Kailex said:
This is all I needed to read.
You dodged a MAJOR bullet right here and you definitely know it, Desdi.
The more I've thought about it, the more I realize it. She definitely wanted to move in and had her future plans all focused on it. When I told her I didn't want that, her dreams went crashing down in flames.
I think she had it fixed in her mind to try and change my thoughts on marriage and living together. I told her quite a few times that I didn't want any of that, but she chose to ignore it. Women today know that they have the power to control a man like a puppet. I'm one of the few cases where I refuse to have any of that.
If a woman wants to move into my house with me, she'll have to prove herself worthy. I don't think there's many women out there who are worth this much commitment. She needs to compliment me as a mate, and be able to take care of a home.