Lately I've posted my disdain for misogynist threads throughout topics and its great to find another male poster who believes in the same philosophies as me (Fingers)
We all want sex...bad. I hear tales of men who claim that they are satisfied with getting little to no women. I respected them and even was a friend with one of them. Until I went to his house because I gave him rides when his car was shot and it was surprised to see how pornified his PC was. He had no screensaver and had several porn folder directories on his desktop. He wasn't a man who was satisfied; he just repressed his sexuality to the point where he no longer felt like he needed it. I won't be too shocked if he mutates into a child molester or a rapist because his sexuality has become so twisted, so warped that his sexuality is used maliciously.
All I can say is that beneath the social veneers we wear, everyone is a slut! On the inside we are all pumping and seething with mad hormones that make us want to "be fruitful and multiply"
Yes. True. Of course that doesn't mean we just go and bang girls at random. I've met a lot of alleged sluts on my dorm room floor and come to find out, they don't get nearly as much action as the "good girls"
who get nailed almost daily. Its sad and pathetic to see that we are worshipping a contradictory ideal. I don't know how many times I've heard girls try to say they are virgins when in real life, when in real life they aren't. Then when girls do admit that they've had sex, they pretend that it happened only once or twice when you damn well know its at least 10x that amount.
Why are they living this lie? I mentally shake my head everytime I hear a girl try to play the good girl role. When I do have sex with girls, I keep it so quiet because I know if I say they are a huge slut, they will get mad and leave. Thats why its common fact that college girls are easy. Its been propagated by men and women love it too because it gives them a chance to fulfill their desires without the social flack. I see so many girls have the most pointless degrees at my college. About 3/4 of them have gen ed degrees. The majority of the other 1/4 are taking something ridiculously easy like English and then you got the small sprinklings of what I see as legitimate degrees ie Engineering, Design, Teaching, etc. Most of the gen ed girls I know don't even attend their classes except for test days. However they are always completely wasted on weekends and have numerous sex partners. Its liberating to them I imagine.
To guys, being a womanless loser is the ultimate insult. To girls, getting around is the ultimate insult. So sad.
I think Fingers general point is that women want sex just as bad as men do. They enjoy sex just as much as men - and men (in general) seem to think that it's ok for guys to go around screwing multiple women, but that women (or at least women that the guy ends up with) should be a virgin - untouched.
Yes. I don't get why guys want virgins anyway. My experiences with them have all been bad. Namely the fact that they don't express any emotion and they bleed really badly not to mention them crying if you go too fast or too hard. I myself prefer the sexually liberated females who make it enjoyable to have sex with. I avoid all virgin girls. I'd rather have a fist fest than bother with them. I think most guys want virgin girls because they are insecure with their sexual performance and they are afraid their chick will be better and leave him for someone more experienced.
Sure if you under 23, your going to find a woman that hasn't had lots of sex
I'd replace 23 with 18. The average age of girls who have sex now is about 15.5 years. Most of them probably got devirginized when they were 13 or 14. Then you got the sexually repressed girls get screwed like crazy when they go to college. I know of a girl who went to my HS who said she'd wait until marriage (she told my friends and I this when she was 16) but the first weekend, she screwed two guys
, and made out with a girl for like 3-4 minutes. By age 23, you should expect that a girl has an average of 10 sex partners, maybe 15-20 if she went to college. To expect less is a crapshoot and to expect to find a large group of virgins is about to embark on a pointless journey.
If she is 30, I'd expect no less than 25 partners.
1. Women who have self-control - i.e. they make choices, and don't just surrender to whichever emotion is powering their bodies.
Here is another sexually repressed member. This person implies that girls who have sex lack self control. I feel sorry often times for the girls that are portrayed as sluts by guys while the men whine about not getting laid or get laid all the time, usually by these "sluts." The only girls I have no respect for are the ones who get STDs. I know condoms aren't 100% but they are 97%+. Chances are if a girl has herpes or the clap, she was penetrated with a raw sausage. Never hit it raw my friends. Once in a while I come across girls who have oral herpes and I don't pity or feel sympathetic towards them. Also girls should know about the guy before. STDs are never invisible. There are
always some external symptoms.
Condoms are very cheap nowadays. If you can't afford those, get some at a hospital. I doubt they'd give out defective rubbers.
I grew up as a strict Christian and have had the idea hammered into me for over a decade that fornication is a grave sin. Indeed, I was even told that masturbation makes God angry!
When I was a kid, I was a good little Catholic boy. I was given so many delusional statements that weren't even in the bible. Most of my teachers were warpigs that basically tackled and demoralized sexuality in every instance. Hell, you thought that the masturbation was bad...I was told that talking to girls in a sexual manner was a sin! Flirting was paralleled with the devil! It made me a scared little boy in an evil world. My social life in this time was decimated. I had 2-3 friends and never talked to them outside class. I received a couple of invitations for mixed gender parties but was scared of them. I'd see a sweet little honey but was too paralyzed to approach because I wanted to get in on the Lord's good side.
I think I was on my way to becoming a DJ after I got my Catholic confirmation in 8th grade. I got $50 for my birthday. I gave $20 of it (which was a lot seeing as how that was my only income except for maybe a $10 here and there for various oddjobs I'd do for my parents) to the church because they were supposed to give it to kids in Haiti. Turns out that they raised about $12k or so and only donated about $3000 to it. The rest of the money, they spent on a new water fountain which I thought was BS (it didn't cost no $9k to get a fountain) and I realized that the fountain was at most 2k and I bet the rest of the money was simply pocketed.
I was so annoyed and so mad that I gave up on churches altogether. People of holy faith are no different than anyone else. I think thats why you hear reports of sexual molestation - their sexuality has been repressed to the point where it got twisted. Chastity is considered a positive attribute and when taken to 100% context, you get this.
Where I´m from (NYC) hoes are considered to be loose women who screw just about eveyone, not so much for personal gain, but because they are horny and lack the self-respect to reserve the intimacy for a man who truy deserves it.
Where I'm from (IA), if a girl has sex with more than two guys, she is a full blown slut. I'm serious. You think that college would be completely liberating but even girls who make out with maybe more than five guys (and this is just making out) is considered a slut. There is this one girl who was deemed a ho in my class as early as 6th grade for showing a boy her underwear. This rep stuck and was so bad that she had to move to another district. It was found out later on from guys that supposedly nailed her and all that other crap that she never had sex. The furthest she got was for a man to suck on her tits. So for us, you don't even need to have sex to be considered a slut.
I think the most sexually liberated places of them all would be Southern California and Southern Florida. I think the best would be Cancun. I think once I get rich, I'm getting a nice house in Cancun so I can go down and nail all the rich honeys there