They say that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. I agree.'Originally posted by rgeere
Gunwitch, I hope you do not feel that I am putting you down by the things that I have said. I am not, in fact, reading your material has helped me because there were problems in my own life that were specifically pointed out from reading what you wrote. In result, I have a tremendous respect for the fact that you want to help other in this regards.
However, over time I studied your material and got more than a basic grasp of the general context of the entirity your writtings, and I began to see some indications of dysfunctionalism that isn't necessarily healthy, and this was reflected in the advice. In a way, you were revealing yourself to those who read your material, the way you live your life.
You say you have had nine love relationships, and that they have all failed because you got bored, they got annoyed, and you both fought alot. Well, I don't doubt it. Maybe someday there will be a time where you can look back and wonder what you could have done better with your life, and hopefully see some of the mistakes. Life is an experiment and a learning process afterall, atleast you can't regret that fact.
I hope you would take the time to read and seek to understand some of the things that I have been saying in response to this thread. I did it out of respect for you, and I want to return some of what you've given to everyone. I don't have to, but I'm doing it anyways.
I am very happy living my life the way I do and thinking the way I do.
Insanity would be doing anything differently in my book, because it could ruin what I have going.
The "dysfunction" you see in me and the way I think is probably an age, class, area or even race thing.
I hate for quality information to be derailed by talk of "is Gun an OK guy and fine role model?" as that is never what I have wanted to or tried to be. I just explain the process to people what they do with it and what they can take out of if is what is important. I certainly don't want a bunch of Hutner S thrompsonesque "high powered mutants" like myself out there.
But if anything my method has less of ME injected in to it than any other.
The rest of the **** I write is just me goofing off and jabbering on the internet, little to do with the psychological aspects of influence and attraction I present when I am serious.