you can create this type of desire in one woman,then you can do it in another. Don't start thinking that you're Adam and she's Eve,and unless you make it work with her,that's there's no other women on the planet to pursue.




You do have that ability. You're sleeping with another man's wife,aren't you?


You are.

Any woman who's not a virgin can be considered "sloppy seconds",and calling her "seconds" is being generous.




Beats me dude. I mean it's not like this is some random dude,this is her HUSBAND,the man she's bound to by LAW.



I'm sure somebody can come up with something for you to do.

Wow. I've never seen one poster just absolutely cut up an argument like that. You just murdered his whole thread.

+50,000 Points

 

[Falcon25]

This fuvking jerkoff Just a Shot away has been nothing but a dumb ass with his posts. This takes the top prize as far as being stupid post of the year. Just hope that he doesn't kill you. You just asked us how you can get a married woman to not sleep with her HUSBAND. You need serious help.

 

[Falcon25]

I banged a married girl for one month. I WOULD NEVER DO IT AGAIN. It's not worth it. It is not ok and you will always lose. She is playing you like a fiddle. I always knew you were a jerk off because you never really read my posts and talked about facial symetry. If he finds out about you, he could kill you. Crimes of passion happen all the time. Go find your own woman, you silly little boy. You won't see it coming. One day he will just come after you, nothing is more dangerous than a man who has nothing to lose.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

Thanks for the (valid) responses, guys. You know who you are.

There was a couple of misunderstandings about this situation, I believe. I currently do not have emotional attachment to this woman. At this point in my life I do not relate to women as human beings and therefore have trouble establishing any connection whatsoever. I have no intention of literally "taking" this woman from her husband, although if I could I doubt it would be a problem. She's already admitted to have fallen in love with me, and like I said...is flying halfway across the country to spend the weekend with me in a few days. Nobody is playing me.

Also, someone said something about "boasting" about banging a married broad. Well, if you had read my post you would know that I would PREFER banging a single woman, and that this married girl has posed a problem in that she's going to sleep with another guy right before I do. Nothing to boast about there.

Falcon25, I'm sorry that you still are filled with so much anger and hate...especially since it's all based on a swirl of confusion and misunderstandings in your head. I did read your posts. You said looks matter. Well, you're wrong. My knowledge of science does not make me a "fvcking jerkoff." But hey, it's a free country. Spout infantile personal attacks all day long if it makes you happy, but if you don't have any advice for this dilemma...you're more than welcome to run along, especially if you are unable to retain a cool and collected manner of imparting your views.


She's avoided the sex for the first day, I just have one more day to make it through. I don't know if she'll be able to do it, but I've resolved to just try to keep my mind off of it and I'm not going to eat her out if she fails. As long as I use a condom I think I can handle it, but the thought of getting oral herpes because I licked a chick's snatch that just had a diseased philandering husband's throbbing member all up in there FAR outweighs the pleasure I would get from a good ol' fashioned 69 session. Thanks for the input.

 

[Kailex]

Since apparently reading comprehension is beyond you unless I'm talking about symmetrical faces:

Um, you honestly think you are the only guy she's been railing?

Here's something that'll truly bake your noodle, but how can you possibly guarantee that you already haven't been been fed sloppy seconds?

You can't possibly be the FIRST guy she's ever had sex with.

Read this again.
Now realize that your problem is mental.

All you know is that ONE guy who is her husband, but you don't know about the other guys she might have had on the side before her. You're talking about not going down on her because her husband was philandering and what not, but what guarantee is there that she doesn't ALREADY have something from someone previous to HIM or to YOU? You have absolutely no guarantee.

Also, you are taking the word of a woman who CHEATS ON HER HUSBAND.

How can you believe everything she says?? Of course she's going to tell you that the guy is a piece of garbage, but what does that say ABOUT HER. She's the one who CHOSE to marry the guy, she's the one who is STILL married to the guy. So if he's low quality, what does that make her?

And if he is more than willing to lie to him about infidelity, what makes you so sure that she is being honest with you about when she's having sex with him? She's a LIAR, which means that even when you think you aren't getting sloppy seconds, you most likely are.

How can you take the word of a woman who lies to her husband?

I'm not sure you said anything about "spinning plates" but it seems you aren't, because if you were, as soon as the husband touched down... you would have been out banging other women, but since you probably aren't you seem really concerned for your primary and only source of sex.




And to finally answer your one true question:

My question is how do you best deal with nearly ASSURED day-old sloppy seconds. Yes, it's not as bad as having sex with her on the same day as another guy but the fact remains that she will have had sex with another guy very recently. Is there anything I can tell myself to feel better about this? Any tricks to forget about it?

I don't deal with it.
I don't think about it.
I don't waste my time on it.

You probably already dealt with sloppy seconds a week before and you don't even know it.

 

[todays_news]

I think if your as lacking in confidence as you say you are, then deep down ragging a military man's wife is actually a massive psychological boost for you. Whilst I agree with the others that say what you are doing is fundamentally wrong, this must boost your confidence. As for somebody who has low confidence and rarely sleeps with women, you must be loving it even if you wont admit it.

To be honest, theres loads of elaborate answers on here about preventing her from sleeping with her husband... but its not likely in any case. However, something that'll make it a lot more likely is to simply be a better fvck than him.

And what she tells you about abuse, I would take with a fistful of salt. If you havent learned morals, then from this forum you must have learned women are not to be trusted entirely. Particularly on exes. She sounds like a slvt, she sounds like trouble. She sounds like somebody you should cut contact with. She'll probably stop seeing you now that her husbands back. Do the decent thing and end.

