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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

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Well, I don't doubt you've got some social cred and stuff... maybe this is a western broad thing but free lunches will always cost you something in the end.
I mean I’ve worried about that myself but so far I’m ok. Should definitely get tested after two weeks here tho.

mad for the free lunches, it’s just my vibe and form of game. I genuinely do not care if I get laid with these girls or not so I have that edge.
 

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I mean I’ve worried about that myself but so far I’m ok. Should definitely get tested after two weeks here tho.

mad for the free lunches, it’s just my vibe and form of game. I genuinely do not care if I get laid with these girls or not so I have that edge.
I understand that man, but usually when a girl is tossing ***** out, theres a reason behind it. Chicks with any class don't just offer themselves up on a platter. That would be a major red flag for me. I mean you gotta look out for your own health, herpes, aids and hep c are forever. Condoms aren't forcefields, you've gotta be choosey.
 

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I understand that man, but usually when a girl is tossing ***** out, theres a reason behind it. Chicks with any class don't just offer themselves up on a platter. That would be a major red flag for me.
I think you may have some limiting beliefs there. I been with nothing but these types of girls. So far so good.
 

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Out of curiousity, how dangerous would you rate your job?
I’m unemployed. Although I used to do door to door lead generation. And before that I was a home framer.
 
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Maybe because you don't care and have the edge, you are projecting yourself as a man of value, and the females can't help but drop their panties.... Not because they're all infected slvts. Others on here espouse first date lays as a normal thing. I wouldn't be too worried.
Yes I agree. I’ve been a risk taker in my life. That definitely helps
 

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****, currently talking with a cute 22 y.o. Who wants me to use and abuse her as she figures out what she’s looking for with regards to dating. She said she’d pay for the hotel room whenever we meet. Damn.
 

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Went to another girl's house tonight. This time when I realized she was a fatty I just accepted it. No boner and I was out of there in 15 mins. I don't believe in being mean to girls unless it's a kink so I chatted with her a bit. Didn't even tell her I wasn't feeling it. Just said I was tired and we'd have to reschedule.

It feels good having higher standards. Tho I do feel like I'm in limbo now. Can't get hard with the fit girls, can't get hard with the fatties. Maybe I just haven't found my "type" yet. I dunno.

I think it'll just take time. Over time I will see I can get fit girls and I'll ease into it without the anxiety that kills boners.

At least, that's my hope.


One thing is for sure tho: from now on, definitely, ALWAYS gonna be meeting the girls beforehand for a "date" to see if I like them before pitching sex. It'll show I have options which will increase attraction too.
 

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Can't get hard with the fit girls, can't get hard with the fatties. Maybe I just haven't found my "type" yet. I dunno.
It sounds to me that you are tying to force it before you become comfortable with a girl. I think taking more time in your case before sex happens might improve the quality of sex. Part of that comfort will be finding someone that you're compatible with and not just someone with a hole you can stick it in. My $.02
 

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It sounds to me that you are tying to force it before you become comfortable with a girl. I think taking more time in your case before sex happens might improve the quality of sex. Part of that comfort will be finding someone that you're compatible with and not just someone with a hole you can stick it in. My $.02
Oh for sure. Unfortunately this is is exactly what I did in my early life and what contributed to my celibacy.
 

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Don't sweat it, I do this too all my friends and EVERYONE falls for it. :D

One of my friends was almost frothing at the mouth, he watched it a couple times on the big screen, couldn't understand why my wife and I were ROFL.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Don't sweat it, I do this too all my friends and EVERYONE falls for it. :D

One of my friends was almost frothing at the mouth, he watched it a couple times on the big screen, couldn't understand why my wife and I were ROFL.
I don’t mind trannies tbh. But they often have weird personalities.
 

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I don’t mind trannies tbh. But they often have weird personalities.
Well... I think I may have found your issue.


Probably a lot of your circle of women are ugly ASF or maybe trannies are your type.
 

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Well... I think I may have found your issue.


Probably a lot of your circle of women are ugly ASF or maybe trannies are your type.
They not my type. Just like women they gotta be super plastic for me to be turned on. But women turn me on even if they ugly apparently. :/

Is that a tranny in that video tho? She’s cute
Edit: nvm, her body is too big and her Tits too small
 
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Late night ramblings:

so right now I’m getting that “vacuum” feeling I’ve had before where it feels like all my options are gone and I’ll never get a girl again.

this happens quite a bit and no matter how many plates or potential plates I get it seems they all go silent at the same time whether I’ve been in contact with them or not.

it’s like reality is in a loop and each time it resets there is a vacuum before the next bout.

I dunno it’s just odd how it happens. What’s also odd is how when things are clicking I can be needy and even retarded but girls dig it but when the stars aren’t aligned, retarded or smooth it all goes down in flames.

there must be more to this but I do not know what. Ima go to sleep
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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