My question is how do you best deal with nearly ASSURED day-old sloppy seconds. Yes, it's not as bad as having sex with her on the same day as another guy but the fact remains that she will have had sex with another guy very recently. Is there anything I can tell myself to feel better about this? Any tricks to forget about it?

For somebody with such low confidence and such little value for themselves, and such a lack of respect you should get over yourself. Girls having sex with a guy recently before somebody else is nothing new, your a tool.

 

[DangNammit]

JASA -If you are serious, you are asking all the wrong questions.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

You're talking about not going down on her because her husband was philandering and what not, but what guarantee is there that she doesn't ALREADY have something from someone previous to HIM or to YOU? You have absolutely no guarantee.

You're right, there are no guarantees in relationships that your partner isn't cheating. I can only make an educated guess, and she says that I'm the only guy that she's cheated on with during the four years of marriage. My guess is that she's telling the truth. I can make that judgment because I know her and nobody else here, does. Can I be 100% sure? Of course not. But neither can anybody in any relationship. If everyone just assumed their partner was cheating all the time, how healthy do you think that relationship would be?

Of course she's going to tell you that the guy is a piece of garbage, but what does that say ABOUT HER. She's the one who CHOSE to marry the guy, she's the one who is STILL married to the guy. So if he's low quality, what does that make her?

Apparently he wasn't too bad when they first got married. I've also asked why she doesn't leave him, and she says the only thing stopping her is for the sake of the child they have together. Seems legitimate to me.

She's a LIAR, which means that even when you think you aren't getting sloppy seconds, you most likely are.

I think tomorrow will be the first time I am, since he's been away for the past 2 months. But again, she could be banging everybody in her class like people have been insinuating. However, I highly doubt it based on several factors.

... you would have been out banging other women, but since you probably aren't you seem really concerned for your primary and only source of sex.

Yes, I'm very concerned. I admitted that already. And you're right, I'm not spinning plates. That's above my current level right now. So until I am at that level, I see nothing wrong with trying to maintain the sanctity of my bush.

As for somebody who has low confidence and rarely sleeps with women, you must be loving it even if you wont admit it.

I already admitted that. I DO derive a sense of pleasure from having a married woman break her vows and make an exception just for me. I'm not going to try and deny that.

She'll probably stop seeing you now that her husbands back. Do the decent thing and end.

Not likely. Her plane ticket is non-refundable...I doubt she's going to stay with a guy she hates and doesn't satisfy her for $300-400 when she could come here with a guy who she claims to be in love with and can't stop talking about how she is looking forward to getting f.ucked "as hard as I can." After this excursion, she leaves the country for 2 months so I'll have plenty of time to think about what comes next.

For somebody with such low confidence and such little value for themselves, and such a lack of respect you should get over yourself. Girls having sex with a guy recently before somebody else is nothing new, your a tool.

I agree completely. I've been trying to do this for years. It's a big reason that I can't even function in social situations with girls around and can't be myself if I'm ever in a situation where the mating sequence is expected to take place. What exactly do you mean "get over yourself" though? People tell me this a lot and I never really know what they are specifically talking about.

JASA -If you are serious, you are asking all the wrong questions.

So what are the right ones?

 

[5string]

Shot...Now to each his own. Do as you wish. You asked for advice/opinions here and you have been getting them. In my book, a woman who will cheat on her husband is low quality trash and not even worth your time. Basically, you are nothing more than the male version of a "home wrecker". Not something I would be proud of anyway. And what is this sh!t in your post that you derive pleasure from having a married woman break her vows for you? That's some pretty sick thinking. I have been around. I have seen what these liasons can do to a marriage, family and children. It's never good. And all because some guy does a gal who offers it up on a silver platter. Please update this thread after Private Pyle beats you within an inch of your life and let us know how your recovery is going. As one of the other guys said above, be very fearful of a man who has been disrepspected and has nothing to lose.

 

[Razor Sharp]

I wouldn't be so quick to judge JASA on those grounds. It's human nature to get off on things that are taboo. The type of stuff that we aren't supposed to be doing are often what excite us the most. We just all have varied perspectives on where the line of morality is drawn. Some guys get off on threesomes - others like to get the family dog in on the action. That's just how it is.

Really, considering the sheer magnitude of sickness and perversion out there, sleeping with a married woman is pretty low on the sick scale. At least she's of his own species, and has a pulse. You guys need to relax - the more you impose your morals - the more you distance yourself from the people you are trying to reach.

If you are gonna judge him, at least do it for the right reasons - namely not having enough options to develop standards/qualifications for the company he keeps, along with not having enough belief in himself to attain better results.

In my experience, the only way to teach someone anything is to give them information that is meaningful and applicable. Keep that in mind before you start casting stones.

@JASA

I would personally not hit married ass, but if it was me, I'd definitely distance myself some and not be so readily available - make her work around YOUR schedule. Women can sense when you are at their beck and call, and it's usually one of the first things to kill attraction. This girl knows she messed up and the situation is not cool for you - right now she is watching just how much you put up with, and how far you can be strung along. Much like a child she tests your boundaries, and she won't stop until she finds them

Some practical advice?

Go chill with your boys. Do some fun sh*t without the intention of getting laid, give your mind some time to gain perspective. Meet future prospects. LJBF a few hotties and build a stable of orbiters. Take them with you on outings and women will approach YOU